Open Season

“In the gay world there are always going to be open (relationships)…….There is no curbing the gay”.

-----Patti Stanger, “Watch What Happens Live” Bravo Channel, reported on CNN 28 September 2011, ‘Millionaire Matchmaker ’ apologizes for comments on gay men

1.  The Politically Correct gay front was outraged.  Their target was a female matchmaker on a television show in God’s Own Country.  Chatting to an admitted homosexual who called into the show enquiring about long distance open relationships, she made the above remark as her way of describing the failure of gay men to be monogamous.  Watch the video here.

2.  It’s clear that the woman’s mouth and brain were not engaged.  Yet, at a fundamental level, what she implied was accurate. Gay men are shit scared of monogamy.

3.  What she should have done is to have asked the caller to observe from his experience, whether the average gay man would embrace monogamy.  She could have initiated a discussion as to why gay men are so ambivalent towards commitment.

4.  Instead, she got flak for implying what every fag knows:  Faggotry is in a dilemma.  

5.  For the last 40 years the evolution of Faggotry has been on 3 parallel tracks:  

• drink to drugs 
• dick to disease
• dogma to diatribe 

6.  The Politically Correct fag will go to great lengths to talk about the “sacrifices” in “the fight” for “acceptance and tolerance”.  Then he will proudly declare that Faggotry is a social and political force.  All true, except that Faggotry is also massively incongruent, contradictory, hypocritical and unempowering -  and nobody seems to want to address that.

7.  Monogamy and Faggotry are inherently incompatible.  Anonymous casual sex is ingrained in Faggotry for a number of reasons;

• It’s very profitable for Gay Media;
• It’s very profitable for Gay Businesses;
• Closet fags need anonymous casual sex for their personal, professional and political survival;
• It reinforces the hedonism of Faggotry;
• Hedonism has no limits.  Monogamy means commitment and boundaries;
• NSA sex avoids the need to develop Emotional Intelligence;
• NSA sex justifies the attitudinal social posturing;
• It’s a distraction;
• It accessorizes nicely with drug use;  
• It justifies the anecdotally high failure rates of fag “relationships” which were never properly defined;
• It’s the crutch for the “but I also have needs…” argument that many fags use as an excuse to play around in a “relationship”.

8.  The only way Monogamy works is for both fags to admit that Faggotry doesn’t.  In other words, as FuelMix has previously said in this blog, in order to be a successful gay man, one has to be homophobic by conventional Faggotry's standards and go into the gay unknown on one’s own terms.

9.  That’s where the average fag starts to shit:  

• He has to turn his back on “the community”; 
• He has to acknowledge the uncomfortable truth that while there are tons of attitudinal hotties swimming around, what he’d really like is a hot man he could come home to; and more importantly, a hot man he could trust physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

10. That’s a tall order and takes work.  Those hours in the gym count for nothing.  It takes personal and mutual honesty in a sub-culture where deceit and distortion are just greeted with a shrug.  But then...... there’s that After-Party where that blonde guy from the gym is gonna show up and maybe they could swap phone numbers…..and he could introduce him to his dealer…..and the weather’s pretty good for cruising in the park…….

11. And once again, the fag is back where he started.  The institutional and addictive pull of Faggotry and its mindset are stronger than Gravity.  Yet, at his very core, the fag yearns to be accepted, loved and cherished, to trust and to be trusted.  

12. But Faggotry is stacked against him so he’s reduced to a cheap compromise of being “emotionally faithful” to somebody he hopes at the very least, is.  

13. Everybody smiles and nods even though they all know what that means. The collective delusion that the majority of fags are indeed “stable” must be perpetuated at all costs.  It’s the survival of the sub-cultural species.

14. We've said it before: Faggotry is a Ponzi scheme.  It needs a steady stream of fucked up, easily distracted, Politically Correct fags to keep the behavioural scam going and their lifestyle options “open”.  The Politically Correct gay establishment of course obliges and enforces. They need the votes, the sponsorships and the donations.

15. Outrage and Coercive Silence are an expensive business you know.

Originally published 2 October 2011
Amended and Republished 27 September 2013 | 18 April 2017

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