Is Monogamy Miserable ? 4

COMPLETED 7 NOVEMBER 2014

 

2.   Gay Monogamy via Quantum Physics

1.   The Emergence of Quantum Physics

1.   Up till the early 20th Century, Newtonian physics held sway.  That declared the solidity of objects, that everything was in a fixed order and that a body at rest, stayed at rest.

2.   Then came a slew of Physicists who turned those theories upside down as they forged a new field - Quantum Physics (or Quantum Mechanics) that was both mind-boggling, complex and paradoxical. In Quantum Physics nothing was solid, everything was in a state of flux and vibration, there were no fixed outcomes, the outcome depended on the observer, two outcomes could exist simultaneously and would only collapse into a fixed outcome when observed, what constituted an objective observation, parallel universes were the norm.......back and forth the theories flew.

3.   .......and the paradox, the contradictions, the complexities, the perplexed theoretical physicists, the excited rocket engineers, the tech engineers, all nibble, gnaw, chew and choke on the latest theory, looking for practical applications.

4.   So.....what's this gotta do with a fag who claims to be in "a relationship" but is fucking around....?? Or is just single and promiscuous....?

2.  A Fag Is Just a Function of Quantum Physics

1.   When we look at guys around us, fag or not, we're judgmental. We rate guys as "hunks", "studs", "beefcake", "hardbodied", "lean muscled", "short", "tall", "fat", "skinny twink", "chub", "bears", "7 inches cut".......

2.   In Quantum Physics none of this exists. It simply coalesces as a phenomenon when we observe it. The reason we consider it objective is because everybody else sees the same thing too. In other words, "reality" is an interpretation of one or more of our 5 senses and then we formulate a collective "social agreement" that appears to "fix" that interpretation as definite.

3.   Beyond our interpretive "reality", we each exist as pulsing vibrations of sub-atomic particles in a quantum soup of sub-atomic particles.  These sub-atomic particles contain information, intelligence and memory which varies from moment to moment.  At the Quantum level there are no boundaries, no barriers.

4.   You and every other gay man are a coalesced pattern of pulsing sub-atomic particles that not only unceasingly zoom through you at incredible speed - but have zoomed through other gay men and other people and will continue to do so forever: 


3.   Sex and Emotion At The Quantum Level

• At the Quantum level, sub-atomic particles cannot be destroyed; 
• At the Quantum level, each person is intimately sharing intelligence, information and memory with everybody else - all the time, unceasingly; 
• At the Quantum level, there are no boundaries, no barriers. There is no such thing as "safe sex".  There is no such thing as casual, anonymous sex.  There is no such thing as "No Strings Attached" Sex";
• At the Quantum Level, it is impossible to be "emotionally faithful" while sleeping around (or claim to have "NSA sex" if you're unattached). The sub-atomic particles carry the memory of every person you ever played with and you're transmitting them to everybody else;
• At the Quantum level, you're carrying the emotional baggage of everybody you ever played with.
• So if you claim to be "emotionally faithful"....at the Quantum level, the question is... "to whom...?"
• One of the reasons, gay men are so emotionally fucked up, is because they haven't a clue just how much emotional baggage - at all levels - they may be carrying.  And sex is the biggest emotion of all.

4.   So....??

1.   The trick is to become aware.  The sub-atomic particles are the building blocks of the entire universe.  They carry information, intelligence and memory.

2.   If you claim the right to sleep around while claiming to be "emotionally faithful" in a relationship, you're in fact emotionally attached to a whole bunch of people and carrying their baggage, while transmitting yours to them.

3.   If you're single and unattached and having sex on the street and in the saunas, guess what....?? you're just as "emotionally faithful" and you're already in a relationship with every casual encounter you've ever had.  You're carrying their baggage.  They're carrying yours.

4.   Emotional rupture is being recognized as the true source of every major disease or minor illness.  Think about that.

5.   Emotional Clearing is not just a New Age thing.  It's a necessary process for your wellbeing - at all levels.


5.   For The Record

1.   We're not claiming that Monogamy works best.  Although our personal view is that in a relationship, it would still be preferable - provided a ton of Emotional Clearing was done by both parties beforehand.

2.  We're not bashing the "open relationship".  But.....if you want to sleep around in a "relationship" and still claim to be "Emotionally Faithful", ask yourself how much emotional shit from others you're carrying around - and then do some research about Emotional Clearing.  You might find yourself absolutely miserable and not know why.

3.  If you're single and unattached, picking up guys on the street, in the bars and in the saunas..... you're picking up a lot more than you think.  Do some research on Emotional Clearing.  You too might find yourself absolutely miserable and not know why.

4.  We're not stopping anyone from having recreational sex.  Hell, FuelMix (currently single and happily unattached) enjoys it and has no trouble getting it. But it takes self-reflection and awareness on many different levels - and constant Emotional Clearing.

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