Farewell

Effective today, FuelMix has ended the blog.

1.  The Objectives 2006 - 2014

• To create a niche publication that stood apart from Lamestream Gay Media;
• To directly and intelligently confront all aspects of gay life;
• To cut through decades of fog, complacency and an entrenched code of silence;
• To strip the Politically Correct varnish inhibiting accurate perception, thought and language;
• To provide an alternative context for the independently thinking gay man when conventional Faggotry was destroying gay men and its behavioural paradigms were collapsing;
• To demonstrate that there were mental, emotional and behavioural differences between an independently thinking gay man and a fag.

We believe these objectives have been met.


2.  Administration

1.  For the forseeable future:

• The blog will remain online;
• Readers may comment on individual posts (subject to the Comment Protocols);

2.  The blog is protected by Copyright which vests in the person writing under the name "FuelMix".

3.  Any other person purporting to write on gay matters under the name "FuelMix" or "Fuel Injected Male" will be a fake.

4.  Notification on any aspect of this blog will first be given on this platform. You may wish to continue bookmarking the blog.

3.  Acknowledgements

1.  We thank those who contributed comments, personal experiences, sauna reviews, storylines and encouragement.  We appreciated your input and were always delighted to hear from you.

2.  To those who hated everything we wrote, spewed abuse, accused us of homophobia, racism and other goodies, we bear you no malice.

3.  To all our readers......thank you for opening your minds to a different possibility of thinking and being. That's all we wanted.


4.  Farewell

1.  Being gay is one of the hardest life experiences that we choose for ourselves. The fear, guilt, closeted terror, wild fluctuations in self-esteem, deciding when to come out and to whom, the pursuit of physical beauty,  the easy drugs, hedonism, intra-gay racism, shunning, ageism, broken relationships, illness,  the fear of being alone for life, shrieked at or coerced by Faggotry, is daunting at best and suicidal at worst.

2.  Your personal journey as a courageous, questioning, independently thinking gay man will not be easy.  You are Kryptonite to the agenda-driven facilitators of Faggotry. They'll scream, threaten and abuse you once they realize you're leaving - or have already left - "the community".  Your gay "friends" might turn against you too.......You could end up alone for a while before meeting those resonating to a higher frequency of compatibility and awareness.

3.  We never claimed to have the definitive answers. But we trust that our (not-so-humble) blog has armed you with a new compass of Emotional Intelligence and Perception.  You have the option of navigating out of a failing gay paradigm whilst thriving in a shifting and unstable world.

4.  May you find the personal happiness and holistic empowerment that every gay man so richly deserves after the hell that Faggotry put them through.

Sincerely
FuelMix
fuelinjectedmale@live.hk 

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Black And Defiant

(Underlining and bold print by FuelMix)

".....it's no secret, except perhaps to white people, that gay pride parades are very white hollow things.  They usually take place in 'gayborhoods' which are usually affluent communities predominated by white gay men.  Communities that usually contain bars that mostly white gay men frequent, and if you choose to be black and attend these establishments, it is not long before you feel sexualized, objectified and ignored altogether, if not outright discriminated against altogether......The living proof of this phenomenon is that mainstream pride parades are often accompanies by smaller prides that creates space for other salient marginalized identities.....

Personally, I fear a world where if I announce that 'I am gay', one's mind will be flooded with a sea of sex shops, rainbows and skinny dancing white men.  Because when I think about what it means to be gay, I have to think about what it means to be black too.  And my being black and gay against the master narrative of white queerness is something to be celebrated.

.....we have to remember that rainbows really are just refracted white light"

-----'Gay Pride Is For White People', by Aaron Talley, Musedmagonline, 23 June 2014

“Pride” season is upon us, and it’s no secret, except perhaps to white people, that gay pride parades are very white, hollow things. They usually take place in “gayborhoods,” which are usually affluent communities predominated by white gay men. Communities that usually contain bars that mostly white gay men frequent, and if you choose to be black and attend these establishments, it is not long before you feel sexualized, objectified, or ignored altogether if not outright discriminated against - See more at: http://www.musedmagonline.com/2014/06/gay-pride-white-people/#sthash.KHd8yqW7.dpuf

1.   Well......this is awkward.  There's been no shortage of white Faggotry proxies shrieking that "gay is the new black" and along comes this article telling them where to get off.  As gay comedian Thai Riviera observed, "black isn't done being black yet...".




2.   We're in 2 minds about Mr Talley's article:  he's wrong and he's right.


1.   Gay Pride

3.   We agree that Gay Pride Parades are inherently shallow.  They deliberately camp it up, presenting voyeuristic and narcissistic elements.  We disagree that they are "very white" or take place in affluent white 'gayborhoods'. From what we can tell, not only are the parades very mixed but they may contain "parades within parades" to spotlight gay ethnic groups, special interest groups, transgendered groups and so on.

4.   There are also larger independent gay ethnic group parades that certainly do not take place in white neighbourhoods - deliberately.  And why should they....?

(See also what FuelMix wrote in his post, True Pride).


2.   "Gayborhoods" Mainly Affluent Whites.....??

5.   We're baffled by Talley's assertion that 'gayborhoods' are affluent communities of predominantly white men.  Compared to run down inner city predominantly black areas, that might appear to be true.  But, in this blog we have explained our assertions that the power of The Pink Dollar has been exaggerated and the gay ghetto may be in economic and demographic decline - particularly in the West.  Furthermore, in the West some gay ghettos are - or are becoming - increasingly mixed with immigrant families, retirees and students. Mixed...? Yes.  Affluent....??  We beg to differ. Pockets of affluence within the gay ghetto...? Maybe.


3.   Racism By Gay Whites.....?

6.   The racism and discrimination shown by white fags in the bars (and saunas) in the West which Talley claims....?  Yeah absolutely.  We've seen it, we've experienced it, we've heard about it from those who were shattered by it.  See for example our post, Nigga Fag's Rage and, by way of contrast the post, An Exception To The Rule.  See also our writings under the Gay Racism label. Racism in gay men is institutionalized. It's not limited to whites.  Asians can be - and are - just as racist.  We don't have a clue what the solution to that will be.

 
4.   Gay Marriage A Red Herring

7.    In his article, Talley said that the noise about Gay Marriage was a red herring. Like us, he pointed out that marriage for most gay guys was not a priority.  We had alluded to massive wealth inequality amongst gay men. Talley refers to the economic disparity between whites and blacks, as well as the social degradation of health disparity, poverty, violence and homelessness faced by black gays (in some gay ghettos, you'll see that in whites too).  None of that would give black gays the motivation to marry.  We suspect that Talley's conclusion that Gay Marriage is really for the benefit of upper middle class whites, is correct.


5.   The "White" Agenda

8.   Talley's comment about rainbows being refracted white light, is spot on.  It's an apt metaphor for the apparent "diversity" taking its cue from a white agenda of nebulous origin.  As we said before, nobody knows who controls Faggotry (but locations like Hollywood are certainly suspect).  Talley describes it as "whiteness and white supremacy". He alleges that despite the "myth of Pride" and the illusion of the "happy, free gay man", many gay men are not free.  (To which we would add, that many don't know it and don't know why).

