Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Not Gay Anymore..?

1.  From Gay To Straight - "Reparative Therapy"
2.  Isolation And Persecution 
3.  Gay To Straight + God = Good For You..? 
4.  Your Family Sucks 
5.  FuelMix Has A Question...

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1.  From Gay To Straight - "Reparative Therapy"

"Mr. Smith is one of thousands of men across the country, often known as “ex-gay,” who believe they have changed their most basic sexual desires through some combination of therapy and prayer — something most scientists say has never been proved possible and is likely an illusion."

-------Ex-Gay Men Fight Back Against View That Homosexuality Can't Be Changed, The New York Times, 31 October 2012

1.  HHmmm......there's that issue again.......can a man fighting his gay urges successfully transition to a "normal" heterosexual male.....?

2.  The process of transition, sometimes referred to as "reparative therapy" is ironically, the subject of its own gay bashing. Psychologists decry it, gay activists loathe it, liberals despise it, some politicians (as in the Not So Golden State) have banned its use on minors and the Religious Right that advocates reparative therapy, sometimes expels the gay-to-hetero converts from church.

2.  Isolation And Persecution

1.  Small wonder that ex-gays feel isolated and persecuted.  Often, despite being "cured" they can be as closeted as the terrified fag they thought they were. The only thing they have to validate themselves is their personal therapy experience and the support of a cluster of those who went through it.

3.  Gay To Straight + God = Good For You..? 

1.  The New York Times report quotes a person who sought to reverse the argument to one in favour of reparative therapy:
If I’d known about these therapies as a teen I could have avoided a lot of depression, self-hatred and suicidal thoughts"......... He was tormented as a Christian teenager by his homosexual attractions, but now, after men’s retreats and an online course of reparative therapy, he says he feels glimmers of attraction for women and is thinking about dating. 

“I found that I couldn’t just say ‘I’m gay’ and live that way......"

2. what are we talking about here..? Christian beliefs getting in the way of teenage self-acceptance by creating a paradigm of guilt and self-loathing..?  And what if the "reparative therapy" fails? Will there be a double dose of depression, self-hatred and suicidal thoughts..? Or a triple dose when Mom and Dad (who presumably would be paying for their teenager's therapy) put pressure on the kid to "conform"....?

3.  After all, a gay man isn't "born" with religion like he's born with dark eyes.  Religion, like baby formula, is fed to him in incremental doses, often with no idea of future emotional toxicity levels.

4.  It's no secret that "reparative therapy" has religious overtones.  As per the New York Times report:
Whether they have gone through formal reparative therapy, most ex-gays agree with its tenets even as they are rejected by mainstream scientists. The theories, which have also been adopted by conservative religious opponents of gay marriage, hold that male homosexuality emerges from family dynamics — often a distant father and an overbearing mother — or from early sexual abuse. Confronting these psychic wounds, they assert, can bring change in sexual desire, if not necessarily a total “cure.” 

4.  Your Family Sucks
1.  Hold on a second.........what about those boys who did have a distant father (physically or emotionally) and an overbearing mother AND who grew up straight..?

2.  And what about those boys who did have a distant father (physically or emotionally) and an overbearing mother AND who grew up gay  - AND are quite comfortable with themselves..?  Did they have to go through their own "dark night of the soul", fear, guilt, self-loathing to emerge as (confident) gay men...? Yep. That personal hell in varying degrees, is a rite of passage that every gay kid, gay teenager and gay adult goes through - frequently several times in their lives as their perceptions and emotions evolve.  Is it enough to change basic sexual orientation...? Nope.

3.  What about the effect of biology..? In the series, The Blood of My Children, FuelMix wrote about research showing that a certain hormonal soup to which the developing foetus was exposed, would result in a brain chemistry giving a greater chance of being born gay.

4.  It would appear that advocates of reparative therapy disagree.  As per the New York Times:
"Joseph Nicolosi, a psychologist and clinical director of the Thomas Aquinas Psychological Clinic in Encino, Calif., which he describes as the largest reparative therapy clinic in the world, disagreed.
'I don’t believe that anybody is really gay,” he said. “I believe that all people are heterosexual but that some have a homosexual problem, and some of these people attempt to resolve their conflict by adopting a sociopolitical label called "gay." '
5.  FuelMix Has A Question...

1.  It begs the questions:
  1. Whether their "homosexual problem" is internalized homophobia..?
  2. If one accepts the above quoted premise that nobody "is really gay", to what extent does reparative therapy (whether successful or failed) contribute to self-loathing..? After all, there is an apparent conflict to resolve isn't there...?
  3. If "gay" is a sociopolitical label, then are these ex-gays fighting with actual homosexual attraction and tendencies, or the fear that they might be perceived as gay by their peers...? 
  4. When FuelMix drops his towel in a gay sauna, is he then putting on a sociopolitical label.?
  5. What about confirmed bisexuals happily going AC/DC with not a care in the world..?
  6. When FuelMix  goes out with women one-on-one (which he does), is FuelMix in fact a  heterosexual seeking to resolve "a homosexual problem"....??   Yeah....good one.

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Monday, May 29, 2017

Bottom 9

How they describe themselves: 

Founded in 2013, BOTTOM 9 is a Hong Kong based online retail men’s underwear/swimwear shop. We carry luxury brands from USA, Europe, Australia & Hong Kong. Each brand has their own unique design with high quality fabrics.  The styles are from classic to sexy...... from fashion to sporty to fit different tastes and different body shapes. 

We aim to provide the best online shopping experience to our shoppers.

Our goal is to add more luxury brands to become one of the biggest underwear online shops in Southeast Asia. Please contact us if you want us to carry your brand. 

For Hong Kong residents without a credit card, you can deposit your money to our HSBC account to place an order. After you deposit the money, please email or whatsapp the underwear/swimwear model no, a photo of bank slip, youe full name and mailing address to us.

Straightforward website available in English and Chinese.  Also a drop-down feature to price items in different Asian currencies (plus Australian Dollars, British Pounds and US Dollars).


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Gong Guan Sauna 3

Opened 26 May 2017

3/F Vincent House
30 - 30A Jordan Road (corner of Jordan Road and Shanghai Street)
Yau Ma Tei
Hong Kong
MTR: Jordan Station Exit A

Tel: 6883 6475

Opening Hours: 
Sunday-Thursday: 12 noon to 12 Midnight
Friday - Saturday: 12 noon to 10am the next day  

Regular Entrance Fee: HK$168.00
Early Bird Fee: HK$80.00 12 Noon to 5pm

The Sauna For Fat Gays..??

