Adultery

To:

Those gay men who claim to be married or have a boyfriend, or claim to be, or think they are, in a relationship, but are sleeping around:

• with consent of the other partner;
• with the assumed consent of the other partner;  
• without the consent of their partner;
• without disclosing or discussing what they're up to;
• on the basis of "don't ask, don't tell";
• assuming their partner is also sleeping around;
• or just flat out lying about what they're up to;

we present the comments of Sadhguru.  Speaking in perfect English, with the option of English subtitles.  Running time: 6 minutes.



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See also the posts:  

1. Yeah I'm Straight
2. Open Season
3. The Vow
4. The Pact
5. And The Band Stayed On
6. Bi-furcation
7. For Better, For Worse Or Whatever
8. An Ideal.....Compromised 
9. Shot Through The Heart 

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Gay Men And Forgiveness 2

It’s not difficult to find a gay man who has been hurt by another gay man. 

Sure, there might be different degrees of hurt. Some offenses were probably more subtle, while others were more blatant and outward. Regardless, they all can leave a mark. 

The reality is that many gay men are carrying past hurt with them day in and day out. The experience and wound gets re-opened each time they think about the look, insult or slur that was thrown their way. Instead of healing, the wound gets sliced open over and over again. 

On the other side, there are gay men out there who continue to hurt other gay men. Their view of the world is narrow and self-absorption is a way of life. Their self is the center of the world and they swing violently throughout the bars, beaches and community, much like a wrecking ball (cue Miley Cyrus). 

All of this creates a recipe for long-lasting grudges, cycles of hurt and monumental barriers to forming a sense of community among gay men. 

Is this presence of skepticism, paranoia and suspicion of gay men toward other gay men an old phenomenon? Or is this new? Is it something that wasn’t ever talked about or acknowledged before or are we facing a brand new beast? 

What I don’t hear a lot within the gay community is the concept of forgiveness. 

Merriam-Webster says to forgive is to “stop feeling anger toward (someone who has done something wrong)” and “to stop blaming (someone).” To “stop feeling anger about (something) and “to forgive someone for (something wrong)”. 

While there are certainly pockets and moments of love shown between gay men, there is also burning rage in the hearts of many — especially those who have been hurt time and again. 

Both Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mahatma Gandhi spoke strongly about forgiving others. King said, “We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love.” And Gandhi boldly proclaimed, “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong”. 

It’s safe to say that most gay men have been hurt by other gay men at some point in their lives. What would it look like for you to forgive the gay men that have hurt you in your life? Is it possible for you to let go of that hurt you’ve been carrying around for days weeks, months or even decades? Do you believe reconciliation is even possible? 

Maybe forgiveness is a muscle we’ve allowed to get flabby and weak. Maybe we’ve been holding out for an apology from our perpetrator that may never arrive. The truth is that when we refuse to forgive others, we only imprison ourselves. 

Every gay man reading this gets to decide: Will I carry anger or love in my heart? You can’t carry both. 

Yes, we need to educate our fellow gay men and be bold in confronting racism, classism, ageism and other -isms that too often go unaddressed in our community. 

I fear, however, that without an element of forgiveness, our posture toward one another will continue to harden. The distance and divide will increase and the toxic words we throw toward one another will become increasingly sharp and pointed. 

There’s very little hope of cultivating community and friendships when we can’t stand one another and when we won’t forgive. 

Forgiveness is messy. It’s complicated. Maybe we’re afraid to air our “dirty laundry” to the larger world. If we’re real honest with ourselves, gay men are not at all immune to hating one another. Perhaps a part of you hates other gay men in this very moment. 

While writing this, I came across these powerful words from Archbishop Desmond Tutu:

Forgiving and being reconciled to our enemies or our loved ones are not about pretending that things are other than they are. It is not about patting one another on the back and turning a blind eye to the wrong. True reconciliation exposes the awfulness, the abuse, the hurt, the truth. It could even sometimes make things worse. It is a risky undertaking, but in the end it is worthwhile, because in the end, only an honest confrontation with reality can bring real healing. Superficial reconciliation can bring only superficial healing.

Will gay men step forward to choose forgiveness? Will I? Will you? What will be your first step toward forgiving your fellow gay men?..................


-----"What If Gay Men Forgave One Another?",  by Josh Hersh, July 17, 2014, The Blog, Huffington Post 

See also: Gay Men And Forgiveness 1

Talking To Adam 14

I have to get back before midnight you know, 'coz I sorta have a boyfriend.

Of course I'm cheating on him all the time.  Come on, for fuck's sake.....all gay guys cheat on their boyfriend.  You have to remember that for a gay guy, a boyfriend is just an excuse that he can say to another guy when he's cruising and he doesn't find that other guy attractive.

That's it.  That's all a boyfriend is good for.  Just a fuckin' excuse to throw in an ugly guy's face.

But when a hot guy comes along.....the boyfriend and the excuse are toast.

