If You Wanna Puke

Don't whine that FuelMix didn't warn you, but if the fascinated reader has read the post, Freedom, and resonates with the ideas expressed therein, then the piece of shit linked below will make perfect sense.  Just have the barf bag handy.

For the idiot fag who neither read nor understood Freedom, the piece of shit linked below will also make perfect sense...........

How to be gay in 10 easy steps.

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Str8 Looking....?

The other day, FuelMix was Googling for info about fags who might have invested in the Facebook IPO.  After all, fags are such addicted users of that cyber shit, right.....?

Instead, FuelMix found this gem.....y'all know how a fag will bend over backwards to avoid being identified as a visibly overt fag.....?  "Str8 looking, str8 acting.....?"  Like herpes, that phrase is on most fags' lips and is the mantra recited in millions of online profiles.

That might have to change..........

"........psychology researchers from the University of Washington and Cornell University released a study published by the Public Library of Science which showed that test subjects were more often than not able to distinguish someone's sexual orientation simply by looking at a photograph of them for less than a second.  

Guess what, Virginia?  There IS a Santa Claus, and "Gaydar" IS real!!!"

---------"The Facebook IPO, Gaydar and Rightside Up Bald Lesbians" by Timothy C. Wu, ZeroDivide, 18 May 2012

And that was from looking at black-and-white profile pictures, with the hair cropped out, uploaded on Facebook.  The giveaway areas as to sexual orientation were the eyes and mouth.  Food for thought right there.

So here's a conundrum......millions of fags assuring themselves and each other that they're definitely "str8 looking" and a third party can accurately identify their orientation in a snap - in less than a second. Who's getting the last laugh?  Can this be replicated via facial recognition technology (which Facebook is already - and controversially using - ) to build up a database, secret or not, of millions of fags worldwide?  What would be the implications?

Since the 70's and Stonewall, fags have been screaming, "we're in your face, get used to it".  Did they have a fuckin' clue what they were actually saying.....? They clamoured to become a visible minority and now they can neither hide their faces nor their orientation - even if they wanted to.  In other words, "Gaydar" is not the elusive 7th sense that belongs exclusively to fags.

The fascinated reader should take another look at what FuelMix wrote in Passing Off 1 and Passing Off 2.

"Married" and "hetero" (closet) fags also take note.  We suggest that you read, Yeah I'm Straight.

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Club Houzz Sauna 17

4/F Canton Plaza

1125 – 1127 Canton Road

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR:  Mong Kok Station, Exit A 2

Tel: 3484 2770 (Staff speak good English)

http://www.wix.com/clubhouzz/sample2#!

NOT open 24 hours;

Open daily from 3pm to 3am

Nude Nite after 8pm  

Friday night party from 7:30pm - all private rooms locked 

Received from a reader yesterday:

I decided to try my luck at Club Houzz instead [ Saturday 4 August 2012 - the reader had earlier been to Big Top ] and arrived there at around 10:45pm. Firstly, there was a sign at the entrance in Chinese saying everyone under 28 could get in for $10 (at least based on my quick read of it). However, when I went to the front desk, they did not mention the promotion and charged me the full 108. I was a little surprised at this as at Big Top, they charged me 85 instead of the full 138. Upon entering, I quickly decided to have a shower. I did not really see the ugly concrete mentioned in the previous reviews on your blog, but the floor was clearly wet. However, there was a very hot muscular GAM with a cute face who was showering as well. We exchanged looks throughout the shower and while he was drying his hair but when he reached the locker area, I realised he was on the way out. I had by then done a circuit and realised that it was an absolute disaster clientelle-wise. Most guys were in their 40s or 50s (I had noticed this last year that the clientelle at Club Houzz seemed to be older, but there was leavened with quite a few fit 20 year olds). I returned to the locker area and exchanged more looks and smile with the muscular GAM, but sadly he seemed on his way out.

I did a few more laps of the dark area, chanced upon a whole lot of older GAMs cumming on another GAM, but decided to leave after that. There was an especially aggressive 50 year old GAM chub could not take a hint. It seems that I must have missed the "golden hours" of Saturday afternoon to evening. Didn't get any action, but possibly because I was too picky.

Will probably go earlier on Saturday afternoon next time. A bit about me: mid-20s, professional, GAM, athletic build.

Cheers 

FuelMix says:

You should have demanded an explanation from the Front Desk as to why you were paying more than 10 bucks if you could prove you were under 28.  Again, this is symptomatic of a bizzare - and highly misleading -  pricing policy in which several local saunas are engaging, that is being steadily exposed on this blog by a number of readers.