1.  We never take the "reviews" on TravelGayAsia seriously,  but here's what "a reviewer"said a day after it opened:

"Very beautiful Asian Modern style decoration. Spacious, clean, neat and tidy. Aroma arrangements are just to the point. Staff are nice and helpful. Really a place surprised me.“

2.  To which FuelMix would observe:
  • No indication whether it's open 24 hours;
  • No indication of the price paid;
  • No indication whether the staff speak English;
  • No indication of facilities;
  • No indication of private rooms;
  • No indication of type of clientele;
  • No indication of whether he would go back;
  • Picture used is a promotional picture; 

3.  If Gong Guan's previous advertising is any clue, this is a sauna for Fat Gays (and /or their admirers). Judging by some of the pics of their followers on the Facebook page, we appear to be right. 

4.  At a regular entrance fee of $168.00 Gong Guan is pricey, second only to Hutong's official entrance fee.
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Sunday, May 28, 2017

Affection, Cuddles And Kisses

Our (entirely unscientific, but probably correct) observations suggest that when we look into many gay men's eyes, we see profound sadness, an emptiness, a longing for authenticity, a weariness, more questions than answers, a secret wish for someone special to whom they could speak sacred Truth.

Somebody observed that one of the most frustrating things is that there are more single people on the planet wanting a relationship - yet for all the technology, the dating agencies, the bars, the speed dating, the casual hookups, it's become harder to actually meet someone that's right for you. (And that's not counting the Gay Exclusionary Barriers like  Age, Looks, Body Type, Ethnicity, HIV status).

Happily single as FuelMix is for now (you never know who might come along...) trust us, dear reader, we've been through our own patented, private hell attempting to figure out the who..?, what..?, why..?, why me..? and WTF..?!! moments of swimming in a predatory, debauched, drug-fucked, dismissive, racist, politically correct, dysfunctional, jaded, potentially fatal, Gay Ocean - with no Lifeguard in sight.

Apparently this is where they all went :

As a gift of mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to those drowning in anguish, we offer the following:
Send love to FuelMix:

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Bi - furcation

“OMG…!!” crooned the very muscular GAM jock with the interesting face, “I’ve been cruising you for nearly an hour…and you just ignored me……you’re so different to the other guys...I don’t know how to put it… don’t seem to need anyone.....but they all want you…..I guess it’s your looks and your total self-confidence….can I kiss you…?  Look..!!…there’s 4 other guys cruising you too..!!

And with that, FuelMix felt a pair of muscular arms caressing his bod as the GAM jock began to nuzzle him, planting soft gentle kisses on FuelMix’s neck and face. GAM jock led FuelMix into one of the private rooms in the gay sauna and began to suck his cock.

Except......that FuelMix couldn’t get hard. The GAM jock looked up startled…

GAM Jock:  OMG, it’s me isn’t it..??!!

FM: Um….. I’m not sure, I don’t usually have this problem...

GAM Jock:   I knew it..!! I just knew something bad would happen…you know, I’m not really gay..! I broke up with my girlfriend and I miss her like crazy. I don’t usually suck cock, as you can tell

FM: Um…….

GAM Jock:  I really shouldn’t be here, I’m so fuckin’ confused and hate myself [ starts sobbing and whimpering ] Oh, please…! don’ t look at me while I’m crying. I feel terrible, just awful [ continues sobbing and whimpering ]

FM: Perhaps you should go home and take it easy

GAM Jock: You don’t understand. I’m actually str8. If I have sex with a guy I’m usually a Top. I don’t come to saunas often, really I don’t. But sometimes I just need a guy……something about you just hit me…I thought I could relate to you 'coz I prefer foreign, confident guys

FM: Gee, thanks……

GAM Jock:  You don't understand. I’m fucked up..!! I’ve lied to my girlfriend and I don’t know if I’m lying to myself or to you right now.

FM: You on chems, dude..?

GAM Jock:  No, don’t do that stuff. I’m just so confused about everything. I still love my girlfriend but I find you attractive and yet I can’t please you. I’m really choosy about the guys I have sex with – but I’m not gay. Does that make any sense?

FM:  Dude, you’re a fag through and through. When the pressure is on and the chips are down, you’ll run to a man who fits your definition of attractiveness.

GAM Jock:  I’m 85% str8 and one day I’ll have kids

FM:  So….you like fuckin’ your girlfriend then?

GAM Jock:  I’ve never fucked her. She’s a Christian. She won’t do it till we marry

FM:  So who’ve you been fuckin’ in the meantime?

GAM Jock:  Guys......I like it when guys find me attractive, especially when I’m in the gym

FM:  So what are you...? A fag in a holding pattern till the Christian bitch marries you..? Except she won’t now that you’ve dumped her.

GAM Jock:  If I get married, I could limit myself to fuckin' a guy every 6 months. I'm pretty sure I could do that.

FM:  Yeah, you could fit it into your dental appointments. Dude, why not just admit you’re gay and you could be a really good cocksucker..?

GAM Jock: What about my parents...? They expect me to marry and have kids.

FM:  Do your parents expect you to live a lie...? You're gonna lie to your parents, your wife AND your kids about who you really prefer to fuck...?

GAM Jock:  Yeah why not..? Life would be pretty easy. I’ve lied to my girlfriend so far.  She asked if I was having sex with other women and I said,"No".  I told her the truth.  I'm not fucking other women.

FM:   Yeah, that's classic.  She asks a limited question, you give a limited answer.  And here you are with another dude in a sauna sobbing over the fact that you broke up with her because you can't face who you really are - a fag, and a lying fag at that.  You're a real piece of work.

GAM Jock: I’ve always been a liar. So what...?

FM:  Except that the truth of who you really are makes you cry.  I'll bet your parents already know you’re gay. They ain’t stupid.

GAM Jock:  You expect me to come out to my parents?

FM:  You don't have the guts.  That's the one body part you can't pump in the gym.  You either have it or you don't.

GAM Jock:  So what do you think I should do?  I still love my girlfriend but not sexually.  I'd like her to be my friend, but no more than that.  I think there's an emotional attachment, but I don't think it's love.  I don't want to tell her I prefer men.

FM:   Tell her you're not the man for her in the long run.  Tell her your feelings towards her are more like a deep friendship rather than romantic or sexual and you broke up with her because you didn't want to commit to something when your heart wasn't in it.  You can leave it at that.  If she's strong enough to handle it, then tell her your main feelings are towards men.  Since you're not gonna marry her, you might as well take the abuse and the anger now.  If she doesn't want to be your friend she'll give you a clear signal.

GAM Jock:  You still wanna have sex with me?

FM: No.

