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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Faking My Protection

**sigh**....... If photoshopped Mainland Chinese moneyboys weren't enough to raise suspicions, (and given the Chinese propensity to fake anything that hints of a brand name) hold on to your cocks..........fake Chinese-manufactured condoms have hit the market, including a fake Durex brand.......

Find out more here 
and here
and here

It's nice to know the factory has been busted, but........what about all the FAKE condoms that were shipped out......????  Apparently they didn't pass the proper stress tests and break really easily.

It's getting kinda stressful being a gay man these days.  All this shit about Safe Sex and and they fake the condoms............

And if the fascinated reader is wondering why there is growing Asian resentment against Mainland Chinese, on account of their alleged corruption and the well documented lack of manners and personal hygiene, now there's another clue.............

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

For Whom The (Taco) Bell Tolls 2

Received from a reader in Vancouver as a response to our earlier post, For Whom The (Taco) Bell Tolls.  Underlining by FuelMix:

I don't know if there is something in the water in Vancouver or what but literally within the past three days I have heard of four gay couples all getting married. And of course they are all late 40's white guys getting married to 20-something boys either from Mexico or Brazil.

Two of the relationships are only a couple of months long and coincidentally one of those couples just got married today and the other marriage is happening on May 25. Nothing suspect immigration wise about any of them. ;)

It's funny to me how people are rallying around them with the congrats and stuff on Facebook, etc. Seems so fake. I guess people just turn a blind eye to this kind of thing nowadays....? And it seems these marriages have all taken place in their apartments judging by the invites. Low key, low costs...

I couldn't be a part of that. If I felt it was real and that they weren't working against a clock or something, then ok. There just seems to be a lot of people lying to themselves right now, and not only about the marriage thing. Just that they are living part of a lie, know it, but are afraid to be alone or something.


FuelMix says:

Hmmm interesting example of our earlier post synchronizing with the reader's latest observations.........we don't wish to sound crass, but given Vancouver's chronically chem-friendly reputation,  it suggests a drug-fucked co-dependency rather than an empowering relationship of equals. We predict a high failure rate and the real possibility that ghetto fags will have multiple divorces to their credit - and a lousy credit score.  In other words, they will be depleted emotionally and financially.

We've long suspected that Canada's Same Sex Marriage laws are really geared as a publicity stunt to show "tolerance" and "diversity". The reality appears to be that the culture of  Political Correctness - coupled with the Screaming Fag mentality - inhibits enquiry as to the authenticity of the marriage or the ability of the "spouses" to financially carry it.  The age differences alone, should be a warning flag.

We said in our previous post  that there was probably a production line of Latino men looking for "opportunities". We appear to have been correct.  Over the last few days, for some inexplicable reason, Craigslist M2M and Casual Encounters pages for here in Very Rich Megacity have been inundated with Latino escort ads............we suspect an Hispanic syndicate.

Monday, May 13, 2013

For Whom The (Taco) Bell Tolls

South of the border from God's Own Country, is the state of NarcoTaco.  Lately it's been in the news because of drug-related killings which local and federal governments seem unable to prevent.  NarcoTaco is a popular retirement and holiday destination for fags, because of its low cost of living and the abundance of  greasy chicanos who can leverage their culture of machismo and fuck fags for a few pesos before returning to the wife and kids.

Just north of the border from God's Own Country, is the state of God's Meth Lab.  It's unofficial capital is Vancouver (of which we've made detailed comments) that bills itself as World Class City (and which, a couple of years ago, was identified as the world's epicentre for the export of syphillis).

Here in Asia, we've been hearing that there are a considerable number of greasy chicano "fags" (you can never tell with these guys) overstaying their visas in Vancouver, working menial jobs for under the table cash and then marrying a generic white fag (sometimes considerably older than them) in order to stay there.  They meet their white fags when the fag bars have ethnic evenings like "Latino Nite" or they just hang out at the fag bar regularly.

There's nothing new about marriages of convenience. Happens all the time.  But the massively drug-fucked fags in Vancouver have never been able to think straight.  Not only are they're living in a dying fag eco-system, err..........those 2 blocks that pass as Fagland, but  many fags there are economically unstable. We wonder just how much rational thought the white fags give to the notion of "citizenship marriages" when their already drug-fucked brain is further pickled by tequila, a chilled Corona and a greasy chicano swaying to the beat of the fag bar's jukebox.

If the chicano got by on cash earned under the table after overstaying a visa, it doesn't automatically follow that marriage to a white ghetto fag allows him to enter mainstream employment.  There's the slightly inconvenient matter of explaining to the bureaucracy why he overstayed in the first place.  Sometimes, a lawyer has to do the talking and that costs bucks.  Who pays?

