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Tuesday, October 31, 2017
Cruising For Cuddles (Cock Optional)
"I was inviting you into the toilet so I could suck your cock in the cubicle..." grinned the slim, good looking 20-something GAM in excellent English, as he sat next to FuelMix on a bench with a harbour view, "you have a hot body and a handsome face.....so I followed you here instead".
"I don't play in toilets", said FuelMix, "well, at least not any more - they're just too many people doing the same thing. But it's OK if I run into a cute guy in there and drag him somewhere else".
20sGAM: Do you have a boyfriend? A handsome foreign guy like you should not have any problems finding a boyfriend.
FM: No, I am happily single - but thank you for the compliment
20sGAM [giggles]: Really..? I don't believe you.
FM [smiles]: Do you have a boyfriend..?
20sGAM [sighs]: Not any more. We broke up 6 months ago when I saw his Facebook page and discovered he was also dating 2 other people. Maybe I am just simple and naive...I wanted to trust him and didn't cheat on him. But he was sleeping around and didn't care if I found out. I was so sad. He was a Hong Kong Chinese in his early 30s and I'm attracted to guys older than me. But he didn't care about my feelings...
FM: I'm sorry to hear that [takes 20sGAM's hand and kisses it]. Be brave. You will heal.
20sGAM [smiles]: Thank you. You are very sweet [holds FM's hand and snuggles up to him as the evening breeze picks up. Rest his head on FM's shoulder and strokes his chest] Gym boy muscles mmmmm nice...!!
FM: You wanna take off your glasses..? They're poking me
20sGAM: I can't...I'm totally blind without them. I wouldn't be able to see you
FM: OK. Just shut up and kiss me
The 20sGAM didn't need further encouragement. He snuggled up even closer, placed FuelMix's hands around his shoulder and torso, whilst kissing gently and passionately, smiling in between his kisses. Nuzzling FuelMix's neck and licking his ears, he played with FuelMix's nipples and abs, gently moaning in pleasure.
[After 2 or 3 minutes of delicious kissing, stroking and cuddling]........
20sGAM: It's been such a long time since a hot gym muscle guy held me and kissed me. My ex-boyfriend didn't like cuddling and kissing. He said it was for girls. He would just fuck me and leave. But this.....it feels soooooo good...!! You know......I just wanted to cruise you, suck you in the toilet and go home.....but this is much nicer than what I expected when I followed you here instead......it feels really erotic to sit outside in the evening, hold hands, cuddle and kiss a cute guy......are you sure you don't have a boyfriend.....?
FM: Trust me, I'm totally single - and a total jerk.....
20sGAM: A polite and hot jerk...!! Many guys, when you cruise them, they're not polite and friendly...They don't want to talk to you about simple things, or show that they appreciate the attention. But you talk, you tell jokes, you laugh....you don't even know me but you're not defensive.....it just makes you even more hot and attractive.....!!
FM [grins]: OK, just shut up and kiss me
20sGAM [big smile]: You just like the attention, don't you...?? I bet you like a lot more than just getting kissed and cuddled...!!
FM: Yeah. this for starters.....[gently pushes GAM's head down to the crotch of his shorts. GAM starts licking and kissing FM's shorts, while stroking FM's hairy legs]
Silhouetted against the evening lights, with nobody around, FuelMix undulated his hips as the GAM licked and kissed the crotch of his shorts, moaning gently.
20sGAM [looking up and smiling]: I could do this all night...!
FM [grins]: You'd have to buy me dinner...
20sGAM [grinning]: OK, shut up and let me eat first...!! [drops his head to FM's crotch and continues kissing and licking]
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Sunday, October 29, 2017
For Better, For Worse Or Whatever
Fag: Hey FuelMix, how come a hot, cute guy like you doesn't have a boyfriend and why aren't you in an official relationship..?
FuelMix: 'Coz I don't know what the new paradigm of marriage is gonna look like
Fag: Huh..?
FM: Think about this....what are the options...?
- Marriage;
- Civil Union;
- Domestic Partnership;
- Cohabitation;
FM: Then add:
- Heterosexual Normative Marriage i.e. Cis gender;
- Homosexual Normative Marriage i.e. Cis gender;
- Transsexual Heterosexual Marriage;
- Transexual Homosexual Marriage;
- Intersex with Hetero / Homo / Trans Hetero / Trans Homo;
FM: Now add Gender Fluidity, Queer and Questioning to the mix. What do you get..?
Fag: Dunno
FM: Now add Robotics and Artificial Intelligence...
Fag: Why...?
FM: The trend of Robotics and AI are unstoppable. Have you noticed how manufacturers are falling over themselves to make their Robots not just realistic but hyper-realistic...? They are bragging about empathy, moods, temperament, interaction, tactile sensation, facial features, body shape, height, weight.....and sexual willingness.
Fag: Manufacturing something that goes beyond Human...?
FM: Yeah.....in Japan and other countries, there's talk of Robot "Humanoid" Rights and protection against abuse. People are talking freely about bonding with their Robots and having an emotional and physical relationship with them. Have you noticed that in the Lamestream Media, nearly every day, there's some item about robotic advancement, AI technology, the dangers of AI, the ethical issues of AI...?
