Awkward Questions

Well fags, here is the post that launched this blog on 26 April 2006. We had so many questions swirling in our pretty head that we split them into sections so that we wouldn't get overwhelmed when we read them.  Updated from time to time, they still remain relevant.

We remind our readers to check out these Awkward Questions before tackling the blog.

Then you'll understand the space from which we write........namely lamestream gay media's refusal or inability to confront those questions.

We have no political or religious affiliations. We've never claimed to have the right answers - but we do claim the right to unabashedly articulate the issues and encourage our readers to find the answers that ring true for them.

PART 1

• All male sex was more fun when it was illegal?
• Being “gay” is so over. But where to from here?
• Absolutely convinced in your gut that there are indeed behavioural, emotional and psychological differences between a gay man and a fag...?
• Broadway show tunes leave you cold?
• Craigslist or Grindr doesn’t work for you?.....or just leaves you pissed off....?
• Don’t give a fuck about gay activism?
• Getting tired and suspicious of gay activists screeching about how you and straight people should deal with the gay part of your life?
• Don't remember giving your permission to be grouped as "GLBT", but everywhere one looks, there it is..?
• Don’t these fags have any fuckin’ manners..?
• If he's str8 looking str8 acting, why can't he give a str8 answer..?

 

PART 2

• Excluded or ignored because of Gay Ageism?
• Just who came up with the cut off age of 35 seen in so many online ads for hookups?
• Feel you’re getting ripped off by gay businesses?
• Gay Pride does nothing for You?
• Gay Racism is alive and well?
• It's not so much Diversity as it is a series of cliques?
• Ghetto fags are like Jews? Say anything and you’re automatically deemed to be against them?
• Given up meeting online liars?
• Had it up to here with fags with baggage?
• Just where did the cult of the diva come from...?  Why is that the modus operandi of so many gay men?
• There really is a wealth gap between a thinking gay man and a fag?
• Ever feel that you're gay and homophobic.........and that might actually be a good thing?

PART 3

• If fags have sex so often, how come their people skills are so bad?
• Intuitively know that “gay” “queer” “fag” “homo” will never describe You?
• Just how many underwear do you need to find acceptance?
• Just show me one twink who isn’t fucked up?
• Nothing in common with ghetto fags?
• Nothing in the “gay lifestyle” is empowering?
• Roll your eyes when you hear “str8 looking, str8 acting”?
• Why are so many young gay guys sold the glitter, sex n' drugs  of Faggotry without being taught how to become empowered self-aware gay men?
• How and why did drugs become such an integral part of "the gay lifestyle"?

PART 4

• Safe sex compared to what?
• Seen the same losers on different sites?
• Suspicious of Gay Media?
• Even more suspicious of Gay "celebrities"? 
• You've looked at online gay porn and realized that you're seeing the same faces and dicks on so many different sites that gay porn has got to be a cartel distributorship?
• Why can't gay porn sites ever tell the truth about their actual content instead of bouncing you from site to site to site?
• That sinking feeling when urged to support “your community”?
• What the hell was I thinking when I fell for that “your pic gets mine” bullshit?
• Why are ghetto fags broke most of the time?
• Why are fags bashing monogamy?
• For a sub-culture obsessed with perfect bodies, why do so many have damaged immune systems?

PART 5

• Why do fags lie so much about the little things? 
• Why are there so many grinning sleep deprived fags on the social pages of Gay Media?
• Why are fags “chem friendly” but hostile to each other?
• Why does the “lifestyle” produce so many chronic underachievers?
• Why must fags be so politically correct?  Where has that come from?
• You ain’t “family”?
• You will never swear allegiance to the rainbow flag?
• What the hell are all these str8 guys turning gay for? 
• Just how bi-curious do you have to be before you turn gay?
• Can you be miserably married and happily gay?

Originally published 26 April 2006
Amended and Republished 2 September 2011, 28 September 2013

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