Neither does it follow that the now-married chicano will want to enter mainstream employment.  After all, those deductions from the pay packet really add up and he could make a bundle simply by moonlighting - as and when the jobs come along.

In the meantime, who supports him?  Oh yeah, the white ghetto fag - at least initially.  But since the average urban fag has the attention span of a rubber band, how long is that gonna last?

What about the language and cultural differences?  Now that they're married, what are the rules of commitment?  It's one thing bringing home a chicano from the bar for a night of fun with his maracas, but it's another thing to discover that Manuel, or Jose, or Alejandro  has the table manners of a dog, friends who look like livestock, won't do housework, refuses to be seen in public with the white fag fearing his 15th cousin might spot them and report him to Mama and hangs out with the Honduran Mafia known to dabble in human trafficking for sex slavery.

Are we being too harsh?   Some fags might squeal that the white fags are being altruistic and offering the chicano a better life.  Oh please........ these  chicanos weren't born yesterday.  They're well aware of the difference between exploiting and being exploited.  Heck, they probably already have a social grapevine and a full system in place to strategically position the next chicano off the production line, complete with "New Latino Smell" exactly where the white fag will spot him.

And the white fag? Altruism isn't in his vocabulary either.  He gets a semblance of a relationship - without a clear context, commitment or rules - some praise from his equally stupid fag friends, legal fees, a sort-of-husband-occasionally-rent-paying-roomate, Spanish Made Easy CDs and a sinking feeling.

Originally published 10 June 2010
Amended and Republished 13 May 2013

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Big Top Gym And Sauna 14

3rd Floor, Yuet Yuen Building
17 - 19 Mong Kok Road
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2

Tel: 2628 6196
Note: Open 2pm to 8am the next day; 
On weekends and public holidays open 2pm till 10am the next day. 
Staff speak good English 



Wooohoo....!!...... Friday evening 5:30ish, pouring rain and FuelMix shows up at Big Top. The place is fuckin' packed.  Tons of 20-something and 30-something GAMs with older guys there too - plus a sprinkling of 30-something white garbage customers usually found pawing at GAMs in the steam room of Central Escalator.

Did we say packed....?  We did. 

The 20s crowd are college kids or recently-started-work types.  Some are pretty cute, some are muscular jocks and some are downright emaciated with the body type of a preying mantis. One thing they ALL have in common is insufferable attitude. There's NO shortage of head swivels and **tsk** ** tsk** noises.  

Since the only place to sit is the bench in the Locker Room, that's where they gather to swap notes on the customers, body types and cock sizes.  Don't be surprised if they suddenly turn quiet when the subject customer walks past them in the middle of their gossip.  It happened to FuelMix twice and, ever the opportunist, he decided to turn it to his advantage the second time around and politely asked why they were staring at him. These 20s guys can't handle being confronted so they covered it up by gushing compliments about FuelMix's bod. The irony was that once they were back in the Dark Room, they'd dropped the attitude and groped FuelMix several times.  It does pay to be constructively aggressive.

There's a chronic shortage of private rooms so the Dark Area is stuffed to the gills.  Good luck finding a spare patch of wall to stand against.  But hey, the Jap porn is interesting - and kudos to the radio station they're using to pipe the music. The music and the sound system is terrific. Way better than the OVER VOLUMIZED Alexander (hell, even the customers there are complaining but the staff have gone deaf), or that hollow transistor radio-sounding crap in ABC, or that soporific crooned jazz in Club Houzz or Colony.

Let's cut to the chase.  In order to get action in Big Top, one has to be patient. Very patient. It might be necessary to spin your wheels for over an hour or more. Remember there is NO shortage of (sometimes muscular) guys coming in or packing the place.  But the attitude is so fuckin' thick and rancid, it's very easy to get pissed off and leave. 

In some ways, Big Top is a victim of its own success.  It's part of a cluster of 4 independent saunas in the neighbourhood (Alexander, Big Top, Club Houzz, Hutong).  There's no shortage of muscular guys in the vicinity but if they're showing up at Hutong - with its apparently exclusionist door policy, they're gonna bring that "we-think- we're-hot-and-we're-special-attitude" with them. Big Top admits anybody and these 20 something muscular GAMs forget they're not in Hutong any more.

Hold on..........sooner or later that attitude cracks and you'll score.  Well at least FuelMix did.  He got serviced twice,  by 2 muscular GAM 20 somethings.  No complaints there.

And with that killer sound system, Nelly Furtado and FloRida never sounded better than when you're riding  a guy's face......