For FuelMix's view, see the post, Open Season.


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Daddy Issues

When you hear someone refer to “Daddy Issues”, there’s always a negative connotation to the conversation. All my life I’ve heard this reference while secretly the topic made sense to me and excited me. I was thinking how wonderful it was to want a Daddy in my life-never agreeing with the surrounding negative comments about this topic. It has taken me years of secrecy and self analysis to accept, embrace and love my inner “boy” that will exist until the day I die.

So yeah, I grew up with a dad that was distant, never paid me attention and never showed me affection.. much less love.

At age 11 or 12, I went on a hunting trip with an uncle and I got lots of attention from his buddies and I was immediately in love with them.

They were MEN, blue-collar, hairy, muscular, truck driving, whiskey drinking, foul-mouthed MEN. The minute I got into a pick up truck with three of them I felt the instant attraction. I remember later that night in my own bed thinking about them and wishing they would have kept me and take me to live with them. I couldn’t stop thinking about those Alpha Men.

The first time I jerked off I thought of a woman, the second time I thought about theMen in the hunting cabin, and my orgasm was 100 Xs more intense.

My first orgasm at age 11or 12 I was thinking about the Men I had met on the hunting trip. From that day on all I could think about was those MEN, those muscled hairy Alpha Men hat talked dirty, hung out together half naked in the hunting cabin , drank a lot and oozed testosterone. I had never been around any thing like this. And suddenly everything instantly clicked in my head that I could belong to them. I can’t explain the feeling of suddenly fitting in or feeling at home or or the planets aligning, but suddenly everything made sense about my feelings.

After that trip, all I could think about was trying to get their attention and do anything to make those MEN happy. I was obsessed with seeing them again and making them smile and feel good. I went from thinking about playing with my friends and baseball after school to just obsessing about taking care of those MEN. I have this uncontrollable urge to please them, and I didn’t know how or what to do but I couldn’t get rid of the urge to do anything for them that they would ask of me.

Then I started masturbating…… And my active imagination came up with ways to put a smile on those faces, and ways to make those MEN feel good and ways to please them.. With no knowledge of how to have sex, I instinctually started thinking about submitting to them, being on my knees and nursing on their cocks like a baby on a milk bottle. I’ve never felt as in sync with the universe as I did when I started imagining me servicing those Alphas. The thought of sucking off Men and getting all of my nourishment from them was as natural as breathing. ( see my blog “ Participate In The Big Cum Experiment”)

So yes, I love my Daddy issues. Discovering that part of myself led to me knowing myself like I never have before. I realized that I was born to please MEN, there is nothing that is a satisfying for me as giving everything to a MAN.Anything you can think of that would please HIM, my body, my money, my hole, my mouth, my throat, anything that would satisfy him I am willing to give.

It’s time we embrace our daddy issues, so we can rightfully and proudly take our place as submissive boys in the world and that take care of, support and worship the MEN around us. The ones that choose us as their own need us too, I consider myself very lucky to have been used as a boy for Some amazing Alphas, most of them active duty military men.

So let’s start thinking of daddy issues as a good thing, let’s use it n a positive contexts, make boys proud to raise their hand and offer themselves to the MEN that need use. I am proud to submit to, service and please the MEN in my life.

And to the wonderful Alphas out there, thank a Dad for giving us our “Daddy Issues,”

-----"The Great Thing About Daddy Issues", sub-fag-cocksucker-for-alphas.tumblr.com

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Fake Gay News 1

Spotted on CruisingGays.com under the Hong Kong section. 

Hong Kong MRT - Subway

Looking for some on the way to work, going home from work, after shopping or after the club? For all you guys who are riders on the subway' it is becoming a huge trend to ride the last car, known as the 'cruise Car'. It's making it real easy to cruise if we all ride the same car. Who knows, maybe Transit Authorities will catch on, dim the lights and put in a Martini Bar with some music?

1.  Dead giveaway:  In Hong Kong, the subway is known as the MTR, not MRT.  In Singapore, the subway is known as MRT.

2.  Post is undated.

3.  Writer is attempting to start a "trend", no doubt based on the fact that in Tokyo, the last carriage of the Shinjuku line has been gay for years.

4.  And remind us again, just how many lines does the Hong Kong MTR have...?

5.  For FuelMix's encounter on the MTR, see the post, A Date With The Crotch Of Destiny.

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Gay Sauna Write Off List - July 2018

1.  Here is FuelMix's updated list of the gay saunas as at July 2018 that he's written off as a waste of time and money.  It is purely subjective, based on his published reviews and input from GAM-Throats-On-The Street. Readers can draw their own conclusions and submit a review.

2.  In fact, readers can submit a  review of a gay sauna in any  Asian city.  With few exceptions, most readers are too passive to say anything.  Instead, they'll swallow the "sauna reviews" shit found on the more mainstream gay sites.

