FuelMix was at the sauna. Swathed in double fluffy towels he was neatly curled up alone in one of the private rooms, napping contentedly. The piped music was soft. He still had one hour before his next appointment. In the next room was the sound of two fags writhing on the vinyl mattress. Nothing too disturbing.
Then it all went quiet. The music stopped. The writhing in the next room stopped. A voice from the room was heard to say, "I'm NOT gay". Then there was silence.
Another voice from the room responded, "Whaddya mean you're NOT gay?"
1st Voice: I just told you I'm NOT gay so don't fuck me and don't put your finger in my ass OK?
2nd Voice: So what are you doing here?
1st Voice: I'm here to check out the guys.....that's all
2nd Voice: Dude, you were touching me in the steam room and you said, "Do you wanna fuck?" That's why we're in here.
1st Voice: Yeah well I'm checking you out.......
2nd Voice: I don't get what's happening here.....you don't kiss, you don't hug, you don't suck.....hell you're just lying there.....
1st Voice: Yeah I told you I'm NOT gay.....
2nd Voice: You should have said that in the Steam Room. Better still you should have said that at the Reception Desk when you showed up here. What a fuckin' waste of my time....what the hell are you actually doing here anyway?
1st Voice: I just wanna check out the guys that's all......I don't have to be gay to come to a gay sauna you know.....
2nd Voice: Why the fuck didn't you say that earlier...??!! How many other guys here are you leading on...??!!
1st Voice: I'm not leading anyone on. I'm here to see how you gay guys do it in here
2nd Voice: Dude, I've seen you in this sauna at least 4 times and you stay a couple of hours. You haven't learned it by NOW.....???!!!
1st Voice: I'm getting ideas on how to fuck women.....
2nd Voice: Oh jeez.....I'm outta here (sound of door forcibly opened, footsteps thumping down the corridor)
FuelMix sighed, re- arranged his soft fluffy towels and went back to napping, grateful for the blog material. You can't make this stuff up.
Originally published 29 January 2011 Amended and Republished26 September 2014 | 29 August 2017
1.Kim Kardashian's Ass 2.Anger Building For Years 3. Collapse Of The Political Centre & The Rise Of Polarization 4. The West Fractures. The East Integrates.
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1.Kim Kardashian's Ass
1. Whatever the fuck is going on in that bastion of alleged freedom that never tires of thumping its own chest and wailing to the world about its apparent "exceptionalism" and unfettered media, one thing is now abundantly clear: the media AND its social media are co-conspirators and accomplices in a leveraged, orchestrated and pervasive campaign of denial, demonization, delusion, deification, deception and DISTRACTION...
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2. Oh yeah...it just gets better and better. As we said to one of our disciples the other day, the world as we know it, ended on US Election Day, November 8, 2016. But don't expect the media and social media bombing campaigns to end any time soon. Desperation, dysfunctionality, distraction and tangential hysteria don't have a shelf life.
WE LOVE KIM KARDASHIAN'S FAT ASS !! HIS NAME IS "KANYE"
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3. And the collateral damage..? Your sanity. The fog of propaganda swirls fast and thick.
4. More to the point, are YOU enjoying the Apocalypse, the true meaning of which, is that which was hidden is now revealed..?
5. And right now, what's on show is TRANSPARENTLY OPAQUE. That's right fag, it's patently obvious that everything is murky. That's why it's easier for people to drop into distraction...like Kim Kardashian's ass and whether she's had those Brazilian butt lifts.
6. BUT THAT'S GOOD NEWS TOO..!! WHY..?? BECAUSE OUT OF OPACITY AND CHAOS COMES...ORDER!!And right now, we are in that transition - right in the middle of that opacity of chaos, wondering what the New Order is going to look like - and more importantly who's going to control it.
2.Anger Building For Years
1. It's NOT about one election in one country or the personalities involved. At best, one country's election are simply a symptom and metaphor for the massive sense of GLOBAL rage that's been building since we believe September 11, 2001. Yeah that date.
2. To us, that date marks the start of a policy of economic, financial and military genocide that has had - by design - utterly disastrous results. In other words, The World Management Team that was manipulating events, was absolutely banking on the GLOBAL creation of never-ending chaos, human misery, economic inequality, artificially inflated asset bubbles, outrageous debt creation, debasement of currency and fraud.
3. And they succeeded. Admirably.
4.Problem was, the World Management Team ran into the Laws of Physics. Specifically, the Law of Gravity which operates in 3 ways:
what goes up, must come down;
what goes around, comes around;
illegality, corruption and fraud and criminality will ultimately, always be exposed and have to be answered for. That's part of the Apocalypse that we've written about several times in this blog;
3.Collapse Of The Political Centre & The Rise Of Polarization
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1. Take a real good look at this chart. Click on it to make it larger. Along the top, it shows the collapse of the political centre in the following countries: Australia, Austria, Belgium, Canada, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Japan, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, United Kingdom and the United States. Basically, the so-called "Developed World".
2. Then look at the 4 square boxes from left to right that trace the roots of the Politics Of Rage. It makes lots of sense. Globalization resulted in the wholesale removal of jobs from traditional Western manufacturing centres to cheaper labour centres in other emerging countries. That crushed the working class and the middle class in the West.
3. In the meantime, absurd economic policies of Quantitative Easing and really low interest rates in the West, fueled asset bubbles globally, further crushing the working class and middle class while creating extreme wealth disparity.
4. Then add:
Western-created geopolitical instability;
illegal immigration; and
a flood of refugees into the West, induced by the West. No government in the West will dare answer credibly exactly why NATO countries - set up to counter a now defunct Soviet Union - were responsible for the genocidal mess and war criminality in Iraq, Afghanistan, Libya and Syria;
and it becomes easy to see how social anger risen and the moderate political centre in the West has collapsed.