    

Tuesday, May 07, 2013

My Way Platinum Sauna 10

4th Floor, Kuo Wah Building
340 Hennessy Road
Wanchai
Hong Kong

MTR: Wanchai, Exit A4
Telephone: 25749098

Note: NOT open 24 hours, except Saturdays and Public Holidays.
Mondays - Fridays: 4pm to midnight;
Saturdays - overnite;
Sundays: 2pm to midnight (Nude)

Received from a reader today:

Hello FuelMix 

So Hutong sauna was a dud and I've already been to the other Mong Kok saunas during my previous stays in HK like ABC, Alexander...... Those latter ones were disappointing with few and/or ugly people in it, so I decided to try something "new" and My Way Platinum Sauna seemed to fit the bill: loads of young and local guys, exactly what I was looking for.


The Premises
The entrance is discreet, off Hennessy Road in a small alley. Nobody will notice that you just walked out of a steaming environment. The premises were clean, except for the foot towels outside the shower area. They forget to replace them at a regular basis. There's a large steam room and a smaller sauna area. The maze with private cubicles is quite nice. The Halloween decor is gone now, but it is an overload of small posters everywhere, though I didn't find it that different from ABC and Alexander.

The Customers
About the guys: there were many local guys and they were quite young (20-30 years old), a few middle aged and older guys who weren't getting any action at all (or rarely any at least) and the lone white guy.
Unfortunately the white guys are not really attractive, combined with the locals looking for locals I think it's not the prime sauna to go for for those folks. For me as GAM I could just mingle with the locals, I was just showering and a handsome muscled young HK guy was already keeping a tap on me and indeed I got some action in the steam room. I must say that was one of the most memorable moments of my stay in HK ;) Afterwards a few other guys approached me and they were handsome too, though not up to par to the first one. All in all the evening ended with quite some satisfaction.

Repeat Visits
I decided to return the two following evenings after that first successful visit. On Friday evening (between 6-9 PM) it was quite disappointing, not many guys yet and a lot of posing and standing. I forgot that most would only arrive around midnight, I just left early. That was a bit of a disappointment, but probably I just came at the wrong moment. On Saturday evening closer to midnight it was quite the bonanza of cute young guys streaming in. And this time there was some action. I can confirm that late weekend evenings are the best time to show up or weekdays at 5-6PM.

After this third visit I could see who would pose and stand and who would dive into the action. While I was there 3 times in a row, it seemed that some locals were doing that on an even more regular basis. It's these, often cute, guys who wouldn't have/get any action. They're just running around and chatting with their friends. Perhaps they're counting on that one hot guy coming in, but it's an expensive wait at $150 a pop. I wonder if they get any discounts... 
I saw some more white folks the other times I went in but all were there for only a short time. I must say they were not very attractive and I guess that outweighed any preference for other GAMs for the regular clientele. But if you're a GAM your chances of getting laid with a cutie are higher than the other saunas. I myself would certainly go back!

Kind regards,
FrequentHKTraveler
FuelMix says:
Wow.....it's been a while since a reader sent in a review of My Way.  We're aware of its GAM - centric clientele and the attitude of its twinks.  There are certainly muscular GAMs there if you can get past the attitude. Glad you got action.
We actually like the Dark Room space and the Wet Area and have said previously in this blog that more GWMs and foreigners should show up there to stick it to the attitudinal GAMs and show them how to party. It would really scare the shit out of those GAMs especially if the GWMs and foreigners got into  groups and open-door action that they would get into  in the now defunct Towel Club.
Attitude and muscles.........yeah right..........if there's one thing that GAMs do really well, it's to stand around and stare while other foreign and white guys get it on.  My Way needs a foreign invasion.........

Thanks for the update.

Hutong Sauna 5

2/F Kar Wong Building
639 - 645 Shanghai Street
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Argyle Station, Exit A2

Tel: 2396 9595
Web: Hutong Sauna
Open 24 hours 


Received from a reader yesterday:

Hello FuelMix,

I read online that Hutong sauna would be filled with handsome hunks but the entrance procedure would pose a problem, so I was curious what it was all about.

 First things first, the thing was hard to find. Luckily I noticed the sign of the building (though it was in Chinese, so probably not helpful for foreigners) and then a very small doorbell with a camera. It was two floors up and then another doorbell with camera. Immediately I got the message: "Oh sorry, we are entirely full tonight, it's now invitation only" (which was a bit weird on a quiet Thursday evening). Normally I'd make a fuss about it and ask some more questions, but from this blog and other sources I knew they were just being selective. I'm a GAM but probably did not fit their requirements of being hunky or handsome enough...

I just turned back and left the premises. On the way out I saw some other guys walking in, they seemed to be local office workers. I waited a few minutes to see if they would be turned down but I didn't see them walking out. So after this final confirmation of being left out, I decided that Hutong sauna wasn't worth any penny of me.

So I can confirm that their "door policy" still exists. It's the first sauna ever that turned me down, quite a cold shower experience!