Originally published 15 July 2010.  
Republished 8 February 2013 | 14 November 2015 | 28 May 2017

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Saturday, May 27, 2017

白左 : The "White Left": Screwed By The Chinese

Hey white boy.....we warned you that your political Left-leaning entitlement mentality would get you screwed in a changing world

See our posts, To The Left, To The Left 1, 2 and 3

Now, Mainland Chinese are calling you out on it - brutally and accurately

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After the last election, the far-left in [American] society became a laughing stock. The social justice warriors, the progressives, the regressive left; whatever you want to call them, they became a joke after Trump was elected. And it wasn’t because they lost the election. It was because of how they reacted to losing. We all witnessed what amounted to a nationwide temper tantrum on November 9th. And in the weeks that followed, it became apparent that these people aren’t just childish. They are freaking insane. 

However, it may surprise you to learn that these people aren’t just a joke in America. They are the laughing stock of the world. They are looked down upon, even in countries where they don’t have a significant presence.

In China for instance, they have a word for these people. They are called “baizuo” or the “white left” on social media. Which is interesting, because even though China has its fair share of socialists and communists, they don’t have a direct equivalent to our liberal snowflakes. Most of the Chinese are still fiercely nationalistic and anti-immigrant, regardless of political affiliation. That country just doesn’t have a large population of politically correct, affluent liberals (presumably, they were all killed off during the Great Leap Forward). So what does this term mean to the average Chinese citizen?.....

Although the emphasis varies, baizuo is used generally to describe those who only care about topics such as immigration, minorities, LGBT and the environment” and “have no sense of real problems in the real world”; they are hypocritical humanitarians who advocate for peace and equality only to “satisfy their own feeling of moral superiority”; they are “obsessed with political correctness” to the extent that they “tolerate backwards Islamic values for the sake of multiculturalism”; they believe in the welfare state that “benefits only the idle and the free riders”; they are the “ignorant and arrogant westerners” who “pity the rest of the world and think they are saviours.

Baizuo has basically become the go to word for Chinese social media users, who want to trash other people in online debates. It’s also frequently used to make light of what is viewed in China, as the inherent weakness of western democracies. So not only has the far-left made themselves into a joke, they’re making everyone else who supports Western civilization look bad all around the world.

It just goes to show, the people who speak the loudest in society often become the face of that society, even if most sane people aren’t taking them seriously anymore.

-----"Baizuo" Is The New Derogatory Term Millions Of Chinese Are Using To Describe America's "White Left" Regressive Liberals, Daniel Lang,, May 17, 2017

FuelMix says:

To say that we hooted with laughter and amazement when we read this, would be an understatementThe Chinese nailed it.  We have in this blog analyzed the antics of the Left in the West, whom we called the Liberal-Fascists.  This group includes large numbers of non-thinking, usually drug-fucked, politically correct fags who are only too keen to vilify, boycott, berate and indulge in all the accoutrements of "Outrage" that the independently thinking gay man has come to loathe. 

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The Greased Hole

The 30-something Skinny GAM bent forwards at a 90 degree angle in order to take the thrusts of the chunky GAM who was fucking him in the Dark Area.

30-something Skinny GAM grabbed FuelMix's forearm and started kissing his abs, working his way to FuelMix's nipples, chest and armpits. Several times he deep kissed FuelMix as he was being fucked.  And then in perfect English:

30SGAM [while getting fucked]: wanna fuck me too...?  Your cock is perfect for me..!!

FM:  How...?

30SGAM [while getting fucked]:  You can fuck me deep like this guy.... Aaah...Aaaah...Uuuhh...Aaahh....he's fucking me bareback...!!  I greased my hole....after he cums in can fuck me too....bareback yeah..?  His cum, my lube, your cock...!!  Just perfect...!! wanna...?

FM:  Not right now....

30SGAM [while getting fucked]:  Lemme kiss your chest and have a fuckin' hot body..!!  C'mon..!! Aaah...Aaaah...Aaahh...he's gonna cum soon....then your turn OK...?

FM:  No thanks....

30SGAM [while getting fucked]:  AAah...Aaah...Aaah...Oooohh... Fuuuuckkk...!! He's cumming..!!  He's cumming in my ass...!!  real deeeeepp....AAahhhhhh.....Aaaaahhhhhh......OOOhhhhhh....Fuuuuuckkk!!!

(The chunky GAM who was fucking him bareback, disappeared into the darkness)

30SGAM [to FuelMix]:  I wanna kiss your body man..!! Wanna lick you all over...!! [bundles FM to a private room, starts kissing FM's bod, working his way down to FM's cock.  Then straddles FM's hard cock, rubbing his ass crack up and down FM's cock, bends over to deep kiss FM and whispers  in his ear]: C'mon man..!! Fuck me bareback..!! You can feel my greased hole on your cock...!!  C'mon....don't let my lube and his cum dry in my hole..!!  You have a hot body..!! Fuuuckk me...FUUUUUCCKKK MEEEEE...!! pllleeeease..!!  My hole is screaming for your cock...!!

FM:  I don't fuck bareback, dude....

30SGAM [straddling FM's cock, rubbing his ass crack up and down FM's cock and whispering in FM's ear]:  C'mon..!! Live a little...!! Don't let your body and cock go to waste...!!  Your cock is made for fucking...!!  My hole is your pussy...!!  Hhhmmmm...??  You can fuck me till I scream...!!  I didn't scream for the other guy...I'll scream for you...I promise...I'll scream for you baby...!! [rubbing his ass crack up and down on FM's cock while twitching his hole]

FM:   Sorry dude, I'm not gonna fuck you bareback...

30SGAM[rubbing his ass crack up and down on FM's cock and whispering in FM's ear] Just a little bit....!! Just a little bit....!! A quick bareback fuck to make this boy he can walk around with 2 cum loads....!! Hhmmm..???

FM: No thanks dude

30SGAM [deep kissing FM]:  You want some favours..?  Ecstacy  maybe..?  I have some..!! You want Poppers too..??

FM:  Not into either of those.  Don't do drugs...

30SGAM [hopping off FM]  OK....well... see ya...!![opens room door and runs away]

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Thursday, May 25, 2017

Sorry No Asians..? Think Again

Chinese Company Buys Grindr - Completely

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The world’s largest gay social media app is now owned by the Chinese, after a little-known Beijing tech company agreed to acquire full control of America’s Grindr for US$240 million, and fully engage in its daily operations. 

Beijing Kunlun Tech, a game developer owned by 38-year-old billionaire Zhou Yahui, said on Wednesday it planned to pay US$152 million to buy the remaining 38 per cent stake in Grindr that it does not already own. Kunlun paid about US$88 million for a 62 per cent stake of the social media app in January. 

The takeover comes at a time when China, the world’s most populous nation but lagging the West in achieving equal legal status for its homosexual citizens, is cultivating a lucrative industry catering to the social needs of the gay community. China, estimated by a study to have an LGBT group bigger than the entire population of France, is also changing its attitudes towards this community.