5.The wholly manipulated farce being played out in the United States that so far includes:
outraged blacks - who want their lives to matter instead of splatter;
clueless Snowflake Millenials - who demand to be coddled via politically correct thought and speech, lest they be "triggered";
an increasingly defensive right wing that is turning to white supremacy ideology;
an increasingly aggressive left wing Socio-Fascists now engaging in a cultural revolution that seeks to erase and destroy chunks of their confederate history;
trans-gender attacking other trans-gender for their political views...
is just a symptom of centrist collapse. Make no mistake about it. The chaos in the United States is being managed and manipulated by the World Management Team for the sake of chaos. It is a classic divide and rule tactic intended to consolidate even more power into the World Management Team's hands. 6. The ultimate goal...? Totalitarianism on a global scale. You're not in the least suspicious that Facebook and Google are resorting to "Trusted News Moderators" to vet news stories in order to weed out "Fake News"..? Fake News according to whom...??? Have you seen what Google has been doing to YouTube videos lately - particularly those that rationally articulate an alternative political or geopolitical point of view..? They are disappearing completely, not appearing in searches and recommendations or being de-monetized.
4. The West Fractures. The East Integrates. 1. It is important to remember that this rage runs across all countries, but is particularly noticeable in the West at the moment. We expect greater calls from the West for trade protectionism, the attempted recall of manufacturing from Asian countries back to the West, import tariffs.
2. The irony is that the fracturing rage in the West, appears to be the direct opposite of the increasing Eurasian and Asian economic and trade integration via:
the Eurasian Economic Union headed by Russia;
the Shanghai Cooperation Organization headed by China; and
Silk Road 2 (One Belt, One Road) also headed by China;
3. And just wait till you see the new economic bloc of Russia, Turkey, Iran and Egypt. It is already taking shape. But if you're getting your news from the usual white sources, chances are you're too stupid to realize what's going on.
4.What's the effect of Russia, Turkey, Iran and Egypt getting together..? It means that Russia controls the Caspian Sea, the Black Sea, the Eastern Mediterranean and.....the Suez Canal.
6. That's guaranteed to send the usual white boy media mouthpieces into a rage. TheWest has not - and will not - officially
acknowledge that Russia and Iran comprehensively defeated them in Syria
and destroyed ISIS. It has been shown beyond doubt that ISIS was created and funded by certain Western and Middle East
Sunni countries.
Originally published 10 November 2016 Amended And Republished 29 August 2017
1/F Overseas Building,
417 - 421 Hennessy Road
Causeway Bay
Hong Kong (same location as Action) MTR: Causeway Bay, Exit B
Telephone: 2893 7027 (same number as Action) Web: https://sodasaunahk.wordpress.com Price: HK$130.00 (HK$150.00 on Sat, Sun & Public Holidays)
** OPEN 24 HOURS** (Except Mondays when it closes at 11:30pm)
FuelMix showed up at Soda on a Saturday evening between 8pm and 11:30pm.
Although there was a notice on the front desk saying the weekend and public holiday charge was HK$150.00, FuelMix was charged HK$100.00.
What actually happened was that there were 2 other customers who also came up in the lift and lined up at the Reception Desk behind FuelMix. The Manager smiled at FuelMix and without a word, raised his index finger. FuelMix handed over HK100.00. We don't know what the other 2 were charged. (We would not be surprised if Soda charged other customers less or more, or whether they had time-sensitive discount coupons). In the interests of accurate reporting, FuelMix will disclose that he pays less than others at more than one sauna (without a discount coupon). For the record, he's never asked for special treatment. He just gets it. There were a lot of people there, mainly local GAMs and 3 GWMs in their 30s. (We heard from our GAM-throats-on-the-street that GWMs who showed up at Soda, were better looking and in better shape than those at Central Escalator). Customers continued to come in the door regularly, sometimes more than one at a time. Unfortunately, it was a case of Quantity rather than Quality. This crowd was more Fat and Fugly. There were some gym-fit GAM hotties there, but less than what FuelMix had seen on his first visit to Soda on a weekday evening. Perhaps the timing was off. Other customers told us Soda is definitely getting the gym guys, both weekdays and weekends. Remember, it's now open 24 hours.
For the second time in his 2 visits to Soda, FuelMix noticed a marked drop in attitude, compared to when it was Action. Although the customers were not that visually appealing, FuelMix received a number of compliments as he wandered around or sat in a corner. He got cruised easily without doing much and, whilst sitting on the bench in the Locker Room, was fondled by 2 customers as they were getting dressed to leave.
Ultimately, FuelMix got pretty good suck and fuck action twice with 2 very submissive slim GAMs. So, no complaints.
However, there are 2 things to complain about:
1. Unlike his first visit where the lighting in the Locker Room was fine, this time it was turned down. Annoying.
2. The small seating area outside the Steam Room and the toilets is also the smoking area. It was very frequently used and that area, up to the showers, was covered in dense grey-blue smoke. And we mean dense. It was sickening and the nicotine stench was appalling. FuelMix threw open the windows in the toilets to ventilate the place - and strongly suggests that all customers warn the Manager that this level of indoor nicotine pollution will not be tolerated. It's your fuckin' health.
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We’ve all seen the rampant gay ageism in Fagland – the older guy shunned, snickered at, referred to disparagingly, used as bait for escorts, shuffling alongside a chirpy gym twink, used as an ATM.
The old fag represents the very antithesis of the youthful jock oozing with sexuality. It’s an ethos that Gay Media has done a masterful job of relentlessly portraying. Think about it. Pick up a fag rag or a glossy fag mag, Grey Gay is hardly represented visually (although hair colour to hide the grey and hair loss clinics are). The closest Gay Media gets to Grey Gay is the occasional ad for Bear Porn or financial planning for Seniors. One has to go online to find the Grey Gay sites.