3.  Whatever.

• Alexander (closed 30 November 2016);
• Arena (opened 10 September 2016);
• Big Top;
• Birds (opened 27 February 2016);
• Galaxy;
• Central Escalator;
• Chaps;  We were told this place had closed down.  When we called the number to check this, nobody picked up the phone.  We are seeing recent reviews of this place on TravelGayAsia (not very positive) and still nobody is picking up the phone.  If any reader has the definitive answer to whether Chaps is still in business, let us know;
• Colony;
• QQ Fitness; Although the clientele are mainly fugly GAMs plus GAM Twinks, we hear GWMs in their 30s, in decent shape to gym fit, do show up here because of its extremely discreet location and, according to our GAM-Throats-On-The Street, because it's located just around the corner from the very well known upstairs toilets in Cross Street, just outside Wanchai Park.

  4.  Readers are also referred to  Talking To Adam 14 for an overall view of the saunas in Hong Kong.

5.  The surprising conclusion from our assessments is that all 3 saunas located in the prime downtown tourist and shopping area of Tsim Sha Tsui - Arena, Birds and Galaxy - are write offs.  Considering there are so many hotels in that area with horny tourists. that's not a good sign.

6.  There is always Kowloon Park, conveniently located on the corner of Haiphong Road and Nathan Road in Tsim Sha Tsui.  From what we've seen and heard, this just gets busier and busier in the evenings from about 6:30pm till midnight and beyond.  And yes, fags, tourists from all over know about this place.  Word is spreading.

7. We have a lot of information about actual and potential cruising areas around town, (from direct observation and what we've been told by our friendly GAM-Throats-On-The Street) We're not sure whether to upload it and create the definitive guide, together with readers' contributions, (just like the gay sauna guides) or whether to forget it.

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• We reserve the right NOT to publish reviews we deem suspicious, inaccurate or self-serving;
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Big Top Gym And Sauna 24

3rd Floor, Yuet Yuen Building

17 - 19 Mong Kok Road

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2

Tel: 2628 6196

Website: Big Top Gym & Sauna

Note: Open 2pm to 8am the next day; 
On weekends and public holidays open 2pm till 10am the next day. 
Staff speak good English 

 
FUELMIX HAS WRITTEN OFF BIG TOP
(See Big Top Gym And Sauna 22 dated 5 June 2017)

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Readers May Submit Theirs

"Hey, FuelMix", said the 30-something GWM with whom FuelMix was only very, very, very casually acquainted, "have you been to Big Top lately..?"

"Nah", said FuelMix, "I wrote it off some time ago for a number of reasons".

30sGWM:  Yeah me too, but last Monday evening, I decided to drop in.  I was pleasantly surprised...the place was quite full with local GAMs, maybe one or two Asian tourists, and the local GAMs were coming through the door regularly.  Truthfully, most were nothing to look at and there was the usual attitude, but there was a wide variety of ages and body types.  I got cruised a bit in the showers and steam room and was serviced twice in the private rooms by slim fit GAMs. 

FM:  Whoopee...!!

30sGWM [grins]: Then I fucked a GAM twink.  He was screaming the whole time and everybody could hear it.

FM[grins]: That's how it should be.....in surround sound

30sGWM:  I was surprised at the number of people there on a Monday evening.  They really need more rooms.  7 is just pathetic.  I wasn't expecting to get action, since I was the only white guy in the premises for the 3 hours that I hung around - and ya know how whites won't drift from Central Escalator, except maybe to Hutong.

FM:  Yeah

30sGWM:  I wasn't expecting so many peeps there on a Monday evening and didn't think that I would get action several times.  I hadn't been back in ages 'coz I didn't like the place.

FM:  What about the Filipino cocksuckers looking to marry a white guy so they can get the hell outta Flipland...?

30sGWM [smirks]:  Central Escalator, honey.

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Tai Kwun

10 Hollywood Road
Central
Hong Kong

• MTR Central Station Exit D1: Come out on Pedder Street, turn right on to Queen’s Road Central and walk west until reaching Cochrane Street. Then take the stairs to join the Mid-Levels Escalators.  On the corner of Hollywood and Old Bailey Street, there is a footbridge extending from the escalator that connects directly to one of the entrances of  Tai Kwun above Old Bailey Street.  That entrance is known as Footbridge Gate.
• MTR Hong Kong Station Exit E: Come out of IFC and take the elevated pedestrian walkway over Connaught Road Central.  Walk past  Hang Seng Bank Head office, through the Central Market Building and then join the Mid-Levels Escalators to enter Tai Kwun.  On the corner of Hollywood Road and Old Bailey Street, there is a footbridge extending from the escalator that connects directly to one of the entrances of Tai Kwun above Old Bailey Street.  That entrance is known as Footbridge Gate

Web: taikwun.hk
Opening Hours: 11am - 11pm (Visitors Centre 8pm. Shops may close earlier) 



Tai Kwun opened in June 2018 and is the centre for heritage, arts, shopping and dining.  It occupies the site of three important colonial-era buildings:  the restored former Central Police Station, Central Magistracy and Victoria Prison.

