Losing It To Porn

1.  Here We Go Again 
2.  Porn And Your Brain
3.  Will A Gay Man Admit What Porn Has Done To Him..?

......the problem is indeed in your head, not your penis, but that it is primarily physical. Specifically, overstimulation has produced plastic changes in your brain, which make you less responsive to pleasure — and yet hyper-responsive to Internet porn. 

----- Gary Wilson & Marnia Robinson, The Good Men Project, 23 January 2012, Why Does Porn Seem Hotter Than My Partner?

1.  Here We Go Again

1.  Having performance issues...?  There's your answer.  

2.  To say that porn is pervasive in gay culture is trite.  It is THE fundamental pillar of faggotry.  Tied up with body image, self-esteem (or lack thereof) cockiness,  thrill, hedonism, promiscuity and advertising, a fag's ability to function would be severely diminished.  Like caffeine, amphetamine or an intravenous drip, a fag needs a frequent and replenishable intake of gay porn. 

2.  Porn And Your Brain

1.  The constant jacking off in front of the computer searching for new gay porn -  (face it fag.....how many times do you actually watch the same porn streaming video..? Twice..? Three times..? Most of the time you're going from new video to new video.  Porn companies ain't stupid....many of them say upfront how much new porn has been uploaded that day) - increases the flow of dopamine into the brain's "reward circuitry".  

2.  That part of the brain is wired to gratification.  When it's overstimulated, the brain compensates by decreasing its sensitivity to dopamine and therefore to pleasure.  In other words, the chronic exposure to internet porn kicks in the Law of Diminishing Returns - literally.  There are several results:  

• For frequent porn users, the brain's decrease in pleasure sensitivity, drives the urge to seek out newer and newer porn, different genres of porn and frequently, more extreme porn. 
• While the person wants more porn, they are simultaneously experiencing decreasing satisfaction watching that porn. This is known as the Numbed Response and is the start of addiction.  
• This Numbed Response spills over into real world, real time sex with another person and impairs performance.
• Not only is dopamine-sensitivity falling in the "reward circuitry" of the brain, but the dopamine is not flowing beyond that into the hypothalamus.
• Harder erections occur when dopamine is flowing from the "reward circuity" into the hypothalamus. 

3.  Effectively, the brain has constructed a feedback loop of sensitivity and desensitivity which are in conflict:  

• Sensitivity is the urge to hunt down and JO to porn - the gratification.  
• Desensitivity is the restless dissatisfaction and Numbed Response that drives the user back to Sensitivity - while weakening the ability to sexually perform with another person.

4.  The article quoted above is well worth reading, particularly the technical explanation of Sensitivity and the interplay of chemicals additional to dopamine. These create Super Memories that drive the user back to porn and contribute to Long Term Depression.  

3.  Will A Gay Man Admit What Porn Has Done To Him..?

1.  It explains late night internet simultaneous addiction to chat rooms and gay porn, flicking between the 2 screens and a box of kleenex.  C'mon fag, 'fess up.....we've all done it. 

2.  It explains the high failure rates in gay chat rooms,  trawling Craigslist, Gaydar, Manhunt and the hookup apps like Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff etc. Since the brain's "reward circuitry" is desensitized from massive porn use, the brain is not that motivated to actually meet up and play with another guy - regardless of the bait the fag hangs in his online profile (and regardless of how hot the other fag appears to be)  And that is independent of any other excuse the fag might give for backing out: 

• "Gotta work tomorrow;
• "it's getting late";
• "sorry I can't host";
• "it's raining";
• "I'll e-mail you when I'm free";

3.  Fags are also prone to multiple drug addictions which undoubtedly influence brain chemistry and sexual performance.  Ever noticed in a gay sauna how a fag needs to snort poppers every 30 seconds when he's doing another guy?  Or needs to smoke in between tricks? Or needs to be jacked on crack or E before he can play and then slams during play?  In other words, the fag needs to increase the frequency and dosage of the chemical hits just to get a sensation. 

4.  Many times, the fag - even the young guys in their 20s - can't get hard without chems.  Hardly surprising Viagra et al, are closeby in the gay sauna or offered for sale in chat rooms. 

5.  The drug-fucked and porn addicted fag is on the neural equivalent of the hamster's treadmill. He needs the chem hits and the porn hits faster and more frequently just to keep the pleasure sensation rolling.

6.  The fag has chronically exposed himself to porn on his smart phone, tablet and desktop.  When he shows up at a gay sauna for a few hours to Stand, Model, smoke, snort, pop or toke, what effect are multiple porn screens in the premises actually having?  Ever noticed how so many fags apparently fixated on the porn in the sauna, playing with themselves, simply don't get hard? Or can't stay hard for very long..? 

7.  Even if the fag appears fixated on the porn screen, ever noticed how his head keeps swivelling from side to side  twitching for the next hottie that might walk by in a towel (or not if it's Nude Nite)? Is the fag actually in control of his behaviour or is he simply responding to a cocktail of accumulated brain chemistry whereby he swings from intense porn fixation to voyeur dissatisfaction to an interest in real person sex...? 

8.  Is the fag in a gay sauna actually in an attitudinal trance induced either by porn brain chemistry or drug addiction or both..? 

 9.  Is that why fags, whether ogling porn in front of their computers or in a gay sauna, lose all track of time.......?  

See also:

• Porn Addiction 1
• Porn Addiction 2
• Porn Addiction 3: Free E-book

PLUS:

• Sex Addiction 1 (Cruising vs Social Media)
• Sex Addiction 2 (Is It A Gay Thing..?)
• Sex Addiction 3 (Gay Men And Technology)
• Sex Addiction 4 (Drugs And Sex)
• Sex Addiction 5 (Finding Recovery)

Originally published 7 March 2012
Amended and Republished 12 April 2017 | 27 February 2018

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