That puts to rest the “inclusivity” that Gay Media likes to blare. It’s even more astounding in the light of falling birth rates and the huge increase in Baby Boomers coming onstream globally. It is having, and will have, huge economic consequences. It will cause massive financial distortion as these Baby Boomers (many of whom lost badly in the deliberately engineered financial crash of 2008) fight hard to retain a semblance of dignity by demanding state backed pensions and medical care. Remember these Baby Boomers are cashing out and demanding retirement benefits at the exact time that the global financial system is systemically flawed and systemically corrupt – thanks to the antics of Fraud Street.
Yet Gay Media happily skips along every week or every month pretending that nothing is wrong. Grey simply doesn’t exist – and if it does, "use Garnier ! Trust them! They’re experts..!"
At the very basis of this denial of ageing are the twin reality checks of Mortality and Responsibility that Gay Media will do anything to evade. Inherent in ageing is the acceptance of Mortality and the sober assessment of Responsibility. But the fag lifestyle is hedonistic, fleeting, addictive yet superficial, casual, anonymous, almost independent of space and time (thanks to whatever amphetamine the fag is flying on), completely unconcerned with consequences and frequently, suicidal.
Held hostage by a cartel of gay advertisers who can make or break their publication, Gay Media submissively complies. Stand back and take a long hard look. It’s almost repulsive to witness the engineered denial of gay ageing via the airbrushed jock, the poppers ads, the circuit parties with the DJs from Mykonos and Amsterdam, the hottie of the week , the 20-something aspiring singer/ model, the underwear ads, the erection enhancers, the chatline ads, the fitness tips.
Week after week, nothing changes. Same shit. Different jock, twink, stud. Here today, dead (of an overdose) tomorrow.
Who sets this invisible but very real barrier that men of a certain age simply don’t exist or don't matter?
What’s with the tiptoeing around 35-somethings and describing them as “young”?
Who or what is actually behind the hysterically prohibitive personal ads, “No one over 30?”; “No one over 35”?
Thanks Gay Media.
You’ve institutionalized a code of behaviour that guillotined the lifespan of a gay man to 35. No wonder so many gay men are terrified of ageing.
You’ve robbed gay men of a meaningful future;
You’ve terrified gay men from facing their personal futures courageously;
You’ve steered them away from the concept of legacy;
You’ve deprived them of articulate, successful role models;
You’ve torpedoed the notion of mentoring - only to find that older fags can viciously exploit the twink by feeding them drugs, gang-banging them, infecting them and throwing them out on the street.
You’ve ensured that each new generation of twinks and jocks will grow up chronically damaged, bitter, lost and unfulfilled. But totally full of attitude and disrespect for the older gay man - who in turn, will become predatory and pathological towards them.
"Community...?" Nah. We've said it before: the prevailing morality in Fagland (the postal code and / or the state of mind) is:
DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU HATED HAVING DONE UNTO YOU
Result...? A slow death by a thousand cuts. Snuff porn.
Originally published 22 March 2011. Amended and Republished 5 August 2012 | 26 August 2017
We had previously observed that GAMs here in Very Rich Megacity are becoming much more brazen in their urban cruising, exhibitionism and in flaunting their sexuality.
"OMG...!!" swooned the Banana with the telltale nasal twang, shaking his head in disbelief as he propped himself up against the Locker Room wall, breathing heavily. He pointed his finger at FuelMix who entered the area mostly naked, his towel an afterthought.
"I can't fuckin' believe I just did THAT to YOU in the Steam Room...!!.."
"Yeah....it was pretty good....you're talented when you're down there" grinned FuelMix, fumbling with his locker key.
"No, dude you don't understand....I've NEVER done THAT..."
"Really..?" said FuelMix, "you came across like a pro...I got the impression you were totally into it, judging by the noises you were making..." "I was into it!!....THAT'S the thing that shocks me....seriously dude, I've NEVER, EVER done that with another guy.....me.....face down LYING TOTALLY FLAT on the Steam Room floor, sucking a guy's toes and licking his feet.....and then letting him fuck my mouth with his feet.....Oh God.....Fuuuck....I was TOTALLY FLAT ON THE FLOOR.....lying on my stomach and people were just stepping over me as I sucked your feet...!!"
"I didn't force you to do anything..." said FuelMix gently, unsure how to handle Banana's meltdown.
"Yeah..... I know, I know....I saw you in the shower.....you have a hot body....and I really wanted to suck you.....so I followed you into the Steam Room - but then those 3 guys got to you first.....you had two of them licking your chest and armpits and the third one licking your balls.....I couldn't get to your cock....and I was totally hungry for your body....and I needed to taste something of yours.....so I started with your thighs and just worked my way down.....all the way down to your toes and just lay there....face down, flat on the floor, in a trance.....while you fucked my mouth with your feet as the other 3 guys serviced you....for some strange reason, I felt I totally belonged there on the floor.....Oh My Gawd....I didn't even fuckin' care if people stepped on me or over me....I just needed to suck on you....Shhhiiitt....Oh My Gaaawwdd..." He was still breathing hard and deep, analyzing and rationalizing.
"No harm done, you don't hear me complaining..."said FuelMix, "besides...lotsa guys come to a gay sauna to experiment and do stuff they've never done before. It's a pretty safe environment, so long as you're not fucked up on drugs and shit..."
"But you made me lose control..." said the Banana softly...."I'm always in control of myself.....but it's like you're wicked....not in an evil way....just wicked.....kinda supernatural....you triggered a response in me right at that moment that I couldn't stop....." He bowed his head and put on his glasses. They sat skewed on his face. He opened his locker and stared blankly at its contents, still in a daze.
"Supernatural huh.?" smirked FuelMix as he gave Banana a parting hug, "I'll take it".
Originally published 25 February 2016 Amended and Republished 24 August 2017
FuelMix Escorts A Gay Twink Making His Debut At A Gay Sauna...