Grindr, founded in 2009 in the United States, is the world’s largest LGBT social-network application, counting over 27 million registered users across 196 countries and territories across the world.“It is of strategic importance for us to fully engage in the daily operations of Grindr and make it our development milestone,” Kunlun said in a statement. 

The Chinese company expected to bank on Grindr as a new growth engine, as the eight-year-old app proved to be a cash cow that had posted US$13.7 million in net profit for 2014, thanks to its rapidly growing membership.

While it is uncertain how the marriage between a Chinese game developer and an American gay dating app will bolster each other’s prospects, Grindr’s founder and chief executive Joel Simkhai described the deal in a blog post as “a huge vote of confidence in our vision to connect gay men to even more of the world around them."

China’s gay dating and hook-up industry is still in its infancy, partly because homosexuality has long been a cultural taboo. But the thriving LGBT communities in big cities such as Beijing and Shanghai have already led to the remarkable success of Blued, a Chinese gay dating app start-up, which boasts of over 27 million registered users  – almost on par with Grindr.

Blued, founded in 2012 by former policement Ma Baoli , last year completed its latest round of fundraising, boosting its net worth to US$300 million, exceeding the US$240 million price tag for Grindr. It has also extended its footprint overseas, competing head on with Grindr and Jack’d.  Chinese tech giants have scrambled to invest in social networking apps, which normally make money out of charging members fees for exclusive access or through advertising, with Alibaba and Tencent's  stakes in Snapchat.

Although homosexuality is irreconcilable with the mainstream values in China, the LGBT community has made huge gains in social acceptance since homosexuality was decriminalised in 1997......

But analysts warn of regulatory risks to gay-focused businesses as the country’s stringent regulations designed to stop dissemination of “pornography” could easily bar users’ access to gay social media apps or censor relevant contents. 

FuelMix says:

1.  On the same day that Taiwan became the first Chinese society to legalize same-sex marriage, a Mainland Chinese company made an outright purchase of Grindr, the world's largest gay social media app.

2.  Two Chinese companies now own the 2 biggest gay social apps, one of which is US-based and the other Chinese-based:
  • Beijing Kunlun Tech - Grindr;
  • Blued -
3.  The assumed result..?  The Chinese now know the location, age, stats, sexual habits and sexual history of virtually every gay man on the planet.

4.  Just think how useful that information could be.....

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Birds (Gay Playspace) And Galaxy Sauna

Does FuelMix really have to write about these 2 places...??  ** sigh** OK...OK...let's get it over with:

Latest feedback from our friendly GAM-Throats-On-The-Street... 

1.  Birds and Galaxy continue to attract Fuglies.  Birds gets the full spectrum of skinny Fuglies, gym fit Fuglies and fat Fuglies, mostly local GAMs, but also some Asian tourists.  We are told that the clientele ranks pretty low on the looks scale, even though there may be about 20 or more people there.  Again, we are hearing that MyWay gets the better looking crowd.

2.  Birds has joined the ranks of Central Escalator and Galaxy in attracting older white guys, some of them showing up with a friendly GAM.  In Birds, older GWMs show up in the early afternoons.  In Galaxy they'll show up around 5pm onwards.  These older whites may be locally resident or tourists.  

3. Apparently the older whites showing up in Galaxy can be quite submissive and eager to service.  Many of these older whites no longer go to Central Escalator (the reasons are not clear) but they feel more comfortable with the Chinese clientele in Galaxy, notwithstanding the decrepit state of the premises.  Some have lived in Hong Kong for a number of years and can no longer relate to the transient expatriate mentality.

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Same Sex Marriage In Taiwan !! 2

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The LGBT community and its supporters across Asia and the world are celebrating today after a landmark ruling in Taiwan that paves the way for same-sex marriage. 

The decision cements Taiwan's role as a trailblazer in the region, where gay rights are often contentious and same-sex sexual activity sometimes outlawed.

Longtime gay rights activist Chi Chia-wei was one of the petitioners who brought the case to the Constitutional Court.

Chi asked the court to rule on whether the Civil Code, which defines marriage as a union between a man and a woman, was in violation of the Constitution.

The court ruled that restricting people of the same gender from marrying was unconstitutional, and it ordered the government to revise the offending article within two years.

In an English-language version of its decision, the court stated: "Disallowing two persons of the same sex to marry ... is a different treatment, also obviously having no rational basis. Such different treatment is incompatible with the spirit and meaning of the right to equality as protected by Article 7 of the Constitution."

-----"Ruling puts Taiway on verge of being first in Asia to have same-sex marriage", The China Post, May 24, 2017


Crowds of supporters cheered, hugged and wept as the court said current laws preventing the practice "violated" the constitution's guarantees of freedom of marriage and equality. It gave the government two years to implement the ruling......

The constitutional court said if parliament does not make the change within two years, same-sex couples could register to marry regardless, based on its interpretation. 

Currently Taiwan's Civil Code stipulates an agreement to marry can only be made between a man and a woman. 

"The current provisions of the marriage chapter do not allow two persons of the same sex to create a permanent union of an intimate and exclusive nature for the committed purpose of managing a life together. This is obviously a gross legislative flaw," the court said in a statement. 

The decision to allow gay marriage would bolster social stability and protect "human dignity" it added.

-----"Taiwan top court rules in favour of gay marriage", Channel NewsAsia, 24 May 2017

FuelMix says:

1.  Did you get that fags..?   On 24 May 2017, the Taiwan Constitutional Court delivered an ultimatum to the government. Namely:
  • Pass the relevant legislation within 2 years allowing same-sex marriages; OR
  • In default, same sex couples will have the automatic right to register their marriages;
2.  For the advocates of same-sex marriage, the Court's decision doesn't get any better than this.  Taiwan has just become the first Chinese society to legalize same-sex marriage.

3.  For the government of Taiwan, whose female President campaigned on a gay-friendly platform, the Constitutional Court's decision amounts to a mandate to fast-track the relevant legislation.  In December 2016, the Taiwanese legislature passed the first draft of a bill amending the civil code to legalize gay marriage by replacing the phrase, "male and female parties" with the phrase, "two parties".

4.  More importantly, that decision will be noticed in other Chinese speaking societies: China, Macao, Hong Kong and Singapore and momentum will build for similar moves.

5.  We would not be surprised if gay men in Korea, Japan and Thailand started making noises too.

6.  Expect the Muslims in Malaysia and Indonesia to get even more restrictive with calls for the greater use of Sharia Law to counter such moral pollution.

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Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Same Sex Marriage In Taiwan ? 1

.....Self-ruled Taiwan's constitutional court will rule on Wednesday [24 May 2017] whether same-sex couples can tie the knot under existing law, in a decision the island's lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender groups widely expect to be favorable. Such an outcome would be a first in Asia,........