9.  One of our fundamental contentions in this blog has been that the predominantly white, politically correct Faggotry is a social control tool - imposed on gays and society at large.  It has been exported worldwide as a sub-standard behavioural franchise for somebody else's benefit - and not for that of the independently thinking gay man.

10.  It appears more people are waking up.

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Older Gay Men in Hong Kong

1.   The Book
2.   Where Everybody Knew Your Name
3.   Told Ya
4.   Public Toilets In Very Rich Megacity
5.   Where Are The Older Gay Men In VRM...?

We've written about the shunning of older gay men in the apparently youth-focused "gay culture".  We say "apparently" because in between drink, drugs, poppers and cigarettes, the skinny twink or the muscleboy (add in steroids to that list), ages very badly - only to get shunned themselves - sooner rather than later.  See also what we've written in the series Gay Ageism.

1.  The Book

1.  A book recently published in Chinese, seeks to record the oral history of older gay men living in Very Rich Megacity.  They are quite literally, a dying breed who have now been given the chance to record their feelings and experiences knowing that they were gay, but forced by family pressure into marrying and raising a family.

2.  They grew up at a time when gay sex in VRM was absolutely illegal, even between consenting adults in private. The city was nowhere near as economically developed, there was no internet, no smart phones, no hookup apps, no gay bars, no gay saunas, no gay cafes, no gay retail.  Cruising could get one arrested for loitering with intent or gross indecency.

3.  There was also the dreaded "Pink List" of suspected gay men kept by the Special Investigations Unit of the Police.


2.  Where Everybody Knew Your Name

1.  So, where did they meet...?? (Underlining and bold print by FuelMix):

Back in the 60s and 70s, gay-specific venues were unheard of. And without the internet or social apps like Grindr, meeting possible love interests was a huge problem for gay men. One option was to go to public toilets to seek out other men. It was only a matter of time before the media hyped up these occurrences. 

“In the past, the media exaggerated how gay men were all sex maniacs, that they had sex shamelessly in public toilets. But imagine, at the time, there were no other places for them to go. This was the only space for them to go.....[a]nd during these meet-ups, they didn’t actually have sex. A lot of them went there to catch up on gossip, or to see friends. Their public toilets were our Starbucks at that time.”

 Some even met their long-term partners within the confines of the public toilet. 

“Hong Kong society at that time was poor and underdeveloped. Most people had to live in tiny apartments with lots of people.....The idea of family was supposed to be private but it was also very communal. In a way, these gay men could only find privacy in public. That was life.”

 -----"Interview: Dr Travis Kong - Oral History of Older Gay Men", TimeOut Hong Kong, 23 July 2014

3.   Told Ya

1.  We've written about the importance of public toilets for gay men.  In Principles of Faggotry 28 we said this:

It's fashionable to say that fags aren't loyal to anyone, or anything, or any gay venue.

Not so.

Fags are remarkably loyal to their public toilets.  All over the world, fags will haunt the same toilets for years, sometimes decades.

4.   Public Toilets In Very Rich Megacity

1.  Location of public toilets around here are marked on the official map books.  Gay men have a self-censorship and ambivalence in acknowledging that they even go there - and what they go there for.  The bottom line (pun intended) is that some  toilets in this city (with or without the upstairs showers) are notoriously cruisy, attracting all nationalities, ages and body types.  These days you'll see gym jocks, muscleboys, twinks, students, married guys, tourists and professionals - if you know where to look.  Some are even listed online. (The Chinese websites apparently have more detailed info)  And you might be surprised at what goes on.

2.  Does the older gay Asian who was a young man in the 60s and 70s still show up...?  Yeah, they do.  And the ones with the upstairs showers and the seating bench are still the gathering and gossiping place for them - except that they've also become a captive, highly voyeuristic, appreciative audience for a younger generation of exhibitionist types and some quirky uninhibited older ones.

3.  Just the other day, our friendly GAM on the street drew our attention to "Chinese opera" going on in the upstairs showers in a toilet across the street.  In we went and sure enough, there was this (we guess) 60-something chubby Chinese male strutting around in a flourescent pink G-string singing a pop song, whilst being eagerly groped by about 10 Asians of different ages.  We just grinned.......the conversation was whispered and animated, some knew each other.......they all knew Mr Pink G-String,  the amiable no-fee singer / stripper for a niche market.

4.  We wished we could have filmed it.


5.   Where Are The Older Gay Men In VRM...?   

(Underlining and bold print by FuelMix):

“They are the minority of the minority. They encounter a lot of discrimination within the gay community. We have a certain ideal perception of gay men, as if they’re all good-looking, have nice bodies, are rich and have a good command of English. We have all kinds of assumptions on gay men, but it’s not true. There are a lot of old gay men who don’t know how to speak English and could be really poor, living in tiny little apartments.....

Ageing gay men would be refused entry to gay saunas that only let young and good-looking gay men in.....It’s harder to say if it’s easier now than it was before for them.” 

 -----"Interview: Dr Travis Kong - Oral History of Older Gay Men", TimeOut Hong Kong, 23 July 2014

1.  We agree.  You won't find the older, poorer ones in the bars of Central, SoHo or Sheung Wan - although you will find them in the public toilets of Central, SoHo and Sheung Wan, to name a few. Remember, SoHo and Sheung Wan have some of the oldest residential flats in the city. Now that they are rapidly being gentrified and yuppified, are you surprised at the variety of "clientele" showing up at the public toilets in those areas.....?

2.  You won't find the older poor ones in most of the gay saunas where the entry price would (deliberately...??) be too steep for them and the discounts are for those under 24.

3.  But you will find them in 2 gay saunas namely Galaxy in Tsim Sha Tsui and KK Fitness in Jordan.

4.  This is what we wrote about the clientele in KK Fitness 3:

Now here’s the oddest part.  This is a gay sauna where everybody knows your name.  It’s  a drop-in centre for mature fags.  Whether they’re single, married, divorced, widowed or grandparents, they were all looking out for each other.  For some reason, FuelMix kept seeing surreal images of old men in Havana, Cuba sitting around in the cafes which had become their second home.

Those who wanted to be left alone, were left alone.  Those who bantered, bantered.  The staff were in on it too.  The displays of affection were clumsy but genuine.  FuelMix wondered about the era they must have grown up in as Oriental gay – or closet gay – men.  There were about 28 people there, enough for some of the private cubicles to see action.  But none of them were being used.  Going there for action didn’t seem to be the priority for them.  It was more about the shared space.

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The Yen Goes Kamikaze 3

COMPLETED 8 NOVEMBER 2014  

If You Thought Atomic Sushi, Hello Kitty and Pixelated Porn Were Some of Japan's Most Famous Exports, We Have News For You........Yeah.....You, Fag

1.   Who's Fucking The Yen? (Or Is The Yen Fucking Itself?)

1.   None of this is happening in a vacuum. That Japan's version of QE started hours after the US officially claimed to have ended theirs, should raise eyebrows...... 