6.What FuelMix Learned: A Lesson In Life
1. In the shower, the GAMTwink grinned from ear to ear. He hugged FuelMix repeatedly whilst kissing him under the shower faucet. As FuelMix soaped himself, the Twink interjected, "Here...let me do that..." and proceeded to give FuelMix a long, lingering soapy shower. The Twink's gentle hands felt good as he massaged FuelMix's neck and shoulders while lathering up him nicely. The Twink was in no hurry.
2. As a crowd of 7 people stopped to watch, the Twink knelt down in the shower behind FuelMix and started kissing his ass and thighs, gently rimming his hole while he massaged his legs. From time to time, the Twink inserted a soapy finger into FuelMix's butthole while rimming him and soaping the rest of him. FuelMix was getting horny again, but was also thinking.
3. It's true that the most memorable moments are spontaneous and unscripted. But it's also said there are no coincidences and that the Universe unceasingly conspires to create a scenario. Every person we encounter, be it friend or stranger, whether briefly, anonymously, socially, professionally, sexually or significantly, is there to deliver a message. And we in turn, are delivering a message to them. It's up to us to decipher that message. There is no such thing as a casual encounter.
4.Most people drift through life emotionally and perceptually numb. Maybe it's the fatigue, maybe it's the drugs, maybe it's the daily grind, maybe it's a recent or lingering trauma, an attack on physical appearance, an attack on self-confidence, an overheard snide remark at school or work that hurt badly then and still does now, maybe it's gay culture's "Lookism" "Ageism", Racism and "Body Culture Fixation".....if you don't look a certain way or don't have a certain body type and you're not of a certain age or a certain race, forget it....
5. The Twink by his own admission was very skinny, so-so looking and sexually inexperienced. But he didn't ask for sympathy. He didn't want a boyfriend. He wanted intimacy without neediness - that brief but authentic sense of connection to another gay man that would accept him as he was. In reality the Twink had a damn good idea of his own sense of worth and the Universe had challenged FuelMix:
could FuelMix get past the barriers that "gay culture" throws up..?
could FuelMix give the intimacy that the Twink wanted..?
was FuelMix too emotionally cheap and personally mean to accompany the Twink on his first visit to a gay sauna and then let the Twink kiss him and hold him..?
6. FuelMix turned to the Twink under the shower, "How did I do..?"
"I learned a lot today.." beamed the Twink, "I don't know how to say this...but I feel so relaxed....sooo complete and crazy happy...!!.....just crazy happy...!!."
He reached over and hugged FuelMix, "I will never forget you for your kindness....I learned a lot about myself..."
FuelMix Escorts A Gay Twink Making His Debut At A Gay Sauna...
4. Arrival And Walkabout 5. The Twink Worships FuelMix 6. What FuelMix Learned: A Lesson In Life
4. Arrival And Walkabout
The Twink was nervous as he and FuelMix waited for the lift to take them up to the sauna. He fiddled with his cash and asked twice if the staff would really let him in - because he was a student and because he was skinny. FuelMix grinned and reassured him the management would allow entry to all kinds of legal aged shit. The Twink calmed downbut made FuelMix promise he would stay with him the whole time.
The dude at Reception grinned and greeted FuelMix by name. He gave the Twink an immediate discount and the Twink beamed in surprise.
FuelMix giggled as the Twink undressed in front of the locker. That really was one Skinny Twink. As he turned to head towards the showers, the Twink caught a glimpse of himself in the mirror. He stopped dead in his tracks and gasped....."Oh God!!.....look at me..!! I am just a stick...!!"
"With a prick to match", sneered FuelMix to himself.
Needing to distract the Twink from an impending collapse in self-confidence, FuelMix swiveled him in the direction of the porn screen. The Twink cooed in amazement, momentarily transfixed on the cocksucking action.....then grabbed FuelMix and started kissing him, getting all horny and bothered.
"Dude....shower time first", said FuelMix.
"Oh yeah.....yeah.....sss....sorry", muttered the Twink, all flustered.
After showering, FuelMix took the twink on a tour of the sauna and the Dark Area. It was pretty straightforward, but the Twink was utterly disoriented in the Dark Room, stubbing his toe and bumping into walls.
"You have to hold my hand...." whispered the Twink, "...What do they use a sling for..? Oh really...??!! Just floating in the air...??!!....And you can fuck his mouth AND his ass...??!!....Don't let go of my hand....I don't know what's happening in here....."
" I do..." said FuelMix, bundling the Twink into a private room with adjustable lighting and mirrors. The Twink sank to his knees automatically...
5.The Twink Worships FuelMix
.....and started licking and kissing FuelMix's hairy muscled thighs, sighing deeply as he did so...
"Lie on top of me", he whispered as he fell back onto the floor, pulling FuelMix with him. The difference between FuelMix's muscled bod and the Twink's skeletal build became more apparent as the Twink wrapped his legs around FuelMix's hips and begged FuelMix to hold him tighter and closer.
The Twink was desperate for intimacy not sex. He slathered kisses all over FuelMix's face, neck, shoulders, chest, nipples and armpits. Not possessing hairy thighs, he was fascinated by FuelMix's and several times nuzzled, licked and kissed his legs up to the balls. There was no point in forcing the Twink to do anymore - he was already in ecstacy, sighing, squealing, whining over and over again. He wasn't acting, he wasn't pretending. He wanted to feel safe as he explored another male body. The boy was not holding back.....
"I love you FuelMix...!!" he gasped repeatedly, "you have a hot body and a good heart...!!You are so kind and sexy.....I feel so safe......and so free....I love you so much for what you have done for me.....I love you so much..!! Thank you my sexy man.....I love you soooo much....!!"
FuelMix smiled as the Twink kissed his face repeatedly while locked in an embrace with FuelMix on top of him. "You're not in love with me.....you're in love with the experience....all I did was create the safe space for you.....I'm not doing that much..."