Kind regards,
FrequentHKTraveler 

FuelMix says: 

Thanks for the update.  Sorry to hear about your experience.
We've been hearing from our friendly GAM contacts on the street that:
  1. the door policy existed and was being applied unevenly - a (GAM) customer would be let in on one occasion and then denied entry the next time. Apparently it depends on who's on duty at the Front Desk;
  2. there's tons of Stand and Model and attitude;
  3. it was a waste of time and money;







Thursday, May 02, 2013

Grindr Bitching

OK fags, 'fess up........how many of you are on Grindr and actually enjoy it......?

So what if that guy is just 500 feet away.....?  Is that the familiarity that breeds the contempt.....?

See for yourself   http://grindrlulz.tumblr.com/

Our current favourite:

A:  U smoke? U circumcised?

B:  What are you looking for here, a health-conscious jew or a guy who can blow smoke into his own foreskin?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.......!!!!

Galaxy Sauna 11

5th Floor, Harilela Mansion
81 Nathan Road Tsim Sha Tsui
Kowloon,
Hong Kong
MTR: Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit C2

Tel: 2366 - 0629
No website that FuelMix knows of


NOTE:   
(1)  NOT open 24 hours - Usually 2pm to 11pm
(2)   Staff do NOT speak good English on the phone.


A paraphrased update from our friendly GAM contact on the street. He knows we like to juice him:

LOL.....Galaxy...??!! Umm OK I admit, I  do go there but only because it's convenient.  I like GWM bears and sometimes there are a few there.  It gets really packed with GAMs of all ages, from 20 something office types to married guys in their 60s and even older.  It also gets a lot of Mainland Chinese guys of all ages. 

Truthfully, the guys that show up there are not hot and they know it.  But they still seem to get action with each other.  Occasionally a real hottie will show up and everyone will follow him.

The place looks as crappy as ever but like I said, it can get really packed. 

Oh yeah......I was there over a week ago and got really creeped out..........there was a Mainland Chinese guy, middle aged. He was wrapped in 2 towels and was hiding his smart phone in the towel around his shoulders.  He has set the phone to the movie or camera function and was wandering around looking for guys.  He'd then stand near them and quietly take out the camera from his towel.  If the other guy noticed or suspected he was being filmed, then the Mainland Chinese guy would hide the phone in his towel and shuffle away.

It was really creepy and a few people noticed him.  But nobody said anything to the staff and that pissed me off.  When I saw what the guy was doing, I went to the staff to complain, but they just shrugged their shoulders and said they couldn't control what the customers were doing.  In that case, I said they shouldn't complain if a customer punched that guy with the camera...........

You know what pisses me off.....? I haven't seen the local Chinese do this kind of stuff in any of the saunas around town.  I mean, they wouldn't.  But these Mainland Chinese just don't seem to care......seriously, these guys just don't have any fuckin' manners.  No wonder people around here can't stand them.


FuelMix says:

Hmm.......Galaxy is just spitting distance from Kowloon Park. On 27 March 2013, we uploaded a Peeping Tom Alert for the Mens Toilet in the Sculpture Garden of Kowloon Park.  Apparently the guy was using a smart phone and filming by slightly opening the toilet stall door in which he was hiding. 

Could it be the same creep.......???


Sunday, April 28, 2013

The Great Gay Sauna 7

Hollywood Vista
Back 114 - 116 Austin Road
Tsim Sha Tsui
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Jordan Station, Exit D

Tel: 2620 6844
Web: http://www.hongkonggay.info/archives/7336

Note: Open 24 hours 

A (paraphrased) report courtesy of one of our friendly GAM contacts on the street:

The place is still in business and open 24 hours but has changed ownership.  The big fat baldheaded guy [known as "Queen Nancy "- FuelMix] has left and there are new GAM staff members.  One is that skinny tattooed guy who used to man the Reception Desk in Alexander [that's where "Queen Nancy" also came from....- FuelMix].  One of the staff members speaks really good English with a mix of an English and Australian accent.  But he smokes a lot and looks pretty stoned.

They charge HK$140.00 to get in.  They are bragging that they get a lot of people coming in on a Saturday evening from 8pm onwards so that's when I showed up around 9pm.  There were about 16 GAM customers there.  They were not goodlooking and did not have good bodies.  Most just stood around, some played with their smart phones in the TV lounge.

I did not get any action.  It was pretty boring.  One of the GAM customers told me that it is popular with GAM couples.  I left about an hour later.  There were other GAM customers coming in but nobody good looking.

FuelMix says:

We just love it when we run into one of our friendly GAM contacts on the street.  They've turned out to be reliable and helpful.

ABC Sauna 16

6/F Cheong Hing Building, 
72 Nathan Road, 
Tsim Sha Tsui, 
Kowloon, Hong Kong
MTR: Tsim Sha Tsui Station, Exit A 2

Tel: 2301 - 4500
Note: NOT open 24 hours. 
Opening times 2pm to 1am.  Call to confirm. Staff speak good English.