It is very easy to locate since it's a huge colonial site on Hollywood Road.  It's also easy to get into with 5 pedestrian gates open to the public:

1. Bauhinia House Gate on Arbuthnot Road;
2. Blue Gate at the top of Old Bailey Street;
3. Footbridge Gate at the bottom of and above, Old Bailey Street;
4. Old Bailey Gate at street level on Old Bailey Street;
5. Pottinger Gate at the top of the Pottinger Street Steps;

And you fags are gonna love this place.....

• It's a great place to sit, sip, nibble and people watch (trust us, we've done it);
• It's a great place to window shop and shop (trust us, we've done it)
• It's a great place to eat (trust us, we've done it);
• It's a great place to just **ahem** wander around not knowing which hottie you might run into (trust us, we've done it);
• It's a great place to pose (trust us, we've done it);
• It's a great place to ask a cute stranger to take pics of you, then start a conversation which you can take to one of the outside tables and continue over a snack and a drink (trust us, we've done it)
• It's a great place to make eye contact (trust us, we've done it);
• There are plenty of toilets........in case you need to fix your makeup and comb your hair; (we'll let you fill in the blanks on that one);

Truth is, although very few people will say it publicly, Hollywood Road area is very gay-centric.

We're not just talking about that asylum for gay whites, Central Escalator.  The reality is one can make eye contact or get cruised just by walking along Hollywood Road from exploring Tai Kwun to exploring PMQ (which we've written about previously) to the notorious Sun Yat Sen Steps on Shing Wong Street and the "facilities". Those "facilities" are so famous that (not only have they been the repeated subject of Craigslist hookups) one of the married elderly male cleaning staff are in on it - and will  make "customer recommendations"........

We didn't believe it when our friendly GAM-Throats-On-The-Street told us about the staff at the Sun Yat Sen Steps going over and above the call of duty.  Then we showed up and sure enough, the elderly male attendant was "very friendly" pointing out who's who and saying FuelMix should have no trouble finding "friends".  We giggled like hell.

It's these sharp portraits of Very Rich Megacity that make living here such a joy.

For another example of what happened to FuelMix at a public toilet, check out the post, PPnP (Pee, Porn and Preview).

We do not encourage any illegal behaviour.  We simply report what we've seen and experienced.


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Human Fountains

When this act made its debut on America's Got Talent around June 2018, it split the viewing audience into those who absolutely loved their comic timing and irreverent debauchery and those who thought the entire act was disgusting and repulsive.



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FuelMix thought it was clever, gutsy and in similar vein to the parody of Le Ballet de Trocadero.

And we're fully aware of how many gay guys are really, really into spit and watersports - but will never admit it except when cruising deep in a gay sauna, or gym and swimming pool locker room showers, or scrolling through Tumblr, or advertising on specialist hookup sites or cruising in public toilets.

For another perspective on watersports, check out:

Shopping Mall Toilet Attendant 1
Shopping Mall Toilet Attendant 2
Glory Daze, Golden Showers 

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Babies

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When the baby is old enough, they send it to school, where it spends twelve years being taught lies about how the world works so that one day it will be able to watch CNN and say “Yes, this makes perfect sense” instead of “This is ridiculous” or “Why does this whole entire thing seem completely fake?” or “I want to punch Chris Cuomo in the throat.” 

The baby is taught history, which is the study of the ancient, leftover propaganda from whichever civilization happened to win the wars in a given place at a given time. 

The baby is taught geography, so that later on when its country begins bombing another country, the baby’s country won’t be embarrassed if its citizens cannot find that country on a globe. 

The baby is taught obedience, and the importance of performing meaningless tasks in a timely manner. This prepares the baby for the half century of pointless gear-turning it will be expected to undertake after graduation. 

The baby is taught that it lives in a free country, with a legitimate electoral system which facilitates meaningful elections of actual representatives in a real government. It is never taught that those elections, representatives and government are all owned and operated by the very rich, who use them to ensure policies which make them even richer while keeping everyone else as poor as possible so that they won’t have to share political power. It is never taught that highly secretive intelligence and defense agencies form alliances with those rich people to advance murderous and exploitative agendas for profit and power. It is never taught that the things it sees on television are mostly lies. 

The baby is smoothly, seamlessly funneled from uterus to full-time employment through this system, often with a little religion mixed in to really drive home the importance of obedience and meekness and the nobility of poverty. From there the various screens in the baby’s life take over its continuing education, tightening the bolts of the propaganda cage and making sure that baby keeps turning those gears without asking too many questions. This continuing education continues until the baby dies in a mass shooting or nuclear holocaust, or of cancer from trying to numb the pain of living with cigarettes, or of liver failure from trying to numb the pain of living with alcohol, or of suicide because it just couldn’t take it anymore, or from its body and brain simply falling apart after a long, pointless, immensely unsatisfying life. 