"You have made me sooo happy...!" gushed the Twink as he started licking FuelMix's armpit, "it is your scent, your body and your spirit.....I have not felt like this with other boys. But today I feel so free after such a long time.....I will never forget you.....because you have respected me and protected me.....I will never forget you...maybe you have given me some of your confidence... I will never forget you".
The Twink buried his face and tongue deeper into FuelMix's armpit, inhaling deeply and whining. He was blissed out and spaced out and would not allow FuelMix to relax his grip on him. Whichever position FuelMix was in, the Twink was there, over him, under him, between his thighs, nuzzling his chest, sucking his nipples, licking his armpits, lavishing kisses on FuelMix's neck and face. Tighter and tighter he begged to be held, rocking in FuelMix's arms and breathing hard.
As FuelMix ground his hips into the Twink's crotch, the Twink shot his load onto his stomach without touching himself. He arched his back and his neck cascaded at an alarming angle, as if he was in the grip of an Exorcism. His mouth opened and he let out a howl....somewhere between a wolf, a boy and a puppy......
And then there was silence. Throughout the sauna premises, not a sound. No music, nothing. It was as if the Universe was inhaling.
The Twink got up, smiled, put on his towel and led FuelMix to the showers.
COMING UP IN PART 3: 6. What FuelMix Learned: A Lesson In Life Originally published 16 June 2016 Republished 21 August 2017
FuelMix Escorts A Gay Twink Making His Debut At A Gay Sauna...
1. The Scene
2. The Twink's Approach
3. The Seduction 4. Arrival And Walkabout 5. The Twink Worships FuelMix 6. What FuelMix Learned: A Lesson In Life
1. The Scene
The evening summer heat was stifling as FuelMix melted on a park bench. His feet ached and he was tired of thinking. Two empty juice bottles - one of carrot and ginger, the other of pomegranate - were testament to his attempts at hydration. The phone was on mute and the surging crescendo of cicadas, well into the Fourth Movement of the Dusk Symphony, overwhelmed the noises in his head.
In the rapidly fading light, the Shenzhen moneyboys fluttered and twittered amongst the trees. Lacking conviction or relevance, they looked like the deleted scenes of a bad David Attenborough documentary on garden pests.
FuelMix's vision had long since shifted into soft focus. His shorts and T-shirt were drenched in sweat and he was broiling in his juices. Tilting his head back, he closed his eyes briefly and reopened them - only to find a very lanky Oriental twink of college age standing nearby, looking at him.
2.The Twink's Approach
"..Hi!....Umm.... I...uhh... followed you", said the twink hesitantly while trying to smile.
FM: I know.....I saw you looking at me when I walked past you
GAM Twink: I...uh...uh...I really like your body.....Is that OK to tell you that..? Uh... You must go to the gym....?
FM: Yeah.....You wanna sit next to me..? I'd offer you a drink, but the bar's empty. Sorry about the bottles
GAM Twink: [nervous laughter] Oh, that's OK....[sits down very close to FuelMix]
For a few seconds there was silence. And then gently, very gently, a hand moved over to touch FuelMix's hand. FuelMix remained silent as the hand softly caressed his fingers. The twink smiled, then lifted FuelMix's hand and kissed it. GAM Twink: I'm too skinny to go to the gym.... umm....I try, but nothing happens.... even my friends say I'm too skinny....you are lucky, you can see results
FM: Takes time, just be patient. How old are you..? You a college student or working..?
GAM Twink: I'm 23 and study at ***** University.....uhh...but today after class, I was feeling lonely....I wanted to find someone....
FM: For what..?
GAM Twink: Just to hold them and kiss them.....I...uhh...don't know very much about men except that I like them......uhhh... I am still learning about men....and what I like to do.....a few times when I meet someone they try and force me to do things like sucking and fucking....uhh...I'm not ready for that right now....I don't know much, so I get scared and run away......I want a muscular man who will be gentle with me.....ummm.... I'm sorry....I don't know much about sex with men....all I know is I'm gay....and I wanna hold a man who won't force me or hurt me....I'm still very scared about sex with men....but I know that I'm gay....
FM: I'm not gonna kill you....
GAMTwink: [grinning] Thank you....I thought maybe because you were not Chinese, you would understand....
FM: It's got nothing to do with race GAMTwink: [Still holding FuelMix's hand and kissing it, lets out a long sigh and rests his head on FM's shoulder.....] 3.The Seduction
FM: You move fast....and I'm covered in sweat....Lucky for you there are not many people around
GAMTwink: That's OK...you still smell nice even if you're sweating [starts kissing FM's chest through his sweat-stained Tshirt]
FM:You are so full of bullshit...
GAMTwink: Maybe we could cuddle and kiss......do you have a place to play....? or uhh....do you play in the park.....? or in the toilet.....? [Kisses FM's cheek while stroking his chest]
FM: No....No and No......
GAMTwink: So...uhh....where to do you play.....?
FM: In the gay sauna. That's the safest place.
GAMTwink: I heard about them....but uhh..... I have never been [rests his head on FM's shoulder again]
FM: Why.....?
GAMTwink: I'm too scared....and uhh....I don't have much experience with sex.....I don't know what to do there or what happens there....also as you can see I am very skinny and just so-so looking. I am scared of full sex because I don't know what to do....and I'm not a hot guy.....but I wish I was.....[holds FM's hand again and starts kissing it]
FM: There are many different types of guys who show up at the sauna.....especially FAT UGLY ONES....!!
GAMTwink: [giggles] Do people play with them...?
FM: Some do....or they play with each other....or they just stand around looking grim. Nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to do... GAMTwink: What about the Police...?
FM: The gay saunas are legal. Some are open 24 hours. The Police do not show up often. If they do, it's to check for drugs and ID.
GAMTwink: What if I meet someone I know..? Like a classmate...? What do I do..?