But even a favorable decision by the court, or Judicial Yuan, as it is known, could take a year or two to translate into laws allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry, experts say.

This is because the court is expected to give lawmakers time to frame relevant measures, said one lawyer who frequently appears before it.

Democratic Taiwan is famed for an annual gay pride parade that showcases the vibrancy of its lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

The community has high expectations its years-long effort to legalize same-sex marriage will win the court's backing, because of support for gay rights by the ruling Democratic Progressive Party (DPP) that swept national elections last year......

If the court decides current law does not permit same-sex marriage, it is expected to rule whether such denial violates Taiwan citizens' freedom to marry and constitutional rights.....

The court held a public hearing in March, after years of refusal to take up the issue, prompted by petitions from a gay rights activist and a city government facing growing requests for same-sex marriages......

Legal experts say the 15 judges on the court form the most liberal such group ever, with seven appointed by Tsai after becoming president......

FuelMix says:

1.  Depending on your definition of Asia, Taiwan may, or may not, be the first in Asia.  Apparently back in 2007, the Supreme Court of Nepal asked the government to end sexual discrimination of minorities (not fully implemented); legally recognize a third gender (which they've done); AND explore the legalization of same-sex marriage (which they're sorta doing).

2.  And once again, Asia's World City (that would be us here in Very Rich Megacity) and Singapore - both affluent and with a growing gay population (we hate the word, "community" - it makes us vomit) plus Thailand (which does NOT recognize same sex marriage, contrary to public perception), are gonna be left behind.  Even more ironic considering the local hoopla in anticipation of Very Rich Megacity being awarded the Gay Games in 2022.

3.  Meanwhile in Jakarta, Indonesia, where homosexuality is apparently legal nationwide but severely (and recently violently) restricted by Sharia law and attitudes, (particularly in the province of Aceh),  the police arrested 141 gay guys in a gay gym / sauna on charges of prostitution and widely disseminated their pictures.  Perhaps someone should politely inform them that if they're looking for Indonesian male prostitutes, they'll find them on Hong Kong's Craigslist M2M pages.  New (ugly) faces every week.

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Monday, May 22, 2017

To The Left..! To The Left..! 3

Why Politically Left-Leaning Fags With The Entitlement Mentality Are Screwed In A Changing World

4.  The Lightbulb Moment
5.  Facing A Dangerous And Uncertain Future
6.  A Lack of Vision in Fagland 

4.   The Lightbulb Moment

1.   If FuelMix is correct in his observations in Parts 1 and 2, then Fagland particularly in the West, is a microcosm of a banana republic or a failed state.

2.   And how does a banana republic get by? By begging for handouts from international donors.

3.   And what do “democrats”, “socialists”, “liberals” and other left leaning pinkos promise to do? Grab the money from somebody else and give it over.

4.   And that’s music to the ears of the economically unstable, transient, sexually irresponsible, part-time hustling, drug fucked, health challenged fag (all of which are characteristics of a failed state or a crumbling ghetto - fag or nigga). Essentially, they want the freedom to live a suicidal life at somebody else’s expense.

5.   FuelMix feels the most sympathy for the intelligent, healthy,  ageing gay man who can’t afford to live anywhere else. It’s a crying shame that neither the governments nor “the community” have fully considered the implications of the single baby boomer. With Gay Ageism, the glitter of Fagland wears thin, the late nites and the feathered boas have got to go, the porn becomes predictable and he’s tired of hugging fags who smell of poppers, Calvin Klein's "Obsession" and weed.

5.  Facing A Dangerous and Uncertain Future

1.   Before any fag accuses FuelMix of  Western ghetto bashing or Asia-crowing, just remember this. It’s not how much money you can suck from the nipple of the politicians that will save Fagland. It’s how you re-arrange your thinking, your habits and your conscious actions in the face of monumental and historically unprecedented global social and financial change.  Partisan politics, biased lamestream gay media, the "village mentality" and enforced political correctness is out - and will kill you through ignorance and complacency.

2.   The geopolitical and economic split between the West and East has never been more pronounced or more dangerous. Resentment and anger are building.  The massive amounts of global fraud (and propaganda)  imposed by the Western banking elite (who are desperate to create a major war) are now apparent.

3.   Asia and the rest of the world are well aware that the West is broke and debt-ridden on a scale never before seen in history.  And that this debt simply cannot be repaid - despite the trillions dished out so far and the "creative" accounting.  The global currency and financial wars are  raging in cyberspace.  World War 3 has  begun as more countries engage in competitive devaluation while simultaneously protecting themselves from the effects of a a toxic US Dollar that - as global reserve currency - is exporting inflation to every other country.

4.   At the same time, those with half a brain are attempting to divine how this shit will play out. 
  • Will there be inflation now then hyper-inflation later.....?
  • Will there be deflation first then rapid and uncontrolled hyper-inflation.....?
  • Will there be deflation first, followed by stagflation (i.e. the economy sinks, but prices rise).....?
  • What happens when global reserve currency status fails....?  Check your history.  It's happened every time.
  • When global reserve currency status fails this time, will it happen overnight, or through a slow painful process...?
5.   So.....fags,  just which shade of government - whether Left or Right - is gonna protect you from these monumental changes that are now visible on the horizon....?  And just how much time do you have....?

6.  To assume that fags are immune to these global financial changes, is the normalcy bias that should alarm every independently thinking gay man.  Wake up faggot......the fashionable Left-leaning ideology that you wear like a charm bracelet, is a fuckin' side show.  Forget about sucking off the nipple of the state.  That is sooooo last Millennium and the Western governments are broke anyway.  All they can do is tax you.  And they will.

6.  A Lack of Vision in Fagland

1.  You want money in Fagland...? Fuck your Left-Leaning political parties where the hacks just show up for the photo-op, the fundraiser or march with big grins in the Pride Parade.  How about developing:
  • individual resiliency;
  • "community" accountability (instead of fraud, corruption, conflicts of interest, disappearing into the night); 
  • sustainable corporate entrepreneurship;
  • job creation;
  • emotional and behavioural intelligence, 
  • growth businesses based on gay demographic changes (gay housing for seniors, gay seniors education, job upgrade skills), 
  • joint ventures with property developers;
  • private equity.....;

2.  Try generating the money and sharing it. (Rather than sucking it and skimming it). Seriously.....where are the gay visionaries who can articulate a cohesive social and business template that will generate and circulate wealth....?  Hardly anyone talks about the massive wealth disparity amongst gay men. But EVERYBODY lines up for that fundraiser or dip their cock in the government guacomole.

3.  Fags are not only politically correct but overtly political, little realizing that their adherence to the left-leaning "ideology" (or any political gospel) is keeping them weak and co-dependent.  The bottom line is that the only marketable skills the average fag has are Outrage and Lobbying.