So now you’ve got all these babies wandering around, just as confused and clueless as the day they were born, thinking thoughts they were told to think and believing beliefs they were told to believe. Some are better at feigning confidence than others, but one baby’s guess about what’s going on is really as good as the next baby’s. The only thing any of them have ever known is the stories that they have been told. 

So those stories get treated as something very important. All they’ve been taught to believe from womb to present moment tells them that it’s very important to keep turning those gears and walking in the same direction as all the other babies, so if all of a sudden one baby steps out of line and starts saying things like “Uhh, guys? We’re marching off a cliff of ecocide and omnicide. Maybe we should turn around?” or “It’s all a lie! We’re being exploited and deceived by an Orwellian oligarchy!”, that baby will usually sound crazy to all the other babies. 

“Shut up you crazy conspiracy theorist baby,” they might say.“We all agree on our story about what’s going on. Our parents told us the same story, our teachers told us the same story, the news man on TV told us the same story, and the politicians told us the same story. We can’t all be wrong!”

But of course they can, and they are.  All it takes is a dominant power structure wielding sufficient control of the stories that all the babies are told. 

Imagine, though, if one of the other babies stepped forward and said, 

“You know what? Maybe that baby is right. None of the stories we’re told have ever added up.  

How come voting never seems to make much difference no matter who we elect and our lives stay shitty even though we always vote for the politician who promises to make them better? 

How come the news man on TV is always telling us about a New Official Bad Guy we need to go bomb, and how come it always happens the same way each time?   

And how come they can always afford all those big fancy bombs while we’re getting poorer and poorer?” 

Then the story of total agreement would be disrupted. If another baby steps forward and does the same thing the story loses even more weight. If those babies get better at communicating with other babies, say with the invention of the internet, more and more babies start questioning the official stories they’ve been told since birth, and before long there’s no more herd mentality keeping all the babies moving in the same direction. 

But those gears still need turning if the rich are going to remain rich and powerful. So they come up with even more stories to restore authority to their old stories about what’s going on. Stories about Russian propaganda, stories about fake news, stories about “useful idiots”, a term applied to babies who believe different stories from the ones they were taught by their parents and teachers and the news man. They do this because they know if they no longer have widespread consensus giving the illusion of credibility to their stories, they’re going to have to start relying on facts and evidence.

And that won’t go well for them at all. 

And now the babies are growing restless. The babies are growing cranky. The old lullabies aren’t keeping them asleep anymore.

The babies are waking up. The babies are growing up. Soon the babies won’t be babies anymore. Soon the babies will be able to tell their own stories. True stories. What will happen to those gears then? What will happen to the machines they power? The answer to that question is why the rich have been fighting so hard for so long to sing the old lullabies, and keep the babies asleep.

-----"Babies", by Caitlin Johnstone, Medium.com July 4, 2018


FuelMix says:  She's right.


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Destruction, Disruption And Dissonance 6

  THE CRASH OF THE "TRUSTED MEDIA" PARADIGM
 
When Bias, Censorship, Distortion, Hysteria, Lies, Manipulation, Propaganda and Smear Are So Blatant...

What Does "Trusted Media" Do...?  More of The Same...!!

5.  Western Insanity: The Liberal-Fascist AND Ultra-Right Wing
6.  The Power of the Fifth Estate..?

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5.  Western Insanity: The Liberal-Fascist AND Ultra-Right Wing

1.  Not only is it clear that Western media (with or without state agency manipulation) deliberately faked news - probably for longer than most educated people have realized - but that the recent purpose of such fakery was to create massive societal polarization under the cover of a US Presidential election.  In that they succeeded.

2.  That polarization worsened The Great Atlantic Divide, which we suspect will be one of the trigger points for the increasing threats of secession from within the United States and the potential disintegration of the European Union.

3.  In the United States, one can witness the emergence of the Liberal-Fascist.  Traditionally left wing, socialist, politically correct, pro-immigrant, "progressives", this crowd is increasingly militant, lawless, provocative, authoritarian, champions of intrusive state intervention - and downright nasty.  All, apparently, in the name of freedom and Social Justice.

4.  In Europe, economic misery, austerity, Brexit and threats of other countries exiting the European Union, has fostered the emergence of the Ultra-Right Wing.  This crowd are highly nationalistic, intend to break free of the intrusive bureaucracy in Brussels, want control of their own borders, are openly racist, anti-immigrant and do not want the US dictating European policy.  The Ultra-Right Wing is rapidly growing in popularity.  It's not surprising that in a fit of panic, the Eurocrats in Brussels demanded increased and enforced European integration.

5.  The effect of such polarization is that the traditional Anglo-American axis (a.k.a. Western military, political and economic domination of the world), the so-called "Established Order", is now under threat from within itself.  The rest of the Civilized World saw the writing on the wall long ago and are actively moving into a consensus-based, trade-focused, pragmatic multi-polar world.  Much to the horror of the Anglo-American axis, the Civilized World is demanding and getting, far greater respect and moving into greater economic integration.  By contrast, the western world appears to be disintegrating in its alliances, with its economic, political and Mainstream Media institutions totally discredited.