FM: Nothing. You can say "hello" to them, or play with them or ignore them. It is your choice.
GAMTwink: But....uhh...I don't know what to do in a gay sauna....I don't know very much....uhh....I am just very scared to go alone....
FM: I can show you if you want. There are several nearby. GAMTwink: Really...??!! You would do that for me...??!! But you just met me..!!
FM: Yeah....and you started kissing me pretty quickly...
GAMTwink: [grinning] Because you are sexy and muscular....and umm....you seem very nice and kind.......If we go just now.....will you stay there with me and cuddle me or will you just run away.....?
FM: That's up to you GAMTwink: I want you to show me around and cuddle me......I want to kiss your body.....umm.....it's OK, I have the money to pay for me....you don't have to pay for me....can you take me there now...? We can hold hands in the park when we are walking.....?
FM: Yeah.
COMING UP IN PART 2: 4. Arrival and Walkabout 5. The Twink Worships FuelMix 6. What FuelMix Learned: A Lesson In Life
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Originally published 15 June 2016 Republished 20 August 2017
Our (entirely unscientific, but probably correct) observations suggest that when we look into many gay men's eyes, we see:
profound sadness;
an emptiness;
a longing for authenticity;
a weariness with "the lifestyle" with no other options;
more questions than answers;
anger and betrayal;
a secret wish for someone special to whom they could speak sacred Truth other than "stats"...?
Somebody observed that one of the most frustrating things is that there are more single people on the planet wanting a relationship - yet for all the technology, the dating agencies, the bars, the speed dating, the casual hookups, it's become harder to actually meet someone that's right for you. (And that's not counting the Gay Exclusionary Barriers like Age, Looks, Body Type, Ethnicity, HIV status).
Happily single as FuelMix is for now (you never know who might come along...) trust us, dear reader, we've been through our own patented, private hell attempting to figure out the who..?, what..?, why..?, why me..? and WTF..?!! moments of swimming in a predatory, debauched, drug-fucked, dismissive, racist, politically correct, dysfunctional, jaded, potentially fatal, Gay Ocean - with no Lifeguard in sight.
Apparently this is where they all went :
As a gift of mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to those drowning in anguish, we offer the following:
Gay Men's Behaviour: Mutual Immune System Destruction2
1. In Here And Hereafter 2, we said this:
2.Fags and Dignity Fags
constantly clamour for dignity only to degrade each other - whether
online or to their face, or behind their backs. How many little deaths
must a fag endure in his “community”? Is his buffed bod just an armor plating for a whimpering spirit cowering in the recesses of a wounded psyche? An outrageous claim fags make is that they are a “community”. That’s a lie. A “community” implies cohesion. How can there be cohesion when the community consists of so many individually wounded, fractured psyches?
FuelMix has often been left speechless at the numbers of deeply
lonely, fundamentally unhappy fags, some quite young, for whom living in
Fagland (either as a postal code or a state of mind) is a daily
accumulation of financial, social and emotional degradation culminating
in a fundamental lack of self-worth.
There’s no doubt those are the walking wounded and the living dead. Where is that special person who will guide them through their “deathwalk”,
that long night of the soul when incessant Fagland pain finally
transfigures them into someone stronger, more noble, more resilient,
more at peace with themselves?
2.The reason that gay men are crippled emotionally is because of so many triggers of emotional pain that are the hallmarks of daily Faggotry - which ultimately crush their immune system:
arrogance and attitude
aggression - particularly micro-aggression
rejection - via "lookism", ageism, racism
shunning - via "lookism", ageism, racism
evasion - absolutely entrenched in a generic fag
lying - absolutely entrenched in a generic fag
fake stats
endless email - wasting time, pissing each other off, anger, resentment
failed online hookups and no-shows - ditto
addictions - to chem, porn, social media, online hookup sites
drug pushing -
bitchy or venomous online and personal behaviour
bad mouthing
exploitation
passive-aggression
"don't ask, don't tell" in "relationships"
incessant petty dramas
infidelity and betrayal
vengeance
selfishness
sense of shallow triumph via rejection, shunning or put-down
racism
stifling political correctness - controls thought, speech, self-censorship
"ghosting" - cutting all online and realtime contact without explanation
deliberately infecting someone via lying about or not disclosing health status
5.Spectrum Of Emotional Pain - Common Theme 1. The common theme in that spectrum of emotional pain (see the list in
Part 1) is that initially, it feels pretty good, triumphant even. But
it's a false sense of self-respect. It soon morphs into a cringing
gut-wrenching debilitation that leaves the gay man hollowed out. 2. Chronic anger and despair sets in. Searching
for answers, he zeros in with a photographic memory of every person in
every encounter (real, cyber or imagined) that pissed him off, enraged
him, emasculated him, insulted him, betrayed him, cheated him, infected
him, rejected him, dumped him, shunned him. 3. Focused on the details, he can't see the forest for the trees. He reacts to the pain and becomes addicted to it. He associates Pain as the necessary collateral for being a gay man in "the community". 4. It is an entirely false reaction and association - but one that every gay man has sucked and swallowed more than cock.
4.It is that fundamental and chronically entrenched addiction to emotional pain, that progressively, cumulatively and utterly crushes a gay man's immune system. (and that's not taking into account his drug use.....)
5. In the post, Gay Men's Addiction To Pain 1, we asked why any gay man would make "a lifestylechoice" - purportedly based on "Pride" - which is indisputably bitter, coercive, debilitating, destructive, corrosive and frequently, fatal.
6.What's worse, is that they're passed down from one generation of gay man to another, without anyone asking, "why..?" or "WTF is going on here...??!!"
7. Our conclusion remains: Fagland (whether the postal code or state of mind, or both) is an emotionally gated gulag where pleasure is the pretense AND the justification for the most outrageous emotional sado-masochism in a documented sub-culture.