In case fascinated readers were not aware of it, ABC allows In & Out Privilege to its customers.  They don't advertise it but they do allow customers to go out for up to an hour and keep their locker.  Provided the customer returns within one hour, there are no additional charges. 

Don't forget to ask.

Saturday, April 20, 2013

Central Escalator 18

2nd Floor, Cheung Hing Commercial Building, 
37 Cochrane Street,
Central, 
Hong Kong
MTR: Central or Hong Kong Station
 
Tel: 2581 9951 (Staff speak very good English)

Easy way to find it: above 7 Eleven and opposite Park N Shop supermarket.
Note: NOT open 24 hours
Opening Hours: 2pm - 11pm.   

We ran into one of our friendly casual GAM acquaintances on the street (i.e. we only know him by his first name, but he's pretty reliable as to what he tells us).  Here are his verbal comments - which we have paraphrased -  on his recent visit to Central Escalator sauna. 

So..... I showed up at CE during the week just before 6pm.  There were about 12 guys there - a mix between GAMs and whites.  The white guys were definitely older and really out of shape. The Asian guys were Chinese, Mainland Chinese and a group of 3 effeminate Indonesian or Filipino tourists. There was a steady stream of white guys in their 30s coming in, but while they were slimmer than the older whites, they were nothing to look at.  After a while, there were more white guys than Asians.  Overall, the crowd was disappointing.

People just stood around or watched TV.  The little rooms were empty. In the Steam Room, the older white guys were quite aggressive when trying to hook up with the younger Asians. Some Asian guys fled from the Steam Room shaking their heads and muttering.  I had to tell one of those older whites 3 times to stop grabbing me.

I stayed for about an hour and a half. Didn't  enjoy it so went across to Alexander where I had some fun.


FuelMix says:

We've said it before that CE is an asylum for whites.  It's the only sauna in town where they feel safe as a group. Nothing wrong with that.  Whilst CE has positioned itself as the one that draws an international crowd, we've been hearing for a while that it ain't the hottest. We're not sure why.

As for aggressive cruising in the Steam Room, that's gonna happen anywhere - regardless of age, ethnicity or body type. 

 

 

Monday, April 15, 2013

Dude, You're In My Face

FuelMix has frequently said in this blog that the days of Fagland as an exclusive ghetto - particularly in the West - are numbered. The economics of fag purchasing power simply don’t support it. It’s no exaggeration to say that Faglands are dying (metaphorically and literally) and many establishments there have turned “straight-friendly” just to survive. It’s also no exaggeration to suggest that many gay businesses in Fagland are owned by straights. (Thank God. For more on what FuelMix says about fags in business, see the “Gay Business” label on the right).

But it takes 2 to tango. In his site visits to the Faglands of the world, FuelMix noticed a turf war in the behaviour of some fags towards non-fags who ventured there. Frequently FuelMix has seen fags camp it up more, ratchet up the public displays of affection and act more queer. It was seen as sport, a source of hilarity an “in your face” attitude towards straights – even though it was strangely aggressive.

The average ghetto fag will squeal from here to the nearest porn theatre that he has nothing against straights. But the fact remains that heteros are muscling into the ghetto socially and commercially. And that makes fags feel threatened. The whole idea of a fag ghetto was safety in numbers. If that’s being diluted by hetero yuppies moving in, trendy straight restaurants, cocktail bars, and the accompanying price inflation that comes with it, of course a fag will resent it and probably act up in the presence of heteros.

And you think that baiting straights with an “in your face” fag aggression doesn’t constitute a “hate crime” or provocation?  Think again. It all depends on the facts.  A hetero has just as much right to the protection of “hate crime” legislation as a fag – even if the hetero is in the fag ghetto.  FuelMix has cringed witnessing fags just pushing the envelope of provocation, almost goading the hetero to lash out - so THEY can allege a "hate crime". Remember, a generic fag can't feel validated unless he screams that he's being violated.

Originally published 7 October 2008.
Amended and republished 15 April 2013.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

(Another) Table For One

On his way to dinner at an upmarket Teppanyakki restaurant here in Very Rich Megacity, FuelMix decided to have an aperitif at the University of Fag Bar (pending accreditation). FuelMix always likes to have a drink before tackling the hot or cold sake at the Japanese restaurant and was positively salivating at the prospect of what his cooked-right-in-front-of-you Teppanyakki order would look like. On evenings like this, life was truly meant to be savoured. 

Minding his own business whilst drooling before dinner, FuelMix was spied by a horny white fag looking for action. Fag spouted the usual pleasantries, the what-do-you-do? shit, how mind blowing Very Rich Megacity is, what-he-does, how hot FuelMix looked, does FuelMix work out? Duh….and which hotel fag was staying at………… 

FuelMix was gratified by the attention, but for reasons already mentioned, was not fully invested in the conversation. 