6.   The Power of The Fifth Estate..?

1.  Back in Western Medieval times, society was organized in three levels - the Three Estates - in this order:

• The clergy (those who prayed);
• The nobility (those who ruled and fought for conquest);
• The peasantry (those who worked the land or made stuff);

2.  As society developed, the Three Estates morphed into Four Estates and became the basis of a structured society:

• The Executive Branch of Government;
• The Legislative Branch of Government;
• The Judiciary;
• The (Mainstream) Media - frequently referred to as the Fourth Estate; 

3.  Traditional constitutional theory taught that The Judiciary, kept the Executive and Legislative Branches in check against abuses of power, fraud and corruption. 

4.  Societal theory taught that the Mainstream Media kept all three of the other estates in check and fostered accountability and exposure.

5.  Along came the Web.....with an exponential growth of independent bloggers, vloggers, social media commentators, writers and analysts.  This is the Fifth Estate.  Nothing was off-limits and all Four Estates found themselves up for scrutiny.  The  biggest casualty of such scrutiny is the Mainstream Media (particularly in the West) which has been (and is being) comprehensively exposed as manipulated, deceptive and fraudulent.

6.  The West's Mainstream Media's response is laughable.....They are attempting to establish themselves as the arbiters of "fake news" by telling an increasingly skeptical, betrayed and questioning public what they should and should not believe.

7.  They will fail miserably.  The anger is out there.  So is the truth.  And these are the times of the Apocalypse, the real meaning of which is, that which was hidden is now revealed.

8.  The Fifth Estate exposed the Fourth Estate for what it actually is.

Originally published 3 July 2017
Amended and Republished 7 July 2018

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Memo To Fags 24

To: Fags
Fm: FuelMix**

To:

• those American Left Wing Liberal - Fascists (some of whom ironically, claim to be Antifa); 
• those oh-so-easily triggered Millennials; 
• those(self-proclaimed) Social Justice Warriors, feminists and queers looking for every micro-aggression;
• those Hollywood celebrities;

 -----who all claim to loathe the Trump presidency and are calling for - or making ominous predictions of - a second American civil war.....

We have some news for you:

1.  The United States has the highest number of privately owned firearms in the world;

2.  Most of those firearms are owned by Right Wing Trump supporters - many of whom have been owning firearms for decades and are properly trained to use them;

Tell FuelMix again just what you expect as the final result of  the second American Civil War that you're calling for.....?

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Received from a reader today:

Dear FM

Your last post is both common sensical and factual. Which means the people to whom your message is targeted won’t get it. 

Yes the second civil war sounds like it’s being started by folks bringing spit balls to a gun fight 

Sincerely,
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Romancing The Bone

How Faggotry Manufactures Gayness to Devastating Effect

1.  The Setup
2.  Technique 1 - Massive Flattery And Adoration
3.  Technique 2 - Gay By Implication
4.  Technique 3 - Disprove The Negative: Prove You're Not Gay
5.  So...What's The Point...?
6.  Faggotry As A Predator
7.  The Independently Thinking Gay Man


1.   The Setup

It starts with gay or gay-focused sites or blogs. While some may feature hard and soft core male porn as the hook, the real objects of attention fall into distinct categories:

1. Male pop stars - particularly those in their 20s or early 30s;
2. Male TV actors - initially it started with those in daytime soap operas, but expanded to include those appearing on prime time;
3. Male models - in particular underwear and swimwear models with billboard, magazine or online exposure, erotic photography models;
4. Male athletes or Olympic athletes - preferred sports for attention being swimming, diving, sprinters, gymnasts, figure skating (but now expanding to include soccer and rugby players);
5. Male fitness models and bodybuilders;
6. Male celebrities;
7. Guys appearing in gay-for-pay porn or bi porn;

2.   Technique 1 - Massive Flattery and Adoration 

1.   The "target" male becomes the subject of intensely positive reportage, starting with his physical characteristics and sometimes includes an "awww...." factor to make it easier to relate to him:

• cute dimples;
• great smile;
• lovely eyes;
• chic haircut;
• handsome face that makes one swoon;
• body to die for;
• superficial titillating speculation e.g. does his hairy chest lead to a treasure trail on his lower abs...? is he Cut or Uncut...? Given that bulge in his swimming trunks or underwear, how many inches could he be....?
• detailed stats including place and date of birth;
• tall, dark and handsome or blue-eyed, wholesome jock next door;
• exotic masculine looks especially if coupled with mixed heritage;
• "analysis" of muscle definition with emphasis on particular muscle groups e.g. rippling biceps, massive shoulders, defined V-shape in the back, really powerful thighs, cute muscled butt;
• superficial speculation on his work-out routine, gossip about which gym he goes to and what times he can be spotted there, who his trainer is;
• what size clothes he wears and his favourite colours;
• "Awww...." factors include: loves dogs, likes playing frisbee, pigs out on cheeseburgers and tacos; sleeps in on Sundays, does volunteer work.......