2.   The present scenario is this:  the Jap Government intends to buy ALL of its own bonds.  Forget market pricing, the free market blah, blah blah.  It's a manipulated scenario intended to levitate the stock market and the bond market, so that it appears everything is looking fine......Yes, it will boost the Jap stock market, but it will also boost the US stock market because the Japanese State Pension Fund and the Ministry of Finance will chuck money into it as well.  They will be paying in US Dollars to get into that market and selling off the yen.  Effectively, they are moving the pensioners assets offshore - and the US is getting Japan to do its dirty work by levitating the US stock market as well.

3.   But.....get this....in Part 2 we showed chart porn that:

• Jap household income was falling;
• Jap household disposable income was falling; and 
• Jap household spending were falling; 

But there's more....the much vaunted Jap household savings rate has also collapsed (as the huge ageing population draws on its savings to live):

4.   Do you get what's brewing...??!! You don't...??!!  OK, we'll tell ya.....

• Japan has a huge ageing population, dependent on generous social welfare;
• Japan cannot cut back on its social welfare;
• Japan has MASSIVE private and public debt. 25% of Government revenue goes to pay interest on that debt;
• Japan needs more tax revenue to service debt, but can't get it because of a shrinking (falling birth rates) and ageing population;
• Japan now imports more than it exports;
• the financial position of the individual Jap is collapsing;
• despite the surge in the Jap stock market, the Yen is dropping against other currencies on the FX markets;

5.   THE JAPS ARE CAUGHT IN A TRAP.....

• They desperately want to trigger inflation in their own country. The recent Sales Tax of 8%  that pushed up the cost of living via underlying inflation (and forced the average Jap to cut back even more) is, according to the banksters, not enough;
• Through currency creation out of thin air to buy up the Jap bond market, the Japs are attempting to trigger a massive buying spree on the Japanese and US Stock Markets;
• That currency creation is adding to consumer inflation in Japan - and debasing the Yen by increasing the monetary base;
• Despite the Quantity of Yen being (electronically and physically created), questions will arise about the Quality of theYen as a viable currency;
• That makes the Yen liable to speculative attacks on the FX markets;
• That depreciates the Yen even more;
• Whilst that cheapens exports, it increases the cost of imports - and underlying inflation, forcing the Jap consumer to cut back even more;
• With a weakening yen and mounting financial liabilities, Japan may be forced to sell its overseas investments in order to import capital;
• That sell off of their overseas assets can trigger Deflation abroad - whilst the Japs are desperate to trigger (even more) inflation at home;
• On the one hand, the Japs are desperate to import capital.  On the other hand, they need to stimulate the Japanese and US stock markets;
• As the Japs sell off their overseas assets and the Yen weakens, the Chinese Yuan will become stronger - and that will hurt Chinese exports.  Coupled with existing credit and liquidity problems in China, that may trigger Deflation in China as their economy slows down - which as at November 2014 - it already is;
• China and Japan will be in a currency war for survival;
• You seriously expect the US and the EU to be immune to this....??

2.   Our Current Bottom Line As At November 2014

Japan's newest export.......DEFLATION


3.   Memo To Fags

WATCH JAPAN........when Deflation hits, everything goes down in value - including your retirement funds.

The question is......what happens AFTER Deflation......there will still be shit loads of (created-out-of-thin-air) currency sloshing about in so many countries engaged in the debasement currency war, to see who can cheapen their currency to zero first.

Monetary history will tell ya that every fiat currency has failed - just like every reserve currency failed.

We don't fuckin' know what's gonna happen afterwards if we're right on the Deflation-first scenario.

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The Yen Goes Kamikaze 2

If You Thought Atomic Sushi, Hello Kitty and Pixelated Porn Were Some of Japan's Most Famous Exports, We Have News For You........Yeah.....You, Fag

1.   WTF Is Going On In Japan....??!!

Putting it bluntly, the Japs have a fetish to trigger inflation.  They seem to think that's the answer to all their problems. But......the Japs aren't spending and household income is falling as business is slowing down and bankruptcies are going up - particularly export related businesses, which are the lifeblood of the Japanese economy.  (Did ya miss the news that Sony slashed its profit forecast by 70%.....and that for the first time in 50 years, it won't declare a dividend....??  That's some serious shit right there).

Have a look at these 3 charts:

   
2.  Just How Strong Is The Yen...??

Damned if we know....but since everybody likes to say that all financial markets are integrated, it would appear that - notwithstanding the actual and intended surge in the stock markets caused by the Bank of Japan's announcement set out in Part 1 -  one also has to look at Foreign Exchange markets, specifically the relationship between the US Dollar and the Yen.

Despite the froth and bubbles in the global stock markets (your retirement plans are in there, fag...) the announcement on Halloween 2014 by the Bank of Japan to create currency out of thin air and buy up virtually every Japanese Bond in existence or to be issued, is effectively debasing the currency and increasing the monetary base (sorta like continuing to pour water into a glass that's already full and overflowing).  Right now, the Yen is weak.  Some would say structurally weak and headed for a further decline against the US Dollar.

COMING UP IN PART 3:  Who's Fucking The Yen.....Or Is The Yen Fucking Itself...??

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The Yen Goes Kamikaze 1

If You Thought Atomic Sushi, Hello Kitty and Pixelated Porn Were Some of Japan's Most Famous Exports, We Have News For You........Yeah.....You, Fag

1.  The Big News On Halloween

"We are in a critical moment in the effort to break free from the deflationary mindset."

-----Haruhiko Kuroda, Governor of the Bank of Japan quoted in "Japan summons bullish Halloween spirits", South China Morning Post, 1 November 2014

The Bank of Japan announced that every month, it intends to buy 8 Trillion to 10 Trillion Yen of Japanese Government Bonds.  Putting it another way, every month the Japanese Ministry of Finance sells 10 Trillion Yen worth of Bonds into the market. The Bank of Japan will (or probably will) now buy everything the Ministry of Finance issues.

2.   So....??

Big Deal...?  Yeah.....

• This is the Jap version of Quantitative Easing (which supposedly ended in the US just hours earlier);
• It's a massive monetization of debt;
• The BOJ is already the biggest holder of Japanese Government Bonds and its decision to buy up everything from now on is, as the guys from Adidas would say, going "all in";
• At this rate of Bonds buy-up, the BOJ would end up owning half the Japanese Bond market by 2018;
• Japan has been in a deflationary recession for over 25 years. This buy-up announcement is the most extreme step Japan has taken in order to induce inflation - at the magic (and utterly random) figure of 2%;
• On hearing the news, the Japanese state Pension Fund (JPIF) announced it would sell its bond holdings and go into the stock market in a massive buying spree.  With such an intended massive bond sell-off, one would assume the bond market would drop.  Instead it soared - and so did stock markets around the world seconds later;
• And who would buy the bonds that JPIF would sell...??  Why, the BOJ of course;

3.   And Your Point Would Be...??

• Quantitative Easing merely shifted from a US time zone to a Japanese time zone;
• Basically this is a monumental attempt to trigger (and theoretically sustain) a stock market surge based simply on Debt........The BOJ electronically creates currency out of thin air, buys up the bonds from the Ministry of Finance or JPIF.....and that currency magically ends up in the stock market, driving it up and creating "the Wealth Effect".  Everybody is supposed to feel richer and they'd go out and spend more, thereby reversing deflationary recession into inflationary boom;

4.   But.....

Sounds great huh....?  Except.....