8. The real driving force in Fagland is not diversity, tolerance and "community". That's a crock. The real driving force in Fagland is much more brutal:
DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU HATED HAVING DONE UNTO YOU
- to which the corollary is: if my behavioural abuse wrecks your immune system and my immune system, so be it.
3.Gay Men's Behaviour: Mutual Immune System Destruction1
1. In case readers haven't heard of Louise Hay, she is a metaphysical
counselor who, in addition to being an author and public speaker,
achieved recognition for her counselling of gay men during the emergence
of AIDS in the 1980s. She is also the founder of Hay House Publishing.
2. FuelMix has a lot of respect for this lady.
3. Here's what she has to say on aspects of gay life. The quotes are taken from her book, You Can Heal Your Life. Underlining and bold print by FuelMix.
In heterosexual society......the older man often gets respect, and people may even look up to him.
Not so for most gay men, for they have created a culture that places tremendous emphasis on youth and beauty. While everyone is young to start with, only a few fit the standard of beauty. So much emphasis has been placed on the physical appearance of the body that the feelings inside have been totally disregarded. If you are not young and beautiful, it's almost as though you don't count. The person does not count; only the body counts.
This way of thinking is a disgrace to the whole culture. It's another way of saying "gay is not good enough." Because of the ways gay people often treat other gays, for many gay men the experience of getting old is something to dread. It is almost better to die than to get old. And AIDS is a disease that often kills.
Too
often gay men feel that when they get older, they will be useless and
unwanted. It's almost better to destroy themselves first; and many have
created a destructive lifestyle. Some of the concepts and attitudes
that are so a part of the gay lifestyle - the meat rack, the constant
judging, the refusal to get close to another etc. - are monstrous. And AIDS is a monstrous disease. These
sorts of attitiudes and behaviour patters can only create guilt on a
very deep level, no matter how much we may "camp".....It is another way
of avoiding closeness and intimacy.
...........I feel it is unfortunate that much of what [gay men] have created gives so much pain to their gay brothers. While it is often deplorable the way straights treat gays, it is tragic [her emphasis] the way many gays treat other gays.
4. And right there is the most accurate, succinct articulation of what it is to be a generic fag - with potentially fatal results.
5. What is Louise Hay saying...? She is talking about the lack of acceptance and pervasive rejection so common in the fag "lifestyle". But it goes deeper than that. We believe that what she is actually saying is that this lack of acceptance, judgment and pervasive rejection creates a faggot "death wish" upon which the body acts.
6. In
metaphysics, every part of the human body is deemed to be intelligent, right down to the molecular, cellular, atomic and
sub-atomic levels. This intelligence allows every part of the body to
eavesdrop on an individual's thoughts at all times and to act or respond
accordingly. In other words, emotion affects human health.
7.The entrenched and dismissive behaviour of millions of gay men towards each other, based on "lookism", ageism and racism, results in a circular firing squad and sub-cultural civil war of nastiness, actual and perceived degradation.
8.The result...? Feelings of anger, rejection, inferiority, shame, hurt, lack of body image......you get the picture. The sub-conscious "death wish" to which we alluded above.
9. The end result....?? A further compromised immune system
COMING UP IN PART 4: Gay Men's Behaviour: Mutual Immune System Destruction2
1. Out there in the West and in other Faglands (both the postal code and the state of mind), it's fashionable for gay men to describe themselves as a, "recreational druguser". Say it to yourself a few times....it has a soothing, polite, non-threatening tone. It's that type of phrase you could just throw into the conversation while you're adjusting your hair. And we believe, it's taken straight out of Faggotry's Handbook on Political Correctness to mask an endemic problem of rampant gay drug use and abuse.
2. We've said several times in this blog that the phrase, "recreational drug user" actually means, "part time addict". Say that phrase to yourself a few times. It sounds and feels as if you just hit a speed bump.
3. It would be naive to think that the smorgasbord of drugs ingested by gay men didn't affect brain chemistry. Brain chemistry affects physical and emotional behaviour. It's no coincidence that gay men with a history of "recreational" drug use, exhibit varying degrees of psychosis, schizophrenia, paranoia, delusions, anger, suppressed rage.....in other words, they internalize the very outrage that they externalize through political activism. 4.The results on the immune system are cumulative and devastating. A constant state of "Outrage Alert" mentioned in Part 1courtesy of Faggotry's political activism, that leaks adrenaline and cortisol into the a gay man's body; plus a twisted, drug-fucked, personal emotional state that further suppresses the immune system to chronic sub-par levels.
COMING UP IN PART 3: 3. Gay Men's Behaviour : Mutual Immune System Destruction 1
2. Drugs and "Outrage" 3. Gay Mens Behaviour: Mutual Immune System Destruction 1 4. Gay Mens Behaviour: Mutual Immune System Destruction 2
1. The Engine Of Faggotry (In Case You Forgot)
1. In the post, Armed And Queer 1, we set out The Engine of Faggotry. This is Faggotry's ideology:
Gays are a minority
Gays have always been oppressed
Gays are a subculture
Gays must be political activists
Gays must fight for their community
Gays must fight for legislation
Gays must fight for health care
Gays must fight to gain mainstream acceptance
Gays must fight personal and professional discrimination
Gays must fight hate and homophobia
Gays must fight slurs and stereotypes
Gays must fight for respect
Gays must fight for equality
Gays must fight for their rights
Gays must fight to be vigilant
Gays must fight to marry
Gays must fight for their lives
See the pattern ....? Faggotry cannot function without a posture of aggression. Everything has to be ramped up at shrieking decibel levels. They're not called Flaming Queens for nothing. We'll
leave it to others to debate whether ramping is effective or necessary,
but it's clear that this is a chronic feature of Faggotry. Every issue is presented as an existential threat.