2.   What's the point of Faggotry laying it on thick....?  Simple.  The first step is to let the "target" know he has a gay following.  That's both a blessing and a curse.

3.   The moment that "target" goes public via social media or a magazine or TV interview that he's so "honoured / happy / thrilled / pleasantly surprised" that he has a gay following, Faggotry has got him.  The first stage has been entirely successful. They've got his attention. It's time for Faggotry to move to the next stage against him - or look for another target.

4.   Alternatively, Techniques 1 and 2 (below) can be combined.  The desired result is the same.....it puts the "target" on the defensive, first via a Charm Offensive and then by something progressively more sinister.


3.   Technique 2 - Gay By Implication

1.   How the "target" male is softened up by implication and innuendo:

• His Church is the gym;
• When he's not alone, he's only and always seen with guys;
• Those guys are rumoured to be gay;
• Those guys have been seen with other guys known or suspected to be gay;
• The women in his social life are all platonic friends;
• Hangs around with known "fag hags"; 
• Seen in gay-friendly bars, cafes and restaurants with "fag hags";
• Spotted in the crowd at Gay Pride alone or with one or more of the above;
• Shows no inclination to date women, even though women find him attractive;
• Coy about the women in his life and deflects questioning;
• Lives with or is close to his Mom;
• Lives with his "roomate" and has been for a couple of years;
• Wears body conscious clothing;
• Wears brands favoured by gay customers;
• Shops in retail stores frequented by gay customers;
• Body accessories indicative of "gayness" e.g. earring or stud in Right Ear, jewellery by gay designer;
• Had his apartment remodelled by a trendy gay designer;
• Socializes with known gay celebs and gay media types either publicly or at swanky private parties;
• Circumstantial or direct evidence that he showed up at gay saunas or cruising areas;
• Circumstantial or direct evidence that he came on to one or more guys;

4.   Technique 3 - Disprove The Negative : Prove You're Not Gay

1.   There's been a ton of stuff written in the fields of Religion, Philosophy and Logic about the apparent futility or possibility of Disproving a Negative.  Google it.

2.   It's also a favourite geopolitical tool of the West when it comes to intimidating, threatening or attacking a foreign country - often on trumped up "evidence".  The 2003 attack on Iraq was based entirely on false evidence of the alleged presence of weapons of mass destruction coupled with a demand that the Iraqi government show that it didn't have them.  It was deliberately intended to back them into a corner because whatever they said, it would never be enough to rebut the manufactured implications and allegations which could be churned out and spun indefinitely.

3.   This is exactly the same tactic that Faggotry uses to attack a "target" male after it has first flattered him and loaded him with implications.  Disproving the Negative is justified by Faggotry on the basis of freedom of expression, investigative "journalism", or because the "target" is a public figure who has somehow waived his right to privacy.

4.   Confronted with Disproving The Negative, the "target" is sent into immediate damage control, panic-stricken denials, a sudden holiday out of the country, a plea for privacy.  The mainstream press which now has wind of Faggotry's manipulation of Disproving The Negative, is all over the story. It takes a very strong man to stand his ground and say absolutely nothing, because quite frankly, his private life is none of Faggotry's damn business.

5.   The intent is to force an Outing by the "target" confessing to being gay; or to orchestrate the Outing according to Faggotry's media coverage and Politically Correct dictates for maximum "sympathy / empathy" or manipulation of public perception for the benefit of Faggotry's agenda.


5.   So.....What's The Point.....?

1.   Elsewhere in this blog, we've made 3 main points about Faggotry:

• It is a global sub-standard behavioural franchise; AND
• It could be regarded as an Authoritarian State; AND
• It's a Human Ponzi Scam - new converts to "the lifestyle" and its bizarre Liberal (?) / Fascist politically correct ideology, are constantly required.  Otherwise, the Scam collapses.

6.  Faggotry As A Predator

1.   In our post, Faggotry An Authoritarian State...? we mentioned the predatory nature of Faggotry, which was essential to its survival:

5.   Faggotry - A Predator

Smith makes a revelatory observation about a centralized state i.e. centralized control, that applies equally to what we have long perceived as "the Politically Correct, Gay Authoritarian Stealth Creep" of Faggotry via its enablers.

".....the central state is genetically programmed to become an authoritarian state devoted to self-preservation and extension of its reach and power."

Our view is that Faggotry's ultimate agenda is to globally control every aspect of Politically Correct thought, speech and behaviour when it comes to dealing with, describing or analyzing gay men and their behaviour.  Accuracy and Analysis must be squelched. Spin and Outrage must prevail.  The Engine of Faggotry must be kept running.