Fag: Yeah....I guess...
FM: So my question is, "exactly who or what are you having, or will you be having, a relationship with..?"
Fag: Ssshhhiittt.....
FM: And where does that leave Monogamy..?
- Are you being unfaithful if you're cruising Craigslist, Facebook or Grindr, posting ads, leaving messages or having an erotic chat...?
- Are you being unfaithful if you're keeping a hyper-realistic, highly interactive robot on the side, with programmable feelings or a default setting..?
- If 2 Humans and a hyper-realistic Humanoid are having sex, is that a 3-some..?
- Are you being unfaithful if you're interacting in Virtual Reality, Real Time porn..?
- In a merged world of Human, Humanoid, Virtual Reality, and Gender Fluidity, what does "monogamy" and "being emotionally faithful" now mean...?
- What are the negotiated parameters of a relationship in the context of Human, Humanoid, Virtual Reality and Gender Fluidity..?
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Principles of Faggotry 87
Fags are ambivalent about sexual harassment because cruising in the streets, bars, toilets, parks and saunas, always carry the risk of:
- unwanted attention; or
- aggressive attention; or
- groping; or
- forced sex;
In any other context, that would be a criminal offence.
For the fag, unwanted attention whether by persistent following, groping or forced sex, is validation that he's desirable or at the very least, an object to be used.
A fag needs validation. Without it he would not be able to put on an attitude, reject anyone, or offer himself as a useless cum dump in casual anonymous sex.
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Thursday, October 26, 2017
Made In Hong Kong
On 25 October 2017, "Sophia", a "female" robot manufactured here in Very Rich Megacity, was interviewed by Andrew Ross Sorkin at the Future Investment Initiative held in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.
Judge the quality of her responses for yourself. 4 minutes of video.
She became the first robot in the world to be granted citizenship.
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Hooray For Hollywood 2
In the post, Hooray For Hollywood, we said this:
2. As mentioned before in this blog, these are the days of the Apocalypse, the true meaning of which, is that which was hidden is now revealed.
3. Our view is that Weinstein's little "scandal" is only the preview of something much larger and much more grotesque that involves Hollywood, the financial and political elite:
4. We await to see how the Apocalypse rumbles on.
- child abduction;
- child torture;
- child rape;
- pedophilia;
- child human sacrifice;
It's started.....
1. Former child actor Corey Feldman has uploaded a video seeking US10 million in crowd funding via indiegogo to expose the Hollywood gay pedophile network and the sexual abuse he sustained (His friend Corey Haim, also a child actor who was also sexually abused by Hollywood, killed himself).
2. Since announcing his intention to expose the Hollywood Pedophile network, Feldman alleges an attempt to kill him has already been made when 2 trucks, driving together, tried to run him over.
3. If you wish to contribute to the Truth campaign to expose the Hollywood Pedophile network (both gay and straight), make history and strive for the betterment of Humanity, here's the link:
https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/corey-feldman-s-truth-campaign#
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Wednesday, October 25, 2017
Big Top Gym And Sauna 23
3rd Floor, Yuet Yuen Building
17 - 19 Mong Kok Road
Mong Kok
Kowloon
Hong Kong
MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2
Tel: 2628 6196
Website: Big Top Gym & Sauna
Note: Open 2pm to 8am the next day;
On weekends and public holidays open 2pm till 10am the next day.
Staff speak good English
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What the pissed off GAM-Throat-On-The-Street told FuelMix about his latest experience in Big Top:
GAMTOTS: Waaaay...!! FuelMix ah...!! Do you go to Big Top..?
FM: Not anymore. I wrote it off. Said "Forget it".
GAMTOTS: Yes I agree. I went on Saturday evening [21 October 2017]. Lots of people there, young guys, fat guys, older guys, slim guys, gym types. But not a sexy feeling. Too many people standing around in the Dark Room. And it it very small. Now, they have made it even more dark. The only light is from the little porn screen on the wall.
FM: The light from that little porn screen hurts the eyes.
GAMTOTS: Also, it is not easy to find a room to play during peak times. So you always have to stand around.
FM: Yeah, I got fed up because of that. My feet started hurting - and having sex standing up is only fun in the MTR during rush hour.....!!
GAMTOTS: Lots of 20-something Mainland Chinese guys showing up there. Some have good bodies, but.....they just keep smoking and smoking. They don't stop smoking. Some have a lot of attitude. They think that because they are Mainland Chinese, they are "special".
FM: Yeah, I noticed that [see Big Top Sauna And Gym 22]. That's one of the reasons I stopped going. They will look like shit in a few years. It surprises me how many Hong Kong twinks smoke.
GAMTOTS: I used to go to Big Top regularly, but for a while I felt it is no longer a sexy place. Dark Room Space is too small. And that little "gym" of theirs is a waste of space. They should extend the Dark Room into that space. The more I look at their premises, the more I think it is not properly designed.
FM: You've mentioned all the reasons I stopped going. But they obviously get customers, so I guess they don't care. But for my money, I want more space.