The corollary is that any questioning or disagreement - whether by
str8s or thinking gay men - usually gets them branded "homophobic". Readers
will notice that the bullet points above, operate as a
self-perpetuating Feedback Loop. Reach the bottom of the list and start
from the top again, ad infinitum. This is the engine of Faggotry.
2. In our post, Faggotry An Authoritarian State..?, we referred to Charles Hugh Smith's article entitled, "Pimping The Empire, Progressive Style". He made the point that any ideology is an intellectual and emotional shortcut that offers believers ready-made explanations, narratives and enemies without difficult time-consuming analysis, study or skeptical inquiry. Everything was pre-packaged and mashed together for easy consumption.
3. We said Smith was right and that Faggotry's prepackaged ideology is no different to
gratuitously handing out amphetamines on the packed dance floor of a
circuit party. Just take it, smile, swallow and we'll all be in the
zone. Ideology is the drug. Faggotry is the dealer.
4. If we're right in identifying the ideology that constitutes the Engine of Faggotry, listed above, then the average left-leaning, politically correct fag is in a state of hyper-vigilant paranoia - all day, every day. He's looking for real, or imagined, or manufactured, insults to his sub-cultural status, his "dignity", his "community". In other words, he's on a trigger, ready to lash out via "activism", "lobbying", "boycotts", "smear", "vilification" and....."outrage". 5. Whether he realizes it or not, in this state of political and social hyper-vigilance, the fag's body is leaking adrenaline and cortisol.....the classic "fight or flight" response. This isn't a one-time spurt, rather it's a chronic state of "combat readiness". That takes a huge toll on the immune system. 6. It's no different to the chronic stress induced into the general population by "Terrorism Fatigue", paranoia, hyper-vigilance and increased security implemented for years after September 11, 2001. That was deliberate.
FuelMix giggled when he saw an obviously pissed off hetero male posting on Craigslist that fags had no business advertising on the M for W board in the hopes of trawling a Bi-fag.
FuelMix can see it from the hetero’s point of view.
And he can also see it from the fag’s point of view.
Fed up with the time-wasting shenanigans typical of fags seeking fags, no doubt some enterprising fag engaged in lateral thinking and reasoned, “what the fuck, there’s got to be a closet fag publicly hunting for pussy. Maybe I could pass myself off as bi, pretend to be looking for pussy, drop the right hints and snag a cock”.
pretend to cruise gay guys in the gym, hotel saunas, bars, the office or on the street; OR
deliberately show off their cocks and bodies to gay guys in places where they know gay guys will gather
---in order to get admiration, attention, sexual invitations from the gay guy. Gay Baiting operates as a Power Trip and Ego Stimulation for the str8 guy.
Underlining and Bold Print by FuelMix:
Gay people aren’t idiots. We know the difference between taking your
shirt off to dance and have a good time, and taking your shirt off
purposely to bait salivating gay dudes. Trust me, we have an intuition
from the gods. Nothing gets past us.
Gay baiting is like someone waving a piece of chocolate cake in your
face then throwing it in the trash. That’s torture for a chocolate lover
like me, but for the sadist holding the plate, it can be more
pleasurable than the cake itself.
People say gay baiting doesn’t exist. We try and give someone the
benefit of the doubt because no one wants to admit they were used.
What’s worse is we know we’re being used yet we fall for it
every time – like a moth to a flame. We willingly walk into the trap
because can’t stop ourselves. Before we know it we’re blaming gay people
for what straight people do, but trust me – the last thing we want to
do is blame each other.
Straight dudes know exactly what they're doing
What we see on television, movies, and advertisements is a reflection
of culture. They dig from a constructed truth, a psychologically
accurate view of how we think: where there is a hot body, our eyes shall
travel. But are the rules starting to reverse? Are straight guys seeing
what actors and models do and reflecting it towards reality?
A lot of straight men, at least in progressive cities, enjoy the fact
they’re being gawked at. But it’s one thing to get a gay guy’s “hot”
approval, and another thing to actually seek it out – to consciously
flirt, tease and show off in front of them, only to have it be a “look,
don’t touch” policy.
Last week, two extremely attractive guys at my gym were working out
together. They stole the focus of everyone upstairs because not only did
they look like porn stars, they were also Australian (which gives them
extra points). In other words, they were off the charts HOT.
One of them smiled and winked at me, and scanned me up and down
sexually. I’ve seen this type of “scan” before (we all have). There’s no
doubting it was a cruising invite of sorts, so naturally I responded
back not thinking anything of it. He got the hint.
For half an hour we’d look at each other in the mirror and smile, as
we did bicep curls, deadlifts, yoga posing, seemingly for the purpose of
showing off. A bit later, the two were in the wet sauna together –
naked, rubbing each other’s legs talking about their girlfriends. Every
once in a while, looking up and seeing gay guys admire them, then
laughing at each other as if they were doing it on purpose.
To make matters even weirder, one of them lay naked on the bench next
to the lockers – in a Hercules (and he was Hercules) style pose,
watching as guys passed by to sneak a peek.Eventually, the rest of us
in the locker room got the hint: whoever these dudes were loved the
attention, and while they were planting seeds of possibility in our
heads, everyone knew they were baiting us.
Why do straight guys gay bait?
At the end of the day it’s about power. If a man is a sex addict, or
bisexual, or seeking affection from other guys, he doesn’t bait – he
goes through with it. He won’t wave his abs or d*ck in your face and act
dumb later saying, “Oh sorry…”
We go wild over it and they know it because they see our reactions to
advertisements and TV/film scenarios, and they want the same attention.
It’s a jacked up way to feel important or validated because, let’s face
it, when you received the gay gaze, magical things happen.
But no matter who you are, leading someone on or blatantly teasing a
person for no particular reason with nothing to gain, is wrong. It
doesn’t make you look superior – it makes you look like an asshole,
which immediately debunks you from our list. To all the gay baiters out
there, we see you.
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