The Engine of Faggotry is kept running in politics and media through:

• favouritism and public endorsement;
• grants and fundraising;
• "gay watchdogs" and shrieks of outrage;
• cronyism;

2.   Seen in that context, identifying individual male "targets" for Flattery, Implication and then forcing them to Disprove The Negative, makes perfect sense.  The predatory nature of Faggotry operates on two fronts simultaneously: 

1. the pushing of the "gay agenda"; and
2. the aggressive acquisition of "converts" who, whether by threat, intimidation, boycott, outrage, flattery, implication, Outing or being forced to Disprove The Negative, can be co-opted as "spokesmen / advocates / activists " for the agenda or at the very least, keep their mouths shut in tacit approval - or fear;

7.   The Independently Thinking Gay Man

1.   The independently thinking gay man who hasn't yet been seduced by Faggotry's slick hypnosis, looks on aghast at the scheming violations of the target male's privacy, personal liberty, thought and action.

2.   The good news is that (as we've stated before) we are living in the times of the Apocalypse, the true meaning of which, is that which was hidden is now revealed.  It is our view that more gay men are actively questioning Faggotry's ideology and methods.  We suspect there is a strong undercurrent of disgust.

3.   Furthermore, we are also living in times of massive systemic collapse and revelation. This is unstoppable. The pace and scale of systemic collapse will increase.  Faggotry is a predatory system operating in an old paradigm that is disingenuous, restrictive and dis-empowering.  It is destined to collapse as more independently thinking gay men simply opt out and claim their right to think, speak, act and live on their terms without having to look over their shoulder to see if they conform to a Politically Correct, Liberal / Fascist pre-set agenda - or whether they are about to be attacked.

4.   If we are correct in our analysis of Faggotry's methods of Flattery, Implication and forced Disproving The Negative, then Faggtory itself is liable for both gay-baiting and gay bashing.

5.   We don't know what the new paradigm for gay men will look like.  But we predict that when the current paradigm collapses, gay activists and enablers will be shrieking at, and blaming, each other. It's all they know.

Originally published 4 September 2014
Amended and Republished 3 July 2018

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Arena Sauna 14

(Advertised as) FIST AND FETISH

GAY SAUNA IN HONG KONG

2/F Wing Hing Mansion
16 Granville Circuit
Tsim Sha Tsui
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit B

Tel: 2301 4500 (same number as the now defunct ABC)
Web:  www.hksauna.com
and http://www.hksauna.com/arena

NOTE:  OPEN 24 HOURS 
Staff speak English

FuelMix has written off Arena. Will not show up.  Will not upload his reviews.

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Oh dear.....the news about Arena just keeps on being grim.  Our friendly GAM-Throats-On-The-Street now report that Arena is a waste of time and money. The place continues to be sparsely populated - usually with fat, older Chinese or Filipino fuglies (who would be better off in Galaxy, located nearby and almost half the price), virtually no action, over priced and apparently, rude staff.

**sigh**We don't know what to make of Arena.  Closing down ABC and not replicating it in new premises that were in open 24 hours, was the first strategic mistake. The layout of Arena was the second strategic mistake.

We're not sure if they're still keeping their All Nude Day on Tuesdays and Saturdays.

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The Huge Rise In Gay Scat Porn 5

Mainland Chinese Twinks In Gay Scat Porn

At first, we didn't believe what we were being told over the last few months.

We'd written a four-part series on the rise of gay scat porn on the web (and by extension, in real time) speculating on the reasons for its popularity in the West and why conventional Faggotry couldn't do a thing about it.  The series proved surprisingly riveting for readers.

Our friendly GAM-Throats-On-The-Street started whispering something we were not expecting to hear........initially, we dismissed it as gossip.

Then, proof was provided on the street via their smartphones and more proof via memorized URLs recited to us.  We checked on our phone and on our laptop and BANG...!! there it was.

We can only put it down to China's emergence on the world stage:

Mainland Chinese gay twinks are participating in and uploading very raunchy gay scat porn on certain sites, notably Tumblr, Pornhub and Xtube.  These are high resolution amateur videos.

And we do men Very Raunchy.  This is full-on Asian gay raunch which will give Japanese gay porn producers, traditionally the masters of kink, S&M and raunch, several reasons to sit up and take notice.

Apparently there's even a slang-on-the-street for this Mainland Chinese niche genre:  Yellow River and Brown Rice.

It is rumoured that since Grindr is now Chinese-owned and since Mainland Chinese gay hookup sites like Blued are extremely popular with the 18 - 25 year olds, that being gay and discussing, advertising or hooking up - and filming -  for what would have been taboo sex, is now out in the open.

From what we can tell, wwwaaaaaaayyyyyy out in the open.

See also:

• The Huge Rise In Gay Scat Porn 1
• The Huge Rise In Gay Scat Porn 2
• The Huge Rise In Gay Scat Porn 3
• The Huge Rise In Gay Scat Porn 4

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