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Hail Satan 7
FuelMix does not have any religious or political affiliations
In Hail Satan 6, we said this:
"If the popular depiction of Satan is with male genitals and female breasts, it means Satan itself is a Transsexual.
12. The "Free" and "Uncensored" Media Frenzy - From 2015 onwards, there have been 2 main themes in Western Lamestream Media that entranced the masses:
Co-incidence..? You decide".
- Alleged demonic possession, exorcisms, the growth of satanic worship; AND
- Transsexual celebrities and Transgender issues (initially near-saturation coverage, now ongoing and being re-framed in the context of tolerance, equality, gender-identity pronouns);
Then, we saw this:
A demon drag queen has entertained children at the Michelle Obama public library.
The library in Long Beach, California, invited a drag queen replete in glorious red-tipped horns to read stories to the delighted kids.
The guest of honour was wonderful queen Xochi Mochi, whose bold outfit choice wowed attendees.
A colourful poster was made for the event, which was advertised as “Drag Queen Story Hour”.
Drag Queen Story Hour aims to give young children “glamorous, positive, and unabashedly queer role models,” according to the programme’s website.
As you can probably imagine, some people weren’t happy with the event.
And they took to Twitter to express their opinions on the unconventional reading.
However, many people were thrilled to see inclusivity being promoted amongst young people.
The Drag Queen Story Hour site explains that the event “captures the imagination and play of the gender fluidity of childhood”.
“In spaces like this, kids are able to see people who defy rigid gender restrictions and imagine a world where people can present as they wish, where dress up is real.
The programme “happens regularly in LA, New York, and San Francisco, and events are popping up all over the world!”
Xochi Mochi also posted about the event, saying: “It was one of the best experiences I’ve been given as a drag queen.
“It’s so important to have representation and normalise all the letters in LGBTQIA+ in everyday lives.
“I saw so many excited faces it filled my heart with so much joy and hope to come back again soon!”
The event was part of a collaboration between the Long Beach Public Library, the LGBTQ Center of Long Beach, the Genders and Sexualities Alliance Network and the LGBTQ nonprofit Imperial Court of Long Beach.
-----"An amazing demon drag queen has entertained children in Michelle Obama's library", by Steph Kyrlacou, Pink News, 17 October 2017
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Sunday, October 22, 2017
Frustrated, Fat, Gay Filipino
FuelMix in conversation with a Filipino here in Very Rich Megacity:
As you can see, I'm nothing to look at. After years of anguish in my childhood and in my teenage years, I'm comfortable admitting it. Being gay and below-average looking, is a double curse. And being Filipino, adds a third layer.
So.....here I am.....short, fat, really dark, a bit hairy, too ugly to be gay. Other Filipinos comment how dark I am and that really hurts. I mix with them socially, but not one of them asks if I'm married or dating anyone. I suspect they've concluded I'm not good looking enough to get anyone anyway. I guess I'm too ugly to be straight as well.
Finding a social group when your own people don't relate to you is tough. I went to church a few times because many Filipinos are Roman Catholic. The people were very nice and welcoming. Some innocently asked if I was half-black.....I was stunned. I replied that I was totally Filipino and they seemed embarrassed. Maybe because I'm dark and have a wide flattish African-looking nose.....I don't blame them.....but it still hurts.
I stopped going to church because I couldn't find the gay guys and their social gatherings bored me. Sometimes it gets intensely lonely and you can't go into confession and tell the priest that you're an unhappy gay man. What's he gonna say...? How many Hail Mary's is he going to prescribe for emotional pain..??
There are days I feel depressed about my physical appearance as a gay man. Looks are everything in gay culture and gay men can be vicious about whether you measure up in their eyes.
In the Philippines, if you go into a gay bar and you're dark like me, the lighter skinned Filipino guys won't come near you. These are the ones who claim to have Spanish blood in them and think they are a cut above. On their Grindr profiles, they'll say they are "Asian-Latin" or "Asian-Spanish" Several times, I've experienced them physically turning their backs on me as I approached......and I was only walking past them...!!
I think the reason they try so hard to present themselves as "Asian-Latin" or "Asian-Spanish" is because outside the Philippines, the Filipinos are regarded as inferior - even though we may be university graduates from our own country. We work overseas as domestic helpers, waiters, cooks, musicians, singers, dancers, shop assistants, staff on cruise ships, hotel workers. In so many ways, we keep business and the economy going. We work long hours, put up with abuse and don't get paid much.
In Hong Kong the Chinese perception of Filipino inferiority is very strong. It is racism and as an ethnic minority here, it's not surprising. What hurts is the racism amongst gay men in this city, particularly in the hookup apps like Grindr. I've had comments like, "Sorry too dark" or "too black for me" or they just go quiet if I say "Filipino" when they ask my ethnicity. Others sent me messages saying, "I've seen lighter skin Filipinos, so you must be half-black right..?" That really hurts because they think I'm hiding something when I'm not.
On the positive side of Grindr, I have met other chubby guys socially. They're sort of casual buddies.
