Gay Sauna Etiquette 14

If my playmate at the sauna gives me his phone number afterwards, am I obliged to reciprocate ?

No - but you'll come across as a total asshole.

Here's how FuelMix handles his sauna fans:

FM's golden rule is only to give out his phone number to people he knows something about AND who have built up a history of credibility.  When he struts into a gay sauna, he ain't gonna give out his fone number. Period.

FM is happy to give out an e-mail address specifically set up for his admirers from the sauna.  Think of it as a Holding Tank, or for the financially minded, a Suspense Account.  Some use it, some don't, some fall away after a while.  Hell, some who  built up credibility graduated to FM's personal e-mail and fone number.  That  ain't easy.

When presented with a sauna fag's number, FuelMix graciously accepts it and says, "I'll be happy to give you my e-mail since in practice, that's the easiest and fastest way of reaching me.  Feel free to use it.  We could meet for drinks or lunch if you're up to it.......In fact, I'd prefer your e-mail instead because I wouldn't want to call you when it was inconvenient".

Easy. Direct.  Non-rejective.  Leaves the door open for the fag.  The smart(er) fag usually gets it.

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