As David Stockman pointed out in The BOJ Jumps The Monetary Shark - Now The Machines, Madmen and Morons Are Raging, October 31 2014:

• Japan's Trade Accounts have deteriorated (i.e. the country imports more than it exports);
• Real wages have declined;
• Japanese Government Debt is 250% of GDP;
• Total Japanese Debt (including household, business and financial sectors) is 600% of GDP;
• Japan's labour force is shrinking;
• It has a huge, rapidly ageing population (to which FuelMix would add, that the Japs don't allow foreigners to emigrate there);

UPLOADING MORE IN PART 2

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Who's The Victim ?

It was one of the saddest conversations upon which FuelMix has eavesdropped. Wispy, Utterly Effeminate Fag (WUEF) was seeking confirmation from an Average Joe fag (AJF) that WUEF was masculine and straight looking. 

Apparently, WUEF was having problems attracting the right type of male, and the macho specimens in which he was interested, ignored him or sneered at him, or both. AJF seemed a little fazed by the request, but was smart enough to see that WUEF was in a state of perceptual blindness. AJF proceeded to reassure WUEF that everything was fine and that he needed to be patient. WUEF looked glum, flopped his wrists agitatedly, ordered a tequila shot, knocked it back and started crying. 

FuelMix turned away to think. Who or what is behind this whole “straight looking, straight acting” moniker? If fags claim to be proud to be out, why is it even necessary to allude to that description? What does it actually convey? 

Fact: it conveys nothing. It’s a desperate attempt to straddle both hetero and homo lifestyle, and fails at both. 

Essentially, it comes down to a question of congruence, or alignment. Contrary to what gay media portrays, or what other fags deem attractive, being a fag isn’t about the way you look or act, “Straight looking, straight acting” is a lame attempt to line up to what somebody else – who’s never had your interests at heart anyway – dictate. It’s High School all over again. 

Far better to drop the crying, save money on tequila shots, stop asking others for advice, shut up and get quiet. And stay quiet. 

WUEF would be better off developing his own persona: if a fag has a body image and inherent mannerisms that just scream “sissy” there are only 2 choices: either live with it and turn it into an advantage or, change it. It’s healthy to take the full force of rejection – up to a point. Beyond that, the acceptance of rejection becomes debilitating and emotionally crippling. The trick is in turning the rejection into fuel, using it as a catalyst for something better for yourself. The operative phrase is “for yourself”. 

Neither WUEF, nor any fag, will be universally appealing to other fags. Thank God. True diversity lies in conscious choice-making emanating from the self, not the vapid opinions of some shallow clique. Having lived on the West Coast, FuelMix was frequently aghast at how the blonde-haired blue eyed college jock with the fake tan, was held up as the standard to which all fags should aspire. It was a beautifully orchestrated and well funded attempt to turn fags who weren’t physically similar, into quiet victims – feeling less than masculine, less than male, forcing them to fantasize over something they could never get, or ever become. 

FuelMix has often said that diversity in Fagland is a myth and that fags are some of the most vicious exclusionists anywhere. It’s one of the damning indictments of fags that their petty egos (which often have a wounded history), become the arbiters of visual and sexual acceptability. 

The ego isn’t it fags. In fact, of all the addictions that define the modern urban fag, the ego is the largest, the most serious and the most expensive. It loves to demand and it loves to wound – and when it gets wounded, watch out, it just turns nasty. 

Originally published 5 October 2007.  
Amended and Republished 4 November 2011 | 8 November 2014

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Speech Impediments

"Everything has changed, except our way of thinking".
-------Albert Einstein

When a white politician or white official criticizes the actions of a foreign country, white media refers to his remarks as:

• “carefully worded remarks” ; or
• “an expression of concern” ; or
• “a strongly worded statement” ; or
• “an important statement of policy”; or
• “issued a clear warning”; or
• “ laying down a doctrine of policy”; or
• “reiterating a stance”;

But when a foreign (i.e. Asian, Oriental, Russian, South American, Latin American, African, Middle East) politician or foreign official criticizes the actions of a white country, white media refers to his remarks as:

•  “ a rant”; or
• “launched into a tirade”; or
• “lashed out at…..”; or
• “shot his mouth off about….”; or
• “lambasted….”; or
• “mocked the actions of……”; or
•  " spewed rhetoric....";

So, if the implication is that only a white’s remarks carry more gravitas, are carefully weighed, delivered in a measured, logical and rational manner, how is it that:

• White economic policy;  and
• White monetary policy;  and
• White foreign policy;

(all given the appropriate gravitas by some white politician or official) are so patently absurd, disastrous and insane......that they are openly laughed at in Asia, The Orient, Russia, South America, Latin America, Africa and the Middle East...???

Originally published 22 March 2011. 
Amended and Republished 27 January 2012 | 7 November 2014

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Is Monogamy Miserable ? 4

COMPLETED 7 NOVEMBER 2014

 

2.   Gay Monogamy via Quantum Physics

1.   The Emergence of Quantum Physics

1.   Up till the early 20th Century, Newtonian physics held sway.  That declared the solidity of objects, that everything was in a fixed order and that a body at rest, stayed at rest.

2.   Then came a slew of Physicists who turned those theories upside down as they forged a new field - Quantum Physics (or Quantum Mechanics) that was both mind-boggling, complex and paradoxical. In Quantum Physics nothing was solid, everything was in a state of flux and vibration, there were no fixed outcomes, the outcome depended on the observer, two outcomes could exist simultaneously and would only collapse into a fixed outcome when observed, what constituted an objective observation, parallel universes were the norm.......back and forth the theories flew.

3.   .......and the paradox, the contradictions, the complexities, the perplexed theoretical physicists, the excited rocket engineers, the tech engineers, all nibble, gnaw, chew and choke on the latest theory, looking for practical applications.

4.   So.....what's this gotta do with a fag who claims to be in "a relationship" but is fucking around....?? Or is just single and promiscuous....?

2.  A Fag Is Just a Function of Quantum Physics

1.   When we look at guys around us, fag or not, we're judgmental. We rate guys as "hunks", "studs", "beefcake", "hardbodied", "lean muscled", "short", "tall", "fat", "skinny twink", "chub", "bears", "7 inches cut".......