Fag did the usual moves – the caress on the wrist, stroking FuelMix’s chest and abs, complimenting FuelMix’s clothes, stroking FuelMix’s hair – and was simply getting nowhere in his attempts to negotiate a post-dinner hookup. 

Visibly frustrated that FuelMix was fantasizing over dinner rather than dick, fag made a last-ditch attempt to ferret what FuelMix looked for in a man for the long term. FuelMix rolled his eyes, wishing that he could save his breath and simply hand over a Powerpoint presentation on his Notebook. But, in the interests of transient bonhomie, FuelMix acquiesced and commenced his recitation.

Appetizer:
  • No facial hair
    No tattoos
    No piercings
    No uncut guys
    No smokers
    No chronically medicated ghetto-lifestyle diseases

Chef’s Recommendations:
  • No poppers
    No weed
    No crack
    No crystal
    No heroin
    No ecstacy
    No amphetamines of any colour
    No criminal record

Soup
  • Executive Summary or Resume
    Comparable standard of academic and professional education
    Verifiable academic and professional history
    Verifiable Net Worth Statement
    Independently owned income producing assets

Main Course (1) Seafood
  • Well travelled and culturally openminded
    Fluency in another language, a plus

Main Course (2) Meat Dishes
  • Excellent grooming
    Dark hair, dark eyes, some skin colour preferred
    A body worth taking a second look at, no matter what the age
    Smooth back
    Above average, age-appropriate dress sense
    Non-embarrassing, non-ghetto mannerisms
    Ability to remember that the “Valley Girl” impersonation is just that
    Classy public displays of affection, ideally non-flaming
    Medical history
    Regular physical and STD checks
    Ongoing development of Emotional Intelligence

Sorbet
  • Keeps his word, especially on the little things
    Punctuality
    Knows how to budget himself
    Knows how to apologize without lying
    Can be left alone without becoming suspicious
    Can be left alone without arousing suspicion
    Not as needy as a Golden Retriever

Dessert (1)
  • Honest about his family
    Show who is friends are.
    If he’s a loner, or doesn’t have many, say so

Dessert (2)
  • Monogamy. Period.
  • Pre- nuptial agreement
  • Does not insist on living together
  • Knows what Trust actually means
  • Admits emotional vulnerability without alleging emotional abuse.

Petit-Fours, Coffee, Tea, Liquers
  • A hobby would be nice
    Provocability and a judicious fiery temper
    Sex with sweat and tears, toys & lube, kink & raunch
    Lives the difference between sexuality and sensuality
    Must know when to cuddle and when to back off
    Knows how to read and does.

Predictably, the fag’s jaw dropped and he knew he hadn’t a chance. He shouldn’t feel too bad.

After all, just how many times would FuelMix be on the A-List of ghetto fags holding an after-party in the rental building’s Jacuzzi, fondling each other while singing Rick Astley or Kylie, pigging out on takeaway hors d’oeuvres, then adjourning to kneel around the living room coffee table with glass straws up their nostrils, before vomiting and passing out on the carpet?

Never.

All of a sudden, FuelMix remembered he had a table for one waiting at that Japanese restaurant.  

Originally published 6 May 2008.  
Amended and Republished 12 October 2011
2nd Amendment 14 April 2013
 

Friday, April 12, 2013

Politically Correct Popcorn

We're always amused at the lengths to which Faggotry and its enablers will go to prop up a dying paradigm.

Recently, the boss of Sony Pictures, speaking at a glitzy gay fundraiser in Los Angeles, asked the film and television industry to scrutinize the depiction of LGBT characters:

".......The second way is what we see – on television and in the movie theater. Now, there is not much any of us can do about what people hear from families and friends, but there is a whole hell of a lot we can do about what people see"..........

"Not every gay character needs to be defined by his or her sexuality".......

"How about next time, when any of us are reading a script and it says words like fag, or faggot – homo – dyke – take a pencil and just cross it out. Just don’t do it."

      ------Amy Pascal Asks Hollywood To Eliminate Gay Slurs And Stereotypes From Movies, Deadline Hollywood, 22 March 2013.

Ms Pascal's brief prepared remarks are worth reading. We immediately realized the importance of such a seemingly straightforward request, given as it was in LA.......the very epicentre of gay liberal Political Correctness, which pursuant to gay lobbying, is then exported worldwide through a highly manipulated entertainment industry.

The report kicks off by saying it's rare for a media mogul to push moral responsibility.  Given the pervasive gay lobbying in Hollywood, we would say it was a case of the tail wagging the dog. Secondly, we take the view that the speech has nothing to do with moral responsibility, and everything to do with social engineering.