Sexually, I'm a Bottom. If I show up at Central Escalator, I can get action in the steam room from white guys. I just kneel on the ground and wait for anybody to fuck my mouth. I found that since I'm not the hottest guy around, cruising doesn't work for me. Instead, it's better if I stay somewhere darker like the steam room or the Dark Room, get on my knees and wait to be face fucked. If the guy is really horny, I'll offer my ass and a condom and let him fuck me publicly.
For guys who are not that good looking, being a Bottom is better. Your mouth and ass can always be used as the fuckholes of last resort.
The Sexually Diseased American 2
5. Is It Really Worth Touching Them...?
1. According to the 2016 report from the US Centers For Disease Control, there are 20 million new STDs every year in the US.
2. Half of these are amongst young people aged 15 - 24:
- 15 is below the legal minimum age of sexual consent in the United States, so what the hell is going on here..? The age of sexual consent in the US varies from state to state, but falls between 16 - 18. Check out the Age of Consent site for minimum age of sexual consent state-by-state in the US and worldwide.
- in gay culture, 16 - 24 is the much sought after, much fantasized, high school and college jock, gym muscleboy, or twink, actively recruited for porn - and highly active on gay hookup apps;
3. As the CDC Report point out:
"These infections can lead to long term health consequences...; they can facilitate HIV transmission, and they have stigmatized entire subgroups of Americans."
Yet not that long ago, gonorrhea rates were at historic lows, syphilis was close to elimination, and we were able to point to advances in STD prevention, such as better chlamydia diagnostic tests and more screening, contributing to increases in detection and treatment of chlamydial infections. That progress has since unraveled. The number of reported syphilis cases is climbing after being largely on the decline since 1941, and gonorrhea rates are now increasing. This is especially concerning given that we are slowly running out of treatment options to cure Neisseria gonorrhoeae.....
4. The CDC Report states that the incidence of STDs in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men (collectively referred to as MSM), including Primary and Secondary Syphilis; as well as antimicrobial-resistant Gonorrhea, is greater than reported in heteros and lesbians. Most of it is occurring in younger guys and ethnic minorities.
5. Across the US, at any given time, there are 110 million new and existing STD infections. That is astonishing.
6. We would observe that by way of comparison, as as 23 January 2017, the US had an estimated total population of 324,420,000. That means that over 30% of the population is infected at any given time.
7. Note that this CDC Report is dealing with verifiable cases of STDs. The above figure of 110 million new and existing STD infections in the US, is NOT covering those men who are at potential risk due to:
- risky sexual behaviour;
- smoking;
- prescription drug use;
- gay drug use (weed, crystal meth, crack cocaine, Viagra, etc);
- drinking;
- compromised immune systems;
- HIV/AIDS;
8. Reminds us of a conversation we had a few years ago with a GWM health worker at an STD clinic in San Francisco. We commented that wandering around the city, we couldn't help notice that the gay guys, buffed as they were from the gym, looked sorta diseased, unhealthy and creepy. We found it paradoxical that being in the gay mecca with such easily available guys and apparent eye-candy, our desire for action was non-existent.
9. He sighed and bowed his head. Then he said quietly, "It's a huge problem...these gay guys are spreading disease and exporting it worldwide on a scale nobody in polite company is talking about. They don't care who they infect.....they just don't give a damn. They lie to each other about their health status 'coz lying is part of gay culture....I'm an American.....I'll tell you this much.....if you see a gay American, doesn't matter how hot he is...... just run.....don't even look back.....just run."
10. It was not what we were expecting to hear.
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The Sexually Diseased American 1
Is It Really Worth Touching Them..?
3. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Chlamydia are pretty high.
Wait... there's more...
3. Gonorrhea
1. Washington DC led the way in Gonorrhea, 230% above the national average:
2. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Gonorrhea are pretty high.
But wait...there's more...
4. Syphilis
1. Washington DC also led the way in Syphilis, 175% over the national average:
2. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Primary and Secondary Syphilis are pretty high.
(a) Primary Syphilis* - sores at the original site of infection e.g. head and shaft of penis, around genitals, around anus, in the rectum, in and around the mouth;
(b) Secondary Syphilis* - skin rash, swollen lymph nodes, fever;
In both (a) and (b), during the latent stage, there may be no symptoms. Or the symptoms could be mild and not even noticed.
(c) Tertiary Syphilis* - severe medical problems;
* Syphilis - CDC Fact Sheet
Primary and Secondary Syphilis - Reported Cases By Sex, Sexual Behaviour and Race/Ethnicity, United States 2016:
Note the huge increase in Syphilis in the MSM category i.e. Men Who Have Sex With Men (with whites leading the way).
Source of Maps and Data for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Syphilis: "Feeling The Bern": Washington DC Dominates New STD Per Capita Ranking From The CDC, Zero Hedge, 27 September 2017
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5. Is It Really Worth Touching Them..?