2.   In Quantum Physics none of this exists. It simply coalesces as a phenomenon when we observe it. The reason we consider it objective is because everybody else sees the same thing too. In other words, "reality" is an interpretation of one or more of our 5 senses and then we formulate a collective "social agreement" that appears to "fix" that interpretation as definite.

3.   Beyond our interpretive "reality", we each exist as pulsing vibrations of sub-atomic particles in a quantum soup of sub-atomic particles.  These sub-atomic particles contain information, intelligence and memory which varies from moment to moment.  At the Quantum level there are no boundaries, no barriers.

4.   You and every other gay man are a coalesced pattern of pulsing sub-atomic particles that not only unceasingly zoom through you at incredible speed - but have zoomed through other gay men and other people and will continue to do so forever: 


3.   Sex and Emotion At The Quantum Level

• At the Quantum level, sub-atomic particles cannot be destroyed; 
• At the Quantum level, each person is intimately sharing intelligence, information and memory with everybody else - all the time, unceasingly; 
• At the Quantum level, there are no boundaries, no barriers. There is no such thing as "safe sex".  There is no such thing as casual, anonymous sex.  There is no such thing as "No Strings Attached" Sex";
• At the Quantum Level, it is impossible to be "emotionally faithful" while sleeping around (or claim to have "NSA sex" if you're unattached). The sub-atomic particles carry the memory of every person you ever played with and you're transmitting them to everybody else;
• At the Quantum level, you're carrying the emotional baggage of everybody you ever played with.
• So if you claim to be "emotionally faithful"....at the Quantum level, the question is... "to whom...?"
• One of the reasons, gay men are so emotionally fucked up, is because they haven't a clue just how much emotional baggage - at all levels - they may be carrying.  And sex is the biggest emotion of all.

4.   So....??

1.   The trick is to become aware.  The sub-atomic particles are the building blocks of the entire universe.  They carry information, intelligence and memory.

2.   If you claim the right to sleep around while claiming to be "emotionally faithful" in a relationship, you're in fact emotionally attached to a whole bunch of people and carrying their baggage, while transmitting yours to them.

3.   If you're single and unattached and having sex on the street and in the saunas, guess what....?? you're just as "emotionally faithful" and you're already in a relationship with every casual encounter you've ever had.  You're carrying their baggage.  They're carrying yours.

4.   Emotional rupture is being recognized as the true source of every major disease or minor illness.  Think about that.

5.   Emotional Clearing is not just a New Age thing.  It's a necessary process for your wellbeing - at all levels.


5.   For The Record

1.   We're not claiming that Monogamy works best.  Although our personal view is that in a relationship, it would still be preferable - provided a ton of Emotional Clearing was done by both parties beforehand.

2.  We're not bashing the "open relationship".  But.....if you want to sleep around in a "relationship" and still claim to be "Emotionally Faithful", ask yourself how much emotional shit from others you're carrying around - and then do some research about Emotional Clearing.  You might find yourself absolutely miserable and not know why.

3.  If you're single and unattached, picking up guys on the street, in the bars and in the saunas..... you're picking up a lot more than you think.  Do some research on Emotional Clearing.  You too might find yourself absolutely miserable and not know why.

4.  We're not stopping anyone from having recreational sex.  Hell, FuelMix (currently single and happily unattached) enjoys it and has no trouble getting it. But it takes self-reflection and awareness on many different levels - and constant Emotional Clearing.

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Is Monogamy Miserable ? 3

1.   Gay Monogamy - Sociological and Sub-Cultural

-- continued from Part 2 --

4.  Negotiating Infidelity is Hard Work...??!!
5.  ".....but we're emotionally faithful....."
6.  When The Dam Breaks


(4)  Negotiating Infidelity Is Hard Work...??!!

Yikes...!! Even FuelMix was surprised at how long the (partial) list of random thoughts became. And there's the paradox.........Fags screech that Monogamy is:

• boring
• requires too much self and mutual discipline
• reeks of self-denial
• takes too long to build up trust
• requires accountability and responsibility, they have needs too........

Wakey, wakey.....faggot......WTF do you think Negotiated Infidelity requires....??  That's right, fag.....exactly the same elements you bitch about against Monogamy......

That's why so many fags opt for the default setting - i.e. "Don't Ask Don't Tell".

Once the relationship moves out of the Dark Room, moves out from under the showers, away from the strobe lights of the circuit party and into the cold light of day, reality bites..........and both Top and Bottom become mute pussies.

Somehow, both have rationalized that it's easier to let the relationship "drift" than risk a confrontation or deadlock.  After all, he's not gonna stick around that long is he...?? The other one didn't.

There'll be a cursory conversation about "sleeping around" followed by a code of silence, self-censorship and assumptions. For better or worse, it is what it is.

The badly negotiated open relationship is as restrictive as the Monogamy both are desperate to avoid.


(5)  ".....but we're emotionally faithful...."

Negotiating infidelity (that buzz word, "Monogamish") or quarantining it so that it doesn't define the "relationship", is a containment device. Its structural integrity is entirely dependent on the skill and investment of those who built it.

We suspect that most fags don't have the emotional intelligence, the guts or the inclination to accurately state what "negotiated infidelity" actually means to the 2 of them.  Chances are that the precision with which the criteria for "negotiated infidelity" are articulated and observed, will fluctuate wildly from couple to couple.

In the same way that so many fags rationalize that "recreational drug use" is not a part-time addiction, we suspect that many fags rationalize that "recreational infidelity" is not betrayal. So they start loading phrases like ".....but we're emotionally faithful to each other".

This is where FuelMix gets totally fazed. Sex is an emotion. The brain is the biggest sex organ and processes emotions. When a fag who's in a "relationship" with another fag, is fucking "casual" hotties all over town, he's given in to his emotions.  So how can he claim he's "emotionally faithful" to his partner.....?

Moreover, as we wrote in No Anonymous Sex, there is no such thing as "No Strings Attached" - because the FULL MEMORY  of every sexual lust, fantasy and actual encounter is stored in the Subconscious Mind and can be recalled:

"Every encounter has a string attached.  It's called Subconscious Memory.

And that Subconscious Memory of every gay encounter, drives a gay man's conscious behaviour to every present and future gay encounter more that he'll ever know - and more than Faggotry will ever tell him".

(6)   When The Dam Breaks

Sooner or later, every relationship has to pass a Stress Test.  That means that the containment device - which is what Gay Negotiated Infidelity is - will also be tested. It is in fact, a barometer of betrayal - at a certain level it's acceptable, at another level it's not.  Just like the weather report, one is never sure what surprises the next day will bring.

To FuelMix, it's 50/50 whether Negotiated Infidelity is the strong point or the weak point in the relationship:

• Do both parties consistently test, articulate, re-affirm or modify the terms of Negotiated Infidelity?
• In times of stress in Negotiated Infidelity, does one of them flee to Bangkok or Cancun and the other flees to his parents.....?
• Are there Red Lines of Betrayal at which point, the relationship shatters e.g. a certain STD or HIV result that cannot be convincingly explained...?
• If one of them is sleeping around far more than the other is comfortable with, is he going to call him out on it...?
• What happens when one of them meets somebody more interesting as a result of Recreational Infidelity....?
• How do they keep accusations and recriminations out of it...?
• Should counseling be considered...?