As George Orwell said:
"Thought controls language. Language controls thought"

In our post, Gay Pop Fadeout 2, we said this about the media's role in rehabilitating the image of gay men:

"Gay Mafia / Gay Media, having rammed faggotry down people's throats, moved to Stage 2 - the enforced Politcial Correctness of Gayness. Again, think about it. In certain countries in the West, one can hardly say anything about gays without looking over one's shoulder. There's no shortage of gay "activists, " advocacy groups", "media watchdogs", "employment monitors" (i.e. whose the most gay friendly company to work for...?) "government lobbyists", "political fundraisers" blah blah blah. In 50 years, gays have morphed from a culture of defiant creation to a culture of political sycophants and suppression - both of themselves and the population at large. It's stunning to observe the near-universal outwardly Liberal leanings of these groups, combined with an entitlement mentality, near-Fascist zeal to outlaw candid expression and enquiry. 


Faggotry's Game

The alert reader will note that for some time, Faggotry has attempted to "patent" certain words:
  • homophobic
  • homo
  • hate crime
  • slur
  • outraged
  • violated
  • equality
  • diversity
  • fag, faggot

This insidious "patenting"  ring-fences and quarantines certain words for their exclusive use. Society (courtesy of their whining / lobbying ) is not allowed to use them, but Faggotry has no problems throwing those words in your face to justify their position while demonizing yours.

We've said this before - Faggotry is a sub -standard Global Behavioural Franchise.  That a head of a media network should be "asking" for the removal of "slurs" and "stereotypes"  confirms what we had long suspected namely, that Faggotry and its enablers are attempting to implement a global command and control structure.  In other words, structure the language and thereby structure thought.  The duly sanitized language, then supports a belief system, which in turn supports a Politically Correct "gay" ideology - which is then marketed by manipulated Lamestream Media as "Enlightened Behaviour".

Anything less and Faggotry draws upon its conventional arsenal of "patented" words, engineered outrage, political lobbying or its other favourite, anti-discrimination legislation, to launch an attack.

Sorry Faggotry.........we  really don't buy it.


Why We Don't Buy It

1.  If the concern is that "fag" / "faggot" etc are allegedly derogatory slurs, why do so many gay men use them so openly as part of their daily dialogue, as terms of derision and casual teasing?  There appears to be an artificial distinction as to can, who shouldn't and who mustn't be using certain words. If words like "fag" and "faggot" have slipped into mainstream usage as alleged slurs, guess what....?.......fags have to take some responsibility for encouraging it.

2.  The film and television industry in Hollywood is riddled with fags and has been for years. That's where they gravitate. There's no shortage of them defined by their sexuality and many flaunt it as a badge of honour or notoriety.  And they're now telling YOU what to say and think about their own kind......??  Um.......OK.........

3.   If phrases like, "Fuck you, bastards" and "Fuck you, asshole" are increasingly used in TV and movies, exactly when did they lose their status as "slurs" and by whose authority?  Seems to us that Hollywood is attempting to be the World Headquarters of the Department of Slurs and periodically draws up a list of  What's In and What's Out. We reject its legitimacy.

4.   We suggest it would be more productive for gay men to stop stereotyping themselves.  If art imitates life, they have only themselves to blame.

5.    We have alluded in this blog that there are undeniable social and behavioural differences between a thinking gay man and a fag.  Step into any gay ghetto (whether a postal code or a state of mind and check it out for yourself).  For strategic reasons, Faggotry cannot bear to have this distinction widely disseminated or widely discussed.  Control of language -and therefore, control of thought - is paramount. We find it ironic since the very real distinction between a thinking gay man and a fag highlights the "diversity" in "the community" that Faggotry crows about.

6.   If our contention that there is an actual distinction between a thinking gay man and a fag is correct, then Faggotry's attempt to ban the use of "fag" amounts to demographic cleansing within a sub-culture.     Ban the word and poof.....!! that sector  (and stigma) of the sub-culture has gone.  It's absurd and highlights the chronic denial in which Faggotry operates. It's equivalent to a fag insisting that he be described as a "recreational drug user " instead of the part-time addict he actually is.

7.   Gay Stereotyping in visual media sells and is very profitable:
  • What about the TV sitcom Will And Grace?  Is anyone seriously going to suggest that there was no stereotyping going on for years and that the main characters were not defined by their sexuality?  Remember shallow and flamboyant Jack? Str8 looking Str8 acting buttoned down Will? The vacuous, alcoholic fag hag Karen? Bringing in divas with a huge gay fan base like Cher? 
  • What about the over-the-top characters in the wildly popular Queer as Folk? 
  • What about the "ambiguous" and effeminate Niles Crane in Frasier (brilliantly played by the gay David Hyde Pierce)? or the "married" closet gay campy broadcaster Gill?