4.  Some good that's gonna do ya buddy. Looked at the horizon lately....??

Originally published 23 October 2008
Amended and Republished 7 September 2013 | 31 October 2014 | 22 May 2017

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To The Left..! To The Left..! 2

Why Politically Left-Leaning Fags With The Entitlement Mentality Are Screwed In A Changing World

3.  Fagland's Dilemma
4.  The Lightbulb Moment
5.  Facing A Dangerous And Uncertain Future
6.  A Lack of Vision in Fagland 
3.   Fagland’s Dilemma

1.  Jobs
  1. Low to mid level service industry jobs - particularly in the West;
  2. Temporary or seasonal jobs forcing fags to combine jobs - particularly in the West;
  3. Internally transient population caused by unstable earning power - particularly in the West;
  4. Huge levels of unemployed or underemployed - particularly in the West;

2.  Demographics and Health
  1. Large chunks of population in dubious health requiring medical supervision and medication;
  2. Growing numbers of fag baby boomers approaching retirement who can’t afford to live anywhere else and who may, or may not, be in good health. Highly visible in the West now and potentially looming in Asia with years of increasing recreational drug use;

3.  Gay Ghetto Physical Infrastructure
  1. Huge shortage of gay nursing homes, retirement homes and hospices - particularly in the West; 
  2. The problem has not even been acknowledged in Asia;
  3. Large percentage of rentals vs owner occupation - particularly in the West;
  4. Slow or non existent fag-originated gentrification - particularly in the West; 
  5. Signs of urban gentrification occurring in Asia;

4.  Collapsing Gay Social Infrastructure 
  1. Crumbling fag infrastructure with constant pleas for funding outreach and social programs - particularly in the West; 
  2. Asia is developing those resources through lobbying and private funding;
  3. Desperate attempts in the West to keep up appearances – “our community”, “our village”- in the face of economic forces bigger than them - usually Hetero Yuppification, luxury (and unaffordable to the average fag) condos, mixed and more expensive bars resulting in a dilution of fag-centric diversity; All these cause resentment to the fag.  Asia appears more tolerant to evolving economic and demographic changes in the drive for upward mobility;
  4. In the West, the fag feels socially, personally, economically and politically threatened. There is pervasive paranoia and easily triggered outrage as the full extent of the economic issues and political shifts dawn on the fag;
Coming up in Part 3:

4.  The Lightbulb Moment
5.  Facing A Dangerous and Uncertain Future 
6.  A Lack of Vision in Fagland

Originally published 23 October 2008
Amended and Republished 7 September 2013 | 30 October 2014 | 22 May 2017

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To The Left..! To The Left..! 1

Why Politically Left-Leaning Fags With The Entitlement Mentality Are Screwed In A Changing World

1.  What The Fags Say
2.  FuelMix's Theory of Fagland
3.  Fagland's Dilemma
4.  The Lightbulb Moment
5.  Facing A Dangerous And Uncertain Future
6.  Lack of Vision in Fagland 

An intriguing question about Fagland is why so many fags lean to the political left – in other words, some local variation of “socialist”, “democrat” or “liberal”.

1.  What The Fags Say

Their answers can be summarized as follows:

*Fag points to the local fag rag, itself heavily left leaning, and trots out the party line.

*Fag vilifies any party perceived as aligning too closely with the perceived right, or right of centre, or conservative, because they represent “the corporate elite”, “the developers”, “the fascists”, “those fucked up Christians” etc

*Fag makes some vague reference to the erosion of human rights (a.k.a. his right to toke and snort)

*Fag claims that funding for social programs would be reduced or terminated and they have to keep lobbying for them.

*Some peculiarly micro-fag issue that wild ghetto speculation has inflated into something ominous e.g. “You know they’re gonna ban G-strings on the Pride Float” or “You know they’re gonna shut down Thursday male stripper nite” or “You know they’re gonna put undercover cops in that cruisy toilet at the mall”

Just who “they” are is never defined, though it appears to be any candidate or institution deemed not politically pink enough.

2.   FuelMix’s Theory Of Fagland

1.   We have said elsewhere in this blog that Fagland can be a geographical area or a state of mind, or both.  In this post, Fagland refers to the geographically identifiable gay ghetto.

2.   Fagland is economically unsound. Large chunks of its population are in questionable health whether from sex, drugs, drink or all three. Their health issues are the result of their lifestyle choices. That affects their earning power.

3.   With few exceptions, (the sector catering to luxury gay tourism) large chunks of Fagland’s population are low to mid-level service industry types:
  • tiny law firms specializing in tenancy issues, immigration, crime and wills; 
  • tiny accountants and bookeeping firms;
  • retail sales staff;
  • bank clerks;
  • hair stylists;
  • flight attendants;
  • hotel and tourism front desk staff;
  • admin personnel;
  • IT contract workers;
  • Bar and restaurant staff;
  • Freelancers;
  • college students

4.   A fag might hold two or more low level or mid level jobs at the same time

5.  The low or mid level service industry jobs may be seasonal or transient. A fag may have to flit from job to job, or a series of rotating potentially dead-end jobs which they hold for years as it’s the only job security they can get.

6.   At first glance, Fagland’s purchasing power appears phenomenal. Everybody sings about The Pink Dollar. There’s no shortage of places to spend the cash: bars, cafes, restaurants, dance parties, after-parties, saunas, drugs, gay cruises and vacations, body hugging T-shirts, jeans, gym, underwear, cockrings, lube, toys, porn, organic groceries, lattes, speed dating evenings…..

7.   The reality is that the ghetto fag lives pay check to pay check. The money runs out before the month does and their spending habits are typically those of the Poor – money comes in and blows right out again on rent, groceries, gym, sex, drugs and doodah – with nothing to fall back on.

8.  A steady stream of outside fags comes to Fagland for “the lifestyle”. Often they are young, or students, or just starting out. In either case, they don’t have much earning power or much of a work history. They’ll take any job they can get preferably within easy or walking distance from Fagland so they can start spending on “the lifestyle”. What may start off as experimentation quickly becomes a financially draining addiction. Their whole world revolves around Fagland – and Fagland is only too happy to take their money. With the pressure of school, an unsteady part time job, rent and that after-party he’s been dying to go to, part time prostitution and a toe in the porn industry looks quite attractive.

8.  Of necessity, there is heavy flat sharing with constant shifting of roommates caused by unstable earning power, job relocation or personal concerns. It hardly contributes to a sense of community, but it certainly contributes to a sense of outrage. Fags have horror stories of their roommate from hell, who stole money from whom, who borrowed cash and never paid it back, who’s dealing, who trashed Jason’s 34” flat screen TV, who passed out with their head in the toilet.