Like we said above, Negotiated Infidelity is actually hard work.  All this bland talk by a fag with a boner that he's in an "open relationship" and "emotionally faithful", sounds like drivel to FuelMix.

Coming up in Part 4: Gay Monogamy via Quantum Physics and Metaphysics

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Is Monogamy Miserable ? 2

1.   Gay Monogamy - Sociological and Sub-Cultural

(1)   The Numbers Game

(2)   Resolving Cognitive Dissonance

(3)   Happily and Predictably UN-faithful....? Negotiating Gay Infidelity

(4)   Negotiating Infidelity is Hard Work.....???!!

(5)   ".....but we're emotionally faithful....."
(6)   When the Dam Breaks 

(1)  The Numbers Game

It's been said that men have a higher sex drive than women. Probably true. It's been said that gay men have a higher sex drive than str8 men.  Probably true.

Monogamy is a touchy issue for gay men because Faggotry at its core, is a sexual culture based on easy availability, thrill seeking and outright lust. It's a highly visual numbers game. Str8 guys go crazy figuring out how fags can get laid just on eye contact alone. Gay promiscuity, "casual encounters" and NSA hookups are the norm, not the exception.

(Yeah.....and just ask any str8 married guy exploring his "recreational gay side" on the "down-low" about NSA. They're ahead of the curve when it comes to re-examining their ideas about fidelity, even if they might be in denial about their sexuality.  They're more of them in the gay saunas than you might think and they're such pigs. When they show up, the wedding band goes in the locker and fidelity goes out the window).


(2)  Resolving Cognitive Dissonance

The concept of a relationship (no matter how badly a gay man quietly craves one) sets up a cognitive dissonance. He can't help it. On the one hand, tons of transient hot guys who fade in a blur of Kleenex, Grindr profiles, eye contact, wild sauna sex, heat-of-the moment What's App swaps next to the locker, Instagram friends, crumpled bits of paper with phone numbers and a first name .

On the other hand, that aching feeling for mutual honesty, stability, hot sex and.......commitment......the nagging realization that in Faggotry, a good man is (really, really) hard to find.

If one accepts the premise that grafting the concept of a monogamous relationship on 2 sexually raging gay men is dead at the starting gate, then negotiating infidelity makes perfect sense. Or, as Dan Savage seems to suggest (in Part 1) detouring around infidelity and attempting to quarantine it as a source of mutual strife.  Putting it another way, the greater (the relationship as a whole),  includes the lesser (sleeping around) but does not define it.


(3)  Happily and Predictably UN-faithful.....? Negotiating Gay Infidelity

So.....two fags get together in a relationship and decide that each will be able to sleep around.  That's the easy part. But how well do the majority of gay couples in an "open relationship" actually negotiate or articulate infidelity? We've written about the paradox where fags screeched for gays in the military to be open about their orientation, but chronically engage in "don't ask, don't tell" in their own um....."relationships". 

What are the elements of negotiated infidelity for gay men?  Some random thoughts:

(1)  If they're out together and see a hot guy:

• do they draw a distinction between being out on a date together (in which case, a bare minimum standard of fidelity applies and the hot guy is no more than eye candy) and just being downtown together in which case the hot guy is fair game?
• who gets him?....gay mens heads are always swiveling. And you thought The Exorcist was creepy........
• Is there a time limit within which sex with the hottie must be finished?
• Where do they have sex with the hot guy?
• Is a 3-some allowed?
• Can the other guy ask his partner for the hot guy's number too?
• Do they have to tell each other if one of them wants to see that hot guy again?
• Do they have to disclose to each other how much contact and online info they have about that hot guy?
• Does one of them have to disclose where he had sex with that hot guy?
• Since both of them spotted the hot guy, is one obliged to tell the other what happened and if it was good?
• If the agreement was that each could sleep around and use a condom, and in the heat of the moment, one goes bareback, does that have to be disclosed? What are the consequences?

(2)  If one is out alone and sees a hot guy:

• Does he have to disclose upfront to him that he's already "committed" but can sleep around by agreement?
• Does he have to disclose certain sexual kinks and practices that he won't do because of his "committed" status?
• Must either disclose their health status?

(3)  If one is out alone and wants to go to the sauna:

• Does he need to inform his partner or even get permission? 
• Does he need to make any subsequent disclosure? If so, what would it cover?

(4)  What if they run into each other at the sauna?

• What's the protocol for cruising, play and subsequent disclosure?
• What's the drug protocol in the sauna between the two of them?
• What if one wants group action and the other doesn't?
• Should they leave together?
• Is there a quota on the number of guys they can play with alone or jointly?

(5)  Disclosing Infidelity in Polite Company

• If they have an open relationship, what have they got to hide at a dinner party with friends or family?

(6)  Disclosing Negotiated Gay Infidelity to a Child or Teenager

• With some gay couples choosing to have children, what is the protocol for explaining why one Dad likes to go out alone and comes home late.....?
• How does one explain the apparent contradiction between Trust and Infidelity to a child or teenager?

 
(7)  STD and HIV Testing

• Since they're both sleeping around by mutual agreement, and may (or may not) have disclosed the extent of their cruising online, on the street, in the bars and in the sauna, how often should each get tested?
• Should both partners be tested together and be present at each other's test results?
• In the presence of a doctor or nurse, can one partner demand more information about the other's 
• sexual conduct based on the test results?

Coming Up in Part 3: 

(4)   Negotiating Infidelity is Hard Work.....???!!

(5)   ".....but we're emotionally faithful....."
(6)   When the Dam Breaks
Originally published 1 February 2014
Republished 7 November 2014

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Is Monogamy Miserable ? 1

Now that, for the moment, the cocaine dust has settled in the West following a "landmark decision" - fascinated readers will already know how fags like to exaggerate -  (actually it was a limited facilitative ruling) by the Supreme Court in God's Own Country concerning Gay Marriage, FuelMix thought it would be appropriate to look at an article about Monogamy that he had been holding in reserve:

(Underlining and bold print by FuelMix):

Each year brings forth its rich harvest of adulterers who have vaulted out of the marriage bed and scooted off – leaving heartbreak and lawyers’ bills in their wake. Across age, race and class, it’s the same story. And each year people scratch their heads in puzzlement and wonder where it all went wrong. 

.............. Maybe, suggested America’s leading relationships columnist, Dan Savage, it’s time we looked more closely at monogamy and asked if we’re really cut out for it as a species. 

.............. Savage’s suggestion was a novel one. Hetero­sexuals, he reckoned, should learn to behave more like homosexuals — and gay males in particular. What this means, in essence, is that they should re-examine their ideas about fidelity. Savage, who’s gay himself, insists he’s faithful to his partner, and vice versa. That said, his definition of fidelity is one that any thesaurus would struggle to accommodate.