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1. Parallels To The Roman Empire
2. Chlamydia
3. Gonorrhea
4. Syphilis
5. Is It Really Worth Touching Them..?
4. Syphilis
5. Is It Really Worth Touching Them..?
1. Parallels To The Roman Empire
1. We can tell our readers that we are not the only ones to have noticed the parallels between the United States today; and the decline and collapse of the Roman Empire:
- hugely inflated sense of hubris and "exceptionalism";
- bloated, corrupt, political and financial elite;
- corrupt, discredited mainstream media peddling state-sanctioned propaganda;
- politicized, probably corrupt, highly compromised judicial system internationally regarded as laughable;
- cascading laws and regulations for the majority, effective immunity for the elite;
- marked decrease in personal liberty;
- surveillance state mentality;
- allegedly buzzing economy which is actually on life support - and has been since 2008;
- disastrous, never-ending, hugely expensive military intervention in other countries;
- anger, shunning and disrespect from other countries, large and small, due to aggressive military, geopolitical, economic entitlement and meddling;
- currency rapidly debased through rampant currency creation, exporting inflation around the world;
- unsustainable debt;
- societal polarization, growing anger, violence;
- distracted, highly ignorant population;
- rampant debauchery;
- soaring disease rates;
2. It's been said that one should not eat the head of a prawn, because the shit goes all the way to the top.
2. Chlamydia
2. Chlamydia
1. In the case of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) in the United States, that appears to be true: The shit really does go all the way to the top.
2. In 2016, according to the US Centers For Disease Control, the nation's capital, Washington DC was the leader in Chlamydia, (which incidentally, is the most notifiable condition in the US) by 118% above the national average:
2. In 2016, according to the US Centers For Disease Control, the nation's capital, Washington DC was the leader in Chlamydia, (which incidentally, is the most notifiable condition in the US) by 118% above the national average:
3. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Chlamydia are pretty high.
Wait... there's more...
3. Gonorrhea
1. Washington DC led the way in Gonorrhea, 230% above the national average:
2. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Gonorrhea are pretty high.
But wait...there's more...
4. Syphilis
1. Washington DC also led the way in Syphilis, 175% over the national average:
2. Now look at the "usual suspects" i.e. those states with high concentrations of gay men and "the lifestyle". The infection rates for Primary and Secondary Syphilis are pretty high.
(a) Primary Syphilis* - sores at the original site of infection e.g. head and shaft of penis, around genitals, around anus, in the rectum, in and around the mouth;
(b) Secondary Syphilis* - skin rash, swollen lymph nodes, fever;
In both (a) and (b), during the latent stage, there may be no symptoms. Or the symptoms could be mild and not even noticed.
(c) Tertiary Syphilis* - severe medical problems;
* Syphilis - CDC Fact Sheet
Primary and Secondary Syphilis - Reported Cases By Sex, Sexual Behaviour and Race/Ethnicity, United States 2016:
Source of Maps and Data for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Syphilis: "Feeling The Bern": Washington DC Dominates New STD Per Capita Ranking From The CDC, Zero Hedge, 27 September 2017
COMING UP IN PART 2:
5. Is It Really Worth Touching Them..?
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Saturday, October 21, 2017
Gay Men And Tattoos
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In my private practice as a psychotherapist who specializes in
working with gay men, it was a surprise to me when several years into my
practice I noticed a pattern that gay men like to talk about how the
tattoos they have hold special, even profound meaning for them.......
Their tattoos become topics of conversation, especially in
summer months when guys are wearing short-sleeves, tank-tops, or shorts.
They start talking about when they got them, and the emotional
attachment they have to what feelings, experiences, and values their
tattoos mean to them, and it becomes relevant to their therapy for
whatever we are working on, such as self-esteem, relationships,
philosophical/existential “outlook” on life, and dreams/goals........
It was that way for me. After my “turning 40” crisis, which I admit I
had like so many other guys, I lost some inhibitions about a lot of
things, especially my opinions. I got into counseling and therapy during
the height of the AIDS crisis, because I wanted to speak up and help
out. Getting older helped me to do more of that, because the people I
care about deserve our attention and intervention. So I wanted a tattoo
because I thought they looked hot but also for their meaning........
With clients, there have been similar stories about how their
personal values have then been represented graphically in their tattoo
design. One client described very eloquently how the black tribal symbol
design made him feel at one with the HIV community after his diagnosis,
and it was part of his coping with that, that felt positive and
encouraging. Another client had various initials of people who were key
in his life. Another had a couple of symbols that reminded him of his
own strength, resilience, and triumph over an abusive past. Others have
adopted the “toxic” symbol as way of defying their HIV diagnosis, and
signaling to others that they will not be silenced in a stigma about HIV
status. Others yet have symbols that support them in drug/alcohol
recovery, that remind them to use their program and cognitive tools to
cope with triggers or relapse risk just by seeing the visual cue of
their tatt on their body.
When we talk about gay men in therapy, it has to be in a certain
culturally-affirmative context. Gay men actually tap into a lot of
“masculine perspective” energy, whether it’s how we approach work, our
homes, money, health (especially fitness and muscularity), and of course
sexuality. While we have a lot in common with straight men and that
whole “men are from Mars, women are from Venus” thing, gay men put their
own spin on traditionally masculine things like muscularity and tattoos
(and cars, too). While tatts are not everyone’s cup of tea, others have
said that a cool tattoo can make any guy sexier and bolder, in that he
is asserting his personality visually with “the art of the body”. It’s
also sexy in that tattoos are only removable with great difficulty, so
it’s a commitment, and having the strength of your convictions to make a
permanent commitment to a visually-expressed idea that has profound
meaning for a person can be sexy in itself; it’s the strength of that
commitment and standing up for what you believe in, which gay men need
after a lifetime of growing up with anti-gay sentiment all around us in
political rhetoric, laws, bullying, and other oppression.