Coming Up in Parts 2 and 3:

3.  Fagland's Dilemma
4.  The Lightbulb Moment
5.  Facing A Dangerous And Uncertain Future
6.  Lack of Vision in Fagland

Originally published 23 October 2008
Amended and Republished 7 September 2013 | 30 October 2014 | 22 May 2017

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Lamentations In The Sauna

"It's not fair..!!" whined the GAM in the sauna, "how come YOU get all the looks and the attention..??  Everybody is ignoring me - and the place is soooo crowded on Saturday evening...!!"

FuelMix: I'm not sure.....maybe because I look different to the others. Just a non-Chinese novelty. Maybe  they're curious. I dunno.....I'm just another customer who paid to be here.

GAM:  Hah..!!  They're NOT curious about YOU..!! They WANT you..!!  Four of them watched you when you were getting undressed....even the staff on the Reception Desk smiled at you and said in Cantonese to the other guys to look at you...!!  Did you hear that...??!!

FM: Umm... no....I wasn't listening, I was nowhere in the vicinity

GAM:  They all touch your smooth skin.....they all like your body.....they touch you when you walk by.....they follow you.....and you just smile......that young guy......he just came up to you and kissed your face...!!  You know him..??

FM: No, I don't....

GAM:  He just kissed you and smiled and walked away....!! You tell me you don't know him..??!!

FM: That's the truth.  I don't know him.  But I'm grateful he kissed me [grins].

GAM:  It's NOT fair..!!  I'm just too ugly to get noticed.  I just sit here every time I show up and feel sooo sad...!!.  Guys like you can just walk in and you do NOTHING and people notice you.

FM:  Gay men can be very cruel.  I have been ignored and rejected so many times because of my looks and my race - and not just by Asian guys.  You should see the behaviour of white guys in their own countries.

GAM:  Why are gay men so cruel..?

FM:  Because gay culture is artificial.  It is based on looks and cock size. The image of perfection is very narrowly defined.  The truth is many gay men - whatever their age -  can't get beyond appearance.  It has trapped them in two ways...Firstly, Vanity that they're sooo hot and secondly, Fear that they'll lose their looks.

GAM:  But how come YOU get action so easily..?

FM:  Because I don't care whether I get it or not.  And I don't care about the compliments.

[A Sauna staff member walks by and gives FM 2 sweets and a condom]

GAM:  You don't CARE about the compliments..??!!  But YOU get sooo many..!!  They are complimenting you right now in Cantonese and come up and tell you in English..!!  Whaddya mean you don't care..??!!  That staff guy just gave you sweets and a condom....!! He totally ignored me..!! I've NEVER seen him do that before - and I come here more often than you..!!

FM:  Look, I don't know what the motive is of that staff member and I don't care.  The trick is to politely and in a neutral way, accept the attention.  Just show some good manners.  I'll tell you a dirty men will say anything to get to your cock - and they will gossip like hell.  And that gossip can be good or malicious.  That's why I don't care because I can't control it. 

GAM:  You have an advantage because you're handsome and you have muscles.

FM:  According to whom...?  The current crowd..??  What happens if a new crowd came in and totally ignored me....what would you say to me then..??

GAM:  But I know I am ugly.....and I have no more sperm to ejaculate any more.  Nothing....I am 45 years old and I can't get hard any more and I have no more sperm. I can't cum anymore.  That's why I just sit here and feel so sad.

FM:  You should see a doctor or a sexual therapist.  As men age, their sperm counts drops and so does the amount of cum.  But that doesn't mean you can't have good sex or get hard.  If you had a physical check up and a good talk, you would understand more about your body.  You are linking getting hard with cumming.  They are separate.  There should not be anything stopping you from getting horny and performing sexually - assuming there are no other physical problems.

GAM:.....Except my ugliness.....

FM:  No comment.

GAM:  How come you know so much about gay men..?  You seem very cool and relaxed about all the attention you're getting.  Who taught you about gay men..?

FM:  Mostly my observations and thinking.  Some research, I guess...

GAM [laughs]:  You should write about what you know of gay men.  You could help people...

FM:  **rolls eyes**

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Sunday, May 21, 2017

The Pink Swastika 3

And you thought the Nazis hated gays...

A review of the book, "The Pink Swastika: Homosexuality In The Nazi Party" authored by Scott Lively and Kevin Abrams.  The book challenges the popular notion that the Nazis were homophobic.

Summary of conclusions drawn by "The Pink Swastika" authors based on the review, The Pink Swastika And Holocaust Revisionist History, Judith A. Riesman PhD, The Institute For Media Education,  September 8, 2006

1.  Berlin was a hotbed of gay culture, gay debauchery and gay pederasty.

2.  Adolf Hitler knew and was well known to several gay men in Berlin.

3.  The Nazi party was formed in a known gay bar in Berlin.

4.  Its founding members were known to be gay and in some cases, gay and sexually violent; or gay criminal thugs.

5.  They made no attempt to hide their sexual orientation or their closeness to Hitler.

6.  The Nazis actively recruited gay men, regardless of whether they were gay and sexually violent; or gay criminal thugs.  These gay men were high-ranking officers and staff within the echelons of the Nazi party as well as the Storm Troopers and the Gestapo.

7.  Violence was condoned.

8.  There was a split in the Nazi party between the gay macho, masculine "butch" Nazis who either glorified or lived up to the ideal of the dominating Aryan male physique which was worthy of worship; and those gay men who were deemed too effeminate.

9.  With a few exceptions, it was the "effeminate" Nazi party members who were hounded, harassed or murdered by way of political assassinations.  It appears they were murdered because they knew too much about the gay origins of the Nazi party and Hitler's close relationship with known homosexuals who preyed on young boys.

10. The majority of homosexuals in Germany, estimated at several million, were not touched.  Hitler refused to go after them.

11.  Those that were rounded up were deemed "effeminate" and were sent to Work Camps, NOT the death camps where the Jews were sent.

12.  There is no evidence of wholesale removal of civil rights, travel restrictions or confiscation of homosexual property by the Nazis or persecution of those who sheltered gays.

13.  Since the Nazi party was gay (and violently gay and sexually depraved) at its very core, it was gay men who ordered and participated in sexual degradation, torture and extermination of the Jews.

14.  These facts have been deliberately hidden to portray gay men as innocent victims - whereas they were in reality, the perpetrators of the Holocaust.

FuelMix says:

1.  Hello Apocalypse........

2.  One can understand why this book is such a potential bombshell and why mainstream media and mainstream academics are ignoring it.  Yet to date, so far as we are aware, nobody has come forward to refute the detailed assertions that the authors made.

3.  From our point of view, these assertions are another example of The Apocalypse, the true meaning of which, is that which was hidden is now revealed.  It is often said that History is the diary of the victors - in other words, future generations simply get a whitewashed or wholly distorted and deliberately revisionist version of events and / or the truth.