“My partner’s fidelity to me is as important as anyone who’s in a monogamous relationship with someone else; we just don’t define sexual exclusivity as the be-all and end-all of commitment. In other words, we’re faithful to each other, but sometimes we have sex with other people.

“However, that in no way violates our commitment to each other.” 

----------"Is monogamy making us miserable?", John Preston, The Telegraph, 10 September 2011

Since FuelMix does things differently, we're gonna look at Gay Monogamy from 2 perspectives:

• Sociological and Sub-Cultural
• Quantum Physics and Metaphysics

Coming up in Parts 2 and 3 : Gay Monogamy Sociological and Sub-Cultural 

Originally published 28 January 2014
Republished 7 November 2014

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When Str8 Looking Str8 Acting Fails

"If they smell gay on you, it's over!"

-----"Don't Act, Don't Tell:  Anti-Gay Laws Make Targets of Us All", Mark O'Connell, Truthdig,' 11 March 2014

1.  The Perception
2.  It's Not Just The Legislation, Violence or Rhetoric
3.  Action And Reaction


1.  The Perception

1.  How the perceived - and utterly subjective -  assessment of a person's sexual orientation, can be deadly........creating the phenomenon, "Don't ACT, Don't Tell".

2.  The above quote was in the context of professional actors and the rejection they face at auditions if "they seem gay" - regardless of their actual sexual orientation.

3.  The main point of Mr O'Connell's article is to show the increase in anti-gay sentiment globally, as well as the implication that those who "seem gay" are legitimate targets for discrimination and violence:

• Certain countries - notably in Africa and the Caribbean passed legislation that specifically targeted gays and those who might be friendly towards them or complicit in their activities;
• The refusal or delay in some countries, in the West and elsewhere, to pass Employment Non-Discrimination legislation based on sexual orientation or gender identity;
• Using the criteria of "sincerely held religious beliefs" to deny professional service to gays or those seeming to be gay; 
• Gratuitous violence against those assumed to be gay;
• Statements by (right wing) politicians that legal protections are not needed for those who do not deliberately flaunt their sexual orientation; 

2.   It's Not Just The Legislation, Violence or Rhetoric

1.  O'Connell is correct in reporting the facts evidencing anti-gay sentiment.  He is also correct in asserting that subjective perception of a person's sexuality at any given moment is potentially dangerous.

2.  But he is incorrect in implying at the beginning of his article, that this sentiment is something that somehow took on a life of its own.

3.  It didn't.  Nothing operates in a vacuum. 

4.  Several times in this blog, we referred to the Engine of Faggotry and the posture of aggression that it encourages.  We have alluded to the enforced, hypocritical, societal behaviour modification that the Politically Correct enablers of Faggotry are pushing.  See for example:

• Gay Pop Fadeout 2;
• Understanding Absurdity;
• Armed and Queer;
• Gag Rags and Propaganda;
• Duck Fucked; 
• On Being Politically Correct 1;
• On Being Politically Correct 2;

5.  We said several times that there would be a backlash - not just from the independently thinking gay man who swore no allegiance to Faggotry anyway - but from a pissed off heterosexual public angered by what they perceived as Faggotry's egregious overreach and a one way street of minority imposition.

6.  The facts itemized by O'Connell are the backlash.


3.   Action And Reaction

1.  If we are correct in our assertions, then what we are witnessing now is Action and Reaction.

2.  The more Faggotry ramps it up, the greater the likelihood that the backlash will be more overt, more visible and draconian. It's a vicious circle.

3.  Remember one more thing:  the Politically Correct enablers of Faggotry are also political operatives. Outrage, Political and Verbal Extremism, Boycotting, Lobbying, Fundraising and Backroom Deals are their modus operandi. They're all bargaining chips.  That's how they get what they want.

4.  Stand back, half close your eyes and one can perceive how extreme anti-gay legislation, denial of retail and professional service, violence and inflammatory rhetoric are virtually the mirror images of Faggotry's modus operandi.  They're all bargaining chips too - yes, even the murders, as callous as that may sound.

5.  Why are the innocent targeted in such a fatal way....?  The reality is nobody knows who actually controls Faggotry.  The politicians, pretty boys, gay (and gay-friendly) celebs who advocate for Faggotry are just proxies and patsies with a carefully groomed public image. How they are perceived -  or as they say in Politics, "the optics" -  is key. Everything depends on them being at the right place at the right time, keeping the right company, saying the right things, acting the right way.

6.  Similarly, those innocents subjected to anti-gay violence are perceived - "the optics" - as the public face of Faggotry and all the anger that brings up.  They become tragic statistics of those who were at the wrong place at the wrong time, keeping the wrong company, saying the wrong things, acting the wrong way.

7.  In a vicious circle of Action and Reaction, the struggle to impose or reject political correctness, that's how Str8 Looking, Str8 Acting (on both sides of the sexual orientation equation) fails - sometimes with fatal results.

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If You Marry Them, They Will Come

COMPLETED 6 NOVEMBER 2014

(Underlining and bold print by FuelMix)

LGBT Still Has Room To Grow 

Although we were unable to gather statistics to support this, several operators are reporting that the much-anticipated boom of the gay destination wedding market in Hawaii hasn't exactly unfolded as anticipated. A University of Hawaii researcher said in November of last year that a law to allow same-sex marriage in Hawaii was expected to boost tourism there by $217 million over the next three years. 

But operators are simply not seeing it. 

“In our opinion, there hasn’t really been any significant growth in this market....... We just have not seen it. It could be doing well for other people as Hawaii in general is just such a huge wedding destination, but we specifically are not seeing a major pickup in this segment.” 

 And Joelle Arriola, Classic Vacations’ product director for Hawaii and South Pacific, agrees.

“There really hasn't been much growth in the last year in the LGBT market as a whole.....but we would imagine this being a market that will continue to grow. There is just so much marketing and press releases going around on this market that it can really only go up.

 -----Hawaii Forecast:  The Latest Trends in the Aloha State, by Joe Pike, Travel Agent Central, 22 October 2014

A reader in Hawaii sent us the above link. We giggled. When we wrote about Gay Marriage we said the issue wasn't about Luuuv......it was about money. Specifically, access to same-sex benefits. We even speculated that the numbers of gay men actually getting married would not be that high.  When we wrote about the alleged power of The Pink Dollar, we suggested it might be over-hyped.