Just the act of getting a tattoo can be an empowering act of
defiance, a triumph over uncertainty or a diminished sense of self. Just
like our clothes, our hair, our facial hair, and other personal style
expressions, the tattoo is more profound because we “wear it” all the
time, even at our most naked, our most vulnerable, as a symbol(s) of the
values in ourselves that we find enduring. When gay men find ways like
this that are fun and sexy and also help underscore our sense of
self-empowerment, we are not just living, we are thriving. Gotta love
that!
Have you talked about your tattoos in therapy? Or have you openly
“processed” your thoughts about getting one? Like I said, sometimes the
right choice is not to do it, but I’ve been so moved by the stories I
hear from guys I work with about their meaning and the self-validation
they get from theirs, that I’m impressed, inspired, and admiring of
their self-reflection. This can only help them move toward whatever their goals are in therapy.
-----"Gay Men and Tattoos: Ritual and Meaning", by Ken Howard, 28 December 2015, GayTherapyLA
FuelMix says:
1. OK we'll "process" our thoughts right now. We hate tattoos.
Up Front
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Hi
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You will need to humiliate me, tie me up, beat me (no limits), fuck me (ass and face). Fisting, golden showers, brown showers welcome. Couples/groups welcome.
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Thursday, October 19, 2017
Hooray For Hollywood 1
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Harvey Weinstein’s sexual harassment scandal isn’t only an indictment of his twisted soul, but of America’s as well.
The story of Weinstein, the uber-powerful film producer, co-founder
of Miramax Films and major donor to Democratic politicians, who got
fired from his job as co-Chairman of The Weinstein Company after the New York Times ran an article
exposing his serial sexual harassment of female employees, is such a
perfect storm of corruption, depravity and hypocrisy that it exquisitely
encapsulates the moral decay of America.
The New York Times piece revealed that Weinstein has settled
at least eight different sexual harassment lawsuits over the years. The
article was just the tip of a really grotesque iceberg, for in its wake
a plethora of other claims has surfaced.
In a New Yorker article,
written, ironically enough, by Ronan Farrow, son of alleged pedophile
Woody Allen, even more claims emerged of Weinstein’s predatory behavior.
One of the many lowlights from that article includes Italian
actress/filmmaker Asia Argento and two other women claiming that
Weinstein raped them.
The most famous women
among the sea of those claiming harassment at the hands of the movie
mogul are Gwyneth Paltrow, Angelina Jolie, Ashley Judd, Rose McGowan and
Rosanna Arquette.
The odiousness of this Weinstein scandal is overwhelming, and nearly
every public person is going through the Kabuki theater of denouncing
Harvey and his lecherousness, but this strikes me as disingenuous at
best. All the movie stars, media members, and politicians strongly
reprimanding Weinstein now, displayed nothing but egregious cowardice
during Harvey Weinstein’s grotesque reign of wanton terror.
Many Hollywood heavyweights like Meryl Streep, George Clooney, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lawrence,
are feigning ignorance of Weinstein’s disgusting depravity, but the
revelation of Weinstein’s repulsive misdeeds cannot possibly come as a
surprise. Harvey, the rotund and repugnant Hollywood kingmaker, is
notorious in the film industry for his petulant and imperious approach,
which includes physically abusing underlings and being a lascivious
beast to women. Tales of Weinstein’s bad behavior are so legion that
even a complete nobody like me has heard them ad infinitum.
So how did Harvey get away with being such a gigantic creep for so
long? The main reason is that he possessed the rarest talent that all of
Hollywood covets, the ability to garner Oscar votes for his films.
Weinstein produced films have been nominated for Best Picture 26 times
in the last 28 years and have been nominated overall for over 300
Academy Awards. In other words, Harvey could make people rich and famous
beyond their wildest dreams, which is why so many in Hollywood checked
their humanity and ethics at the door and looked the other way when he
was being such a troglodyte. To quote Upton Sinclair, “It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends on his not understanding it.”
Blind ambition isn’t the only reason Hollywood looked the other way
regarding Weinstein, political expediency played a part as well.
Weinstein has been a long time supporter of Democratic candidates, Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton in particular, and has donated a lot of money to their campaigns.
A perfect example of someone making a devil’s bargain with Weinstein
for political reasons is Lena Dunham. Dunham, a vociferous and vocal
Clinton supporter and devout feminist, admitted she knew of Weinstein’s
predatory reputation in regards to women, but still shook his hand and
performed at a fundraiser he held for Clinton’s campaign. Dunham said she betrayed her feminist values because “she so desperately wanted to support Clinton.”