4.  For over 70 years, gay men appear to have been lied to concerning their history in World War 2 Europe. They were not victims on the scale alleged, but the violently gay-centric Nazi party instigated mass torture and mass murder of others.

The Pink Swastika 1
The Pink Swastika 2

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Thinking Outside The Crotch

1.  Porn Studio Reverses Policy - Goes Bareback
2.  6 Truths About Faggotry
3.  5 Truths About The Gay Porn Industry
4.  Who's The Hypocrite..?

1.  Porn Studio Reverses Policy - Goes Bareback

1.  A well known gay porn studio, recently reversed its policy of requiring condoms for its "actors" and produced a hot 3-way bareback flick - supported by a Notice, a Disclaimer and a Warning.

2.  Paraphrasing from memory (FuelMix stupidly lost the link to the video): 

  • The Notice stated that the actors were rigorously screened using the latest tests for STDs and HIV;
  • The Disclaimer stated that the studio did not endorse bareback sex;
  • The Warning stated that pursuant to the testing of the actors, the barebacking scenes were filmed under strictly controlled conditions and should not be replicated - even with one's regular partner;
3.  This set tongues wagging, with Politically Correct fags rimming the same intellectual asshole.  The gist of their slobbering was that the studio sent out the wrong message, had abdicated its social responsibility,  was being hypocritical, was only barebacking for money and viewers, and creating sensationalism. 

4.  FuelMix presents an alternative view for his readers consideration:

2.  6 Truths About Faggotry
  1. Nothing beats bareback. Period
  2. There has been a resurgence in bareback sex across all age groups, but especially in the 20 somethings;
  3. Fags have done - and are doing - bareback more than they will publicly admit;
  4. Fags watch more bareback porn than they will publicly admit;
  5. Politically correct Faggotry has done a masterful job of overt Behavioural Modification. It has trained fags to feign righteous indignation or horror at the mere mention of bareback;
  6. There is a disconnect between what fags will say about bareback and what they will do;

3.  5 Truths About the Gay Porn Industry
  1. Competitive and cut-throat;
  2. No shortage of "actors" across all ages willing to bareback;
  3. Several studios openly and defiantly promote bareback. Some have done so for decades;
  4. Some studios specializing in BB will openly hire HIV+ actors;
  5. Not a single fag has called for those studios to be shut down;

4.  Who's The Hypocrite..?

1.  Who's the hypocrite? The studio for overtly reversing its policy or the fag who covertly watches BB porn and fucks bareback, but who overtly spouts the PC line?

(a)  The Notice - FuelMix has no further comment on it.

(b)  The Disclaimer - Showing BB and simultaneously saying it has not been endorsed, is NOT hyprocritical. That disclaimer is done all the time on TV Shows when a potentially controversial viewpoint is presented and the TV management airs it, but backs off from endorsing it.

There's a real distinction between what they normally do and implicitly endorse and what they will do which they explicitly will not endorse.

In other words, the controversial viewpoint, or the BB sex, is presented on an "As Is" basis.
  • Is the TV station presenting a controversial point of view to get viewers..? Yep.
  • Is the controversial BB sex presented to get viewers..? Yep.
  • Are both being done for profit..? Yep.
  • Can a controversial viewpoint aired by a TV station that had not yet done that, be as surprising as watching BB from a gay porn studio that had not done that..? Yep.
  • Do you have a choice whether to listen to a controversial viewpoint or watch BB sex..? Yep
  • In either case, does it amount to sensationalism..? Nope.
  • Does the TV station or the porn studio risk getting badmouthed or boycotted..? Yep.
  • Are they likely to completely lose their viewer base..? Nope.

(c)  The Warning - stated that pursuant to the testing of the actors, the barebacking scenes were filmed under strictly controlled conditions and should not be replicated - even with one's regular partner.

Fags got riled about this one alleging it was not strictly controlled and that the studio had no business airing BB sex and then saying it shouldn't be replicated even with one's regular partner.

Who's right?

(A) Strictly Controlled Conditions ?

1.   The culture of hedonism and instant gratification that pervades Faggotry, stands in stark contrast to anything that hints of control or regulation. It simply sticks in the fag's craw to be presented with an assertion that a personal or sexual situation is monitored.  But the same fag will have no trouble believing a TV announcement that some stunt is being done under controlled conditions and should not be tried at home.

2.   That's because large chunks of a fag's life are out of control.  A fag either drifts in complacency, bristles in denial, is too drug-fucked to care or lurches from one drama to another.  Handling an apparent truth does not come easy.

3.   A fag needs anonymous sex one way or another, whether online, on the street, in the bars or in the saunas. Very little meaningful information is said - or encouraged to be said.  Certainly far less than what would be required to complete an analysis of the latest STD testing. The " strictly controlled conditions" in a fag's anonymous sex are limited to who's Top, who's Bottom, BB or condom and who cums where.

(B) BB Not To Be Replicated - Even With A Regular Partner.. ?

That was a smart warning from the studio.

1.   A fag by definition is promiscuous. Whether it's a FuckBuddy or Friends With Benefits, chances are he has several dicks around town with whom he's had sex on more than one occasion.  Straight out of the gate, the fag has multiple regular partners -  about whose sexual history he knows nothing, other than their [fake] names.

2.   Add to that the casual acquaintances he'll play with more than once in the Steam Room or Dark Room, and the picture becomes clear: Regular does NOT mean safe.

3.   Then add those fags he knows fuck-all about but hooks up with via Grindr, Growlr, Scruff, Jackd etc

4.   Then add those fags claiming to be in a "relationship" (you know the type......"We have an open relationship, but we're emotionally faithful......" ). How many of those absolutely know what their "partner" is up to, with whom and when?  What about those hamstrung by "Don't Ask, Don't Tell....?" It may have been scrapped in the military, but it's a staple in so many gay dynamics.

5.    Then add those fags on the DownLow regularly fucking women.

6.    Then add those fags whose judgment is fucked by drugs in the heat of the moment.

7.   Therefore, not only does "Regular" NOT mean safe but the fag routinely / out of habit / out of compulsion / out of horniness / out of a lack of communication / out of a lack of honesty / out of addiction, compounds his risk - exponentially.  In other words, neither he nor his regular partner can be trusted.

8.   So.......when the studio said don't do BB even with a regular partner, they had a valid point.

9.   The only 2 occasions that BB with a regular partner might work are:
  • Both are absolutely honest and 100% monogamous and tested regularly; OR
  • Both have the same strain of HIV;

10.  Apologies to those fags who bashed the porn studio for hypocrisy, but FuelMix doesn't see anything hypocritical in what they did.  Fags, on the other hand.....

Originally published 11 February 2013
Amended and Republished 21 May 2017

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