The above article brings out those themes nicely.  But rather than gloat, we'll give you our current take:

1.   Conventional gay social and political apparatchiks have a tendency to exaggerate and misrepresent.  We wrote about this before when highlighting alleged attendance figures for Gay Pride in Vancouver. The quoted article above would have been more substantive had it extracted the relevant portions of the research study that landed on the figure of US$217 Million as the gay marriage tourism in Hawaii boost over the next 3 years.  We suspect the reasons for this happy estimate were as follows:

• Keeping face;
• Attempting to show LGBT social and economic relevance;
• Positioning for grants, subsidies and good publicity;

2.   The reason there hasn't been any significant growth in the LGBT market in Hawaii:

• The figure may have been exaggerated to begin with;
• Hawaii is a "been there, done that location" for gays.  It was huge in the 1980s and 1990s when babble of "The Pink Dollar" first started;
• The Hawaiian economy slumped generally, but real estate prices soared on the back of Asian (Mainland Chinese) buyers laundering cash;
• There is no shortage of higher end exclusively gay resorts in other countries;
• The US Dollar is comparatively strong compared to rapidly debasing international currencies (even though the US has been actively debasing its currency since 2008).  It makes sense to go on a gay honeymoon in other countries, even if they marry in the US;
• There is huge income inequality in the US - more pronounced from 2008 onwards.  Checked out the numbers on Food Stamps lately....?? To imply that gay men are immune to that is naive.
• Heard the stories lately of the treatment one gets at US airports...?? (That was a major reason why Chicago didn't the get the 2016 Olympics);
• Despite the stock market hype, the real US economy is stagnant. Two gays in tuxedos, a 3-tiered wedding cake, faaa--buuu---louss champagne, some M&Ms and a bottle of poppers ain't gonna revive it - no matter how many times you say "aloha";

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Yeah, I'm Chem Friendly

It's a sign of abject desperation and marked stupidity when vacuous GAMs in Very Rich Megacity, as part of their quest to bag a white fag, start proclaiming that they're "chem friendly". Closer questioning reveals that said GAMs have never taken a chem in their lives and are actually terrified at the prospect.

But.......since every other GAM they know is on chems and has fucked a white fag, it appears that the 2 must go together. So, twitching with anticipation, a number of GAMs are dropping the "chem friendly" line in chat rooms and in face-to-face conversations, hoping to impress the already-addicted, chronically-immune-system-suppressed white fag into fucking their oriental holes. FuelMix was aghast.

Listen up GAM. Chemical addiction is NOT the price you have to pay to suck white dick. Is this the level to which your self-esteem has sunk.....??!!

Losers. Holy Shit.  

Originally published 21 November 2007.  
Amended and Republished 6 November 2011 | 6 November 2014

Just So Fuckin' Sensitive

The other day an airline pilot in God’s Own Country was heard by air traffic controllers dissing the high content of old farts and (in his words)  "fags" who were Flight Attendants on his plane. The pilot wasn’t aware that his mic was on at the time and bemoaned the fact that he had to mix with them.  

The Flight Attendants got wind of this.  The pilot was suspended from flying and ordered to take Sensitivity Classes.

FuelMix thinks that’s pathetic.  Not his behaviour, but the order to take Sensitivity Classes.

Let’s do a reality check.

Certain jobs attract a high concentration of fags.  Flight Attendant is one of them.  They’ve been doing it for decades.  It’s well known in the West that certain airlines have flights that are stuffed with fag Flight Attendants.  In other words, the fag Cabin Crew totally outnumber the straight pilots that comprise the Flight Crew.  

Whilst a Flight Attendant’s work involves manual labour and a customer–focused zeal, it also breeds a certain attitude, mindset and behaviour that crosses all Time Zones.  With practice, it’s pretty easy to spot an off-duty fag Flight Attendant in a fag bar.   There’s something about them that just gives them away. 

Fag Flight Attendants are OK to mix with in a strictly limited kind of way.  Face it, just how many times should they be complimented for quoting verbatim, every issue of their In-Flight Magazine?  At some point one has to pity the thinking gay man or the frustrated str8 pilot who calls it like it is.

Secondly, airlines in the West are notorious for hiring old farts.  They’ve been doing it for decades.  That’s why whites are so thrilled and relieved to fly Asian airlines.  There’s more eye candy of genders and sexualities.  Not to mention the service and food are better.

So if there’s a high chance of an airline in the West being stuffed with fag and old fart Flight Attendants who outnumber the Flight Crew – and who both have the potential to further frustrate the Flight Crew on their downtime – exactly who should be taking the Sensitivity Classes?

Them.

Originally published 25 June 2011
Amended and Republished 6 November 2014

Pavlov's Other Bitches

When we look at other people, we've trained ourselves to look for:

• lies about their age
• lies about their stats
• lies about their health status
• lies about their drug use
• lies about their job
• lies about their sexuality
• lies about their relationship status
• lies about their name
• lies about their location

• signs of a nose job
• signs of a boob job
• Botox
• liposuction
• facelifts
• tummy tucks
• butt lifts

• hair straightening
• hair extensions
• hair colouring
• eyebrow tinting
• eyelash perming

• tinted contacts
• capped teeth
• teeth whitening

• push-up bras
• push-up jocks
• cock ring bulges
• padded underwear

• spray on tans
• bronzer
• steroids

Trained as we are to sniff out fakes, we couldn't find True Love if it hit us in our recently engineered faces.

Originally published 21 February 2011.  
Republished 3 November 2011 | 6 November 2014

The Other Me

It's one of the most perplexing attributes of online faggotry: the number of fags who feel compelled to put up 2 simultaneously running ads on the same site, with very slight variations in their stats - usually height or weight.

The dead giveaway is that neither ad contains a pic and the wording is excruciatingly similar.

What are they attempting to achieve? A couple of centimeters here, a few kilos there?

FuelMix agrees that online ads is a numbers game, but as usual, fags have got it ass-to-front. Online ads are supposed to attract the largest number of people, without the fag having to slice himself into false and fractured bait in order to feed the hungry and the leery.

FuelMix can't recall having seen a really creative online fag personal ad that, irrespective of stats, would make the reader go, "Wow! That fag is good!"

What's the current outer limit of the fag's creative juices? 2 ads, neither of which are probably accurate, and a ubiquitous exhortation to, "Let's do it!" - which in FuelMix's lexicon is a prior declaration of failure.

The depressing realization is that at much as fags bitch about diversity in their "community", every ad is still same ol', same ol'.  And the thing is, the fag - and the next generation of fags - repeats this stunt year after year (which is why this post has been updated and republished, you see).

Is FuelMix the only one to notice that str8 people are much better at online personals?

Originally published 2 January 2010
Amended and Republished 18 August 2013 | 6 November 2014

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The Blood Of My Children

At the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation), the white fag spoke grimly about his failed marriage, the number of children, the distance between him and them. FuelMix guessed the space wasn’t measured in miles. It was a chasm of regret and yearning spanned by broken fibers of DNA. He’d fathered the children, but was never really their father. 

He was another man’s lover - until recently.
 
It appeared he had adopted the “lifestyle” as a disguise, a camouflage of superficial camaraderie and nomadic chronic hedonism to hide the pain of unspoken betrayal. He was strenuously advocating an “open relationship” as a hedge against emotional intimacy and over-invested trust.

When FuelMix asked whether he had betrayed his children, or his lover had betrayed him, the fag went quiet. 

Then he walked away.

Originally published 4 May 2006
Amended and republished 8 May 2013 | 3 November 2014

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