8.  Our understanding of Culture, in whatever medium, is the absolute freedom of creative expression. History is replete with examples of ham-fisted intervention by Democratic, Socialist, Communist and Fascist governments using film and television to sway societal behaviour and thought. It always ended badly as sooner or later, the Sheeple woke up and realized they had been duped.

Are we to assume that a special-interest fuelled, velvet-gloved approach with the chandeliers, the catered dinner and the dress code will end any better?  Hardly.  A dupe is a dupe.  A con is still a con. And censorship remains exactly that, whichever way you cut it.

9.   If, as we're told, Gay Pride is about the freedom to be who YOU are, it follows that it must contain the freedom to think and speak YOUR Truth about "the community"  as YOU see it.  It's YOUR choice whether to use - or not use -  "gay" and / or "fag" as terms of derision, casual teasing or sociological distinctions, but YOU have no right to ban others from making those distinctions or using either of those words generically.  Outraged.....?? Get over it.

10.  Not only does Gay Political Correctness inhibit the accuracy and nuance of observation, the sanitization of language that it seeks, operates as a debilitating virus that distorts perception - both internally within the sub-culture and externally from those looking in.  Maybe that's the whole point.  After all, Faggotry could do with a new virus now that HIV is officially "manageable".






Saturday, April 06, 2013

Gay Sauna Bromance 3

Here's an update from the reader who kicked off Parts 1 and 2 of Gay Sauna Bromance:

Hey FuelMix,


I hope you're well. It's been a few months since I checked in, so I thought I'd write again.

First thing I want to say is I really identified with the post last week 'Talking to Adam 6', describing wanting to spend time with somebody you like because you feel a connection, not because you insist on a boyfriend. I remember roaming Hong Kong saunas every week for years and having hot encounters but more often feeling empty after the hot encounters passed. There are indeed many horrible gay men in HK but there are decent guys too.

Regarding my relationship, it continues to go very well. My boyfriend 'Sam' and I have now been together 9 months, a long time by my slutty standards. We're growing as a couple, more understanding of each other's nature and interests and the things that bother and turn us on. We're still committed and monogamous, and my sex life has truly never been better.

Being able to physically and emotionally give myself and belong to one guy has been eye-opening and even liberating. I feel more at peace and more self-confident knowing Sam has my back and I can tell he feels the same. We also challenge each other to be better men.

For example, Sam's a health nut and early in our monogamous relationship he told me one of his conditions is that we both get regularly tested for STDs. I was put off at first but then I concluded this is what any sexually active guy should do. So, we first got tested together in September, then every 3 months after. I'm nervous waiting for the results, but each time we're clean. The tests help me see that we both want to be honest, smart and committed.

It sure helps that Sam and I are hot for each other in bed. We're passionate and often flip-flop with tender kissing and body contact. After our STD tests in March came back clean, Sam said he'd like our relationship to go to the next level. He suggested unprotected sex.

I knew this day might come but still didn't feel ready. Despite my slutty past, I've always been careful, particularly with anal penetration, which I sometimes find painful receiving. I told Sam this and he replied that he simply didn't want there to be any barriers between us. He said, as lovers, we should make love and not just have sex. I told him I'd think about it.

Finally, last weekend, Easter Sunday in fact, we did it. He rang me after finishing lunch with his family. He said he wanted to meet me at my flat. At the door he had an extra horny vibe about him and as we kissed hot and heavy he whispered, 'is today the day?' I said yes. We made our way to my bedroom and slowly undressed each other, feeling each other up like it was the very first time we met. We were both rock hard. I reached for his ass to finger it...

I must say that sliding into Sam's bubble butt without a condom felt like a dream. I could hardly contain myself and tried to take it slow. However, I got such a rush of excitement that within minutes I told him I was going to cum and sure enough I unleashed a big load, causing him to twitch all over, which was incredibly sexy. I stayed inside him a long while.

I was ready to rest but Sam was itching for his turn. At this point I got anxious but, like any good lover, he was attuned. He said we'd go slow and I could tell him to stop. However, his sensual kisses drove me wild and before I knew it he had me on my back, his big long dick easing bare into my tight little hole. He started topping me gently but when he hit my g-spot I grabbed his ass and told him to fuck me harder. Sam obliged and not long after he came inside me. I can't describe the exhilaration and intimacy I felt. I've never felt closer to him.

I guess I'm trying to say committed monogamous relationships can be awesome. I know a lot of hard work and a bit of luck are needed but if I can find depth after years of casual sex I'm certain anyone can. Making love to a person you love, and are committed to, is worth it.

Until my next update, all the best to you and your readers -- HKSS
 
FuelMix says:
 
We agree that Monogamy can be very sexy.  But it takes work and Trust.  As you're finding out. Thanks for the update.