Hollywood liberals were quick to denounce Evangelical Christians for
supporting Trump despite his moral turpitude and misogyny, calling them
hypocrites. I agree that Evangelicals are hypocrites for supporting
Trump, but so are Hollywood liberals for enabling Weinstein. Both sides
need to get off their high horse and read Matthew 7:5, “You
hypocrite! First, remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can
see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Speaking of enabling, the Weinstein scandal brought to my mind a line from a U2 song, “if you need someone to blame, throw a rock in the air, you’ll hit someone guilty.” When I throw my rock, it often lands on the media, and so it is with this case.
Ronan Farrow published his Weinstein story in the New Yorker magazine, but only because his employer NBC news refused
to go with the story. NBC is in business with Weinstein on various film
and television projects, and no doubt did not want to ruffle the
feathers of such a powerful and litigious man like Harvey Weinstein, so
they passed on it, which means this story says just as much about them
as it does about Weinstein.
Even the New York Times, which broke the Weinstein story,
came out smelling less like a rose and more like a manure pile after it
became known the newspaper spiked a similar story regarding Weinstein in 2004 after being pressured by the producer and his lawyers to do so.
The New York Times dropping the ball on an important story
in the early 2000’s should come as no surprise to anyone who followed
the lead up to the Iraq War or Bush Surveillance but what was shocking was who helped to scuttle the 2004 Weinstein article. Matt Damon, yes, Matt Damon, Mr. Good Will Hunting, and thought-to-be good guy called the Times
reporter to defend and vouch for Weinstein to stop the story. So did
everyone’s favorite Gladiator Russell Crowe. I wonder how Damon and
Crowe sleep at night knowing they were complicit in thirteen more years
of Weinstein’s abusing women?
It is uncomfortable to acknowledge, but another group of people who
could have stopped Harvey Weinstein but did not were the more famous of
his victims, like Gwyneth Paltrow, Angelina Jolie, Mira Sorvino and
Ashley Judd. These women did not ask to be placed in this terrible
position, but they could have stopped him cold if they came forward
years ago. The reason I cite them and not the other victims is because
they were uniquely positioned to be able to defend themselves and to
take on Harvey Weinstein, where the other victims were not. What I mean
by that is that Paltrow, Jolie, Sorvino, and Judd all come from
entertainment families that are well-known and liked in the industry.
They were not powerless because they have strong allies and deep
connections in the business. These women, sans Judd, also won Oscars,
giving them, even more, credibility and visibility to make their claims.
I do not “blame” these women for being harassed or assaulted
by Weinstein, I only wish they overcame their ambition and saved others
from that awful fate.
The cavalcade of condemnation for Weinstein will continue unabated
for the days and weeks to come, and deservedly so, but to see him only
as a target of derision diminishes his impact as a cautionary tale.
Weinstein is simply a symptom of the wider disease which I call “reality show America,”
which sees human beings as disposable and transactional objects whose
value is measured in terms of their usefulness for entertainment or
pleasure.
The true power of the Weinstein story is not about his personal failings, but that it is symbolic of the fact that “reality-show America”,
which thrives across the political and cultural spectrum, is a
collection of self-serving, amoral, hypocrites who are quick to attack
the failings of their enemy but slow to embrace self-reflection.
Will the denizens of “reality-show America” in Hollywood,
Washington and the news media ask themselves how they have contributed
to the culture that bred a man like Harvey Weinstein? I sincerely doubt
it since deflection, emotional myopia and historical amnesia are as
American as apple pie.
This scandal is an opportunity, not only to see Weinstein for who he
really is but also to see America for what we have become…an ethically
bankrupt and indecent collection of moral cowards allergic to
self-reflection and truth.
This “reality-show America”, currently starring the Trumps
and Kardashians (with special guest appearance by the Clintons!) and
produced by Harvey Weinstein, reveals that America has devolved to the
point of shameless obscenity, and regardless of how self-righteous we as
liberals, conservatives, Democrats or Republicans may feel, we no
longer possess any moral authority because, just like Harvey Weinstein,
Hollywood, Washington and Wall Street, we are incapable of being honest
with ourselves.
It is difficult to admit, but if we mustered the courage to see
ourselves as we truly are, we would recognize that Harvey Weinstein is
America, and America is Harvey Weinstein. Both are bloated, entitled,
corrupt, bombastic, blindly ambitious bullies, full of fear and
loathing, that use their outsized power to exploit the defenseless to
indulge their darker impulses and insatiable desires. The sooner we
recognize that, the faster we can try to change it.
-----"Weinstein Scandal: What it tells us about celebs, politics and Hollywood" by Michael McCaffrey, October 13, 2017, Covert Geopolitics
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1. One of the better articles we've read on this story.
2. As mentioned before in this blog, these are the days of the Apocalypse, the true meaning of which, is that which was hidden is now revealed.
3. Our view is that Weinstein's little "scandal" is only the preview of something much larger and much more grotesque that involves Hollywood, the financial and political elite:
- child abduction;
- child torture;
- child rape;
- pedophilia;
- child human sacrifice;
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Monday, October 16, 2017
Sunday, October 15, 2017
Hail Satan 6
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9. Why Isn't Faggot Media Talking About Gay Satanic Porn..?
(A) Faggotry's Problem: Standard Gay Behaviour
(B) Faggot Media Must Shut Up About Gay Satanic Porn: They Have No Choice
2. Over the last 25 years, there has been a carefully orchestrated (some would say manipulated) campaign to integrate gay men as "normal" i.e hot, well groomed, athletic and who just happen to like cock. In other words, the gayness was just sexy and incidental (except when Faggotry and its enablers demanded that gay men feel "outraged" or "violated" and then fired up the Engine Of Faggotry which we've previously written about).
3. So, there was all the usual stuff...gay men going to church, gay men going on gay holiday tours, gay men shopping together, gay men wanting to marry, gay men wanting to have kids, gay men wanting to serve in the military, gay men as porn stars and models, gay men on TV, gay men giving image advice to straight guys.
(A) Faggotry's Problem: Standard Gay Behaviour
4. With the explosion of the Web over the last 20 years, gay porn in all its forms became ubiquitous and accessible. From vanilla to extreme raunch, it's all there. Mostly free. A lot of it pirated. A lot of it amateur produced. A lot of it on sharing sites like Tumblr, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest. It's hard to avoid.
5. That level of accessibility and saturation has an effect on the mindset of the gay Web user:
- there's just SOOOO MMUUUCCHHH porn to explore; AND
- niche porn becomes easier to find and easier to relate to either as a fetish or a preference. For example gay bukkake, gay double penetration, gay bareback, cum swallowing, rimming, pissing, gay scat; AND
- a brazen exhibitionism kicks in, parroting the explicit porn already online; AND
- a desire to seek out like-minded guys via online ads or hookup apps;
6. Then ADD the fundamental gay propensity towards:
- hedonism; AND
- porn addiction; AND
- drugs; AND
- self-indulgence; AND
- sexual curiosity; AND
- promiscuity; AND
- distraction;
AND one begins to see how gay men drift into gay satanic porn. Make no mistake about it, there is tons of gay satanic porn out there. Do a Google search for gay satanic porn on Tumblr and see what pops up. It's popularity is huge and appears to be growing - particularly in the West.
(B) Faggot Media Must Shut Up About Gay Satanic Porn: They Have No Choice
7. How Many..?? No one will ever know the true numbers of gay men into satanic porn or living a satanic-worship lifestyle. Faggotry and its enablers are trapped. Over the last 25 years, they've spent billions in media advertising and image-enhancement, crafting a pseudo-wholesome "normal" image of gay men.
8. Faggotry's Dilemma - If Faggot Media were to criticize or condemn gay satanic porn, that would be tantamount to admitting that a chunk of gay men were "perverts", "twisted" and "sick" - the very words that have been used to describe homosexuals for decades.
9. Gay Satanic Porn vs Devil Worship - An interest in gay satanic porn and its apparent devil worship, phallic worship, sexual rituals and outright surrender to Satan, is NOT the same thing as being a member of the Church of Satan that was founded in 1966. That organization's website in its FAQs explicitly states that their members are atheists and that Satan to them is a symbol of pride, liberty and individualism. If you're wondering how gay satanic porn fans get confused as to who they might be, that's because pride, liberty and individualism are exactly the 3 attributes that Faggotry crows about.
10. Say Hi To Baphomet - Imagery in gay satanic porn includes the figure of Baphomet (or highly stylized fantasy-art versions thereof). According to Wikipedia, it is a name used to describe an idol or deity that the Knights Templar were accused of worshiping in the 14th century and which was subsequently incorporated into various occult and mystical traditions. Since the 19th century, an image by Eliphas Levy (and subsequently modified in 1897 by Stanislas de Guaita to include the downward facing pentagram that Levy wrote about) has come to be seen as a synonym of Satan or the Devil.
11. Taa - Daa..!! Baphomet is depicted as a human figure with a goat's head and hooves. It has large male genitalia and female breasts. Have a look at this one:
If the popular depiction of Satan is with male genitals and female breasts, it means Satan itself is a Transsexual.
- Alleged demonic possession, exorcisms, the growth of satanic worship; AND
- Transsexual celebrities and Transgender issues (initially near-saturation coverage, now ongoing and being re-framed in the context of tolerance, equality, gender-identity pronouns);
(We'll let Ray Jessel have the last word).....
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Friday, October 13, 2017
Thursday, October 12, 2017
Removal Of Followers
1. We have deleted all Followers of the blog.
2. Readers will recall that there was an image gallery of Followers. Several used their real names and face pics. We appreciate their courage in visibly following this blog for several years.
3. It came to our attention that other Followers who, for privacy reasons, did not upload their real face pics (regardless of the name they used), may have been revealed (or may be at risk of being revealed) - without their consent - as Followers of this blog via other social media sites to which they signed up and on which they uploaded their real face pics.
4. Since these other social media sites:
- have murky Privacy Policies;
- use algorithms whose trawling methodology is not disclosed;
- offer unconvincing or evasive answers when questioned about non-consensual cross-referencing of a person's online identities which matches face pics, real names, pseudonyms and locations;
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