It's boggling how loudly fags will scream at heterosexuals about fairness and discrimination, but will bend over and allow themselves to be financially fucked repeatedly by gay businesses. As previously mentioned, since discretion and anonymity are key attributes in showing up at a gay sauna for so many customers, these businesses are gleefully getting away with misleading price claims - knowing that the chances of a fag exposng them are minimal.............or are they.........? 

(Never underestimate the power of a well written blog backed by its readers.................)

You're right in observing that the late Saturday nite clientele in Club Houzz was a disaster.  That's been known for sometime. The "golden hours" appear to be their Friday Nite Parties and a couple of hours during Saturday afternoon and Sunday afternoon.  On weekdays, ClubHouzz can be dead.

There's nothing wrong with an older clientele in the saunas.  A couple of months ago, FuelMix was chatting to a 63 year old gym muscled GAM who was turning heads and getting hit on by the 20-somethings.  He did not look his age and was in superb shape.

As for those older men who are not in such great shape, FuelMix's view is Live And Let Live.  Body image comes in all shapes and sizes.  So long as they're comfortable in their skin, isn't that what Diversity is supposed to be about?

But if he's too aggressive and doesn't take a polite "No thanks" for an answer, then you're fully entitled to tell him to fuck off. See what FuelMix wrote in the post, Mature White Guy - the views expressed therein would apply to any older fag of any ethnicity.

Thanks for the update.

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Big Top Gym And Sauna 13

3rd Floor, Yuet Yuen Building

17 - 19 Mong Kok Road

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2

Tel: 2628 6196

Website: Big Top Gym & Sauna

Note: Open 2pm to 8am the next day; 
On weekends and public holidays open 2pm till 10am the next day. 
Staff speak good English 



Received from a reader today:

Dear Fuel Injected Male,

It's been a while since I've been to a HK sauna, and I thought I would write a review of my visit to Big Top and Club Houzz on Saturday August 4, 2012.

I arrived at Big Top around 9pm. Several things had changed with the layout since I was there last year, there was now a wall separating the TV area from the locker area and TV area. When I first arrived, there were a whole bunch of GAMs in the TV and locker room area and not much action seemed to be happening. Most of them were fairly fit from 20s to 40s (maybe the Double crowd which you described in other reviews) but there was definitely a lot of standing and posing rather than action. A few of them seemed to know each other quite well. I thought that they were either the regulars or knew each other from around the circuit.

In the dark area there were some groping hands but it was so dark that it was nearly impossible to see who or what was touching you. I suspected that many of the less fit types loitered around the dark areas in the corridor to lure some unsuspecting prey. Being unable to see them, made it difficult to decide whether to accept the invitation or not. There were a couple of fit twenty year olds but their attitude was bad, most of my advances were rejected, and I noticed that they were not getting any action either. A overweight white guy turned up at around 9:30pm but the GAMs all steered clear of him and he left in 30 minutes. It seemed that many people were in the midst of leaving between 9 and 10pm and by 10pm, only the fuglies or the fit ones with alot of attitude was left. Did not see any of the racial diversity described in other reviews. 

FuelMix says:

Yeah.....the attitude from the chinks in Big Top can be rancid.  It is completely dependent on when one goes and who happens to be there.  On a bad nite, it can feel like a total waste of cash - even if the guys are pretty fit or muscular.

There is tons of Stand and Model in Big Top - particularly on Saturdays -  for 3 reasons:

1. Those chinks are assholes and get off on it. (That being said, FuelMix has heard of a nigga who pisses people off with his attitude.  Apparently, the translated Chinese joke is that in order to spot the nigga in the Dark Area, one has to look for the floating white towel. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....!!!!)
2. There are not enough private rooms so people have to stand around;
3. There is a regular stream of guys  showing up at the Front Door on Saturdays.  Sometimes they come in groups of 2 or 3.  Big Top can get packed. Make no mistake about that.

The only real place to sit is the bench in the Locker Area.  The reality is that in the absence of a private rooms, Big Top can be very hard on the feet for a couple of days afterwards.  There is a price to pay to Stand And Model.

As for the racial diversity that you didn't see, it appears you may have hit Big Top during the "shift change".  It's well known that between 9 - 10pm on Saturdays, hordes of guys leave to have dinner, go home or hit the bars.  Another crowd shows up from about 11pm onwards, keeping their options to hit Alexander or Double later.  That later crowd is predominantly GAM, but a couple of foreigners have been seen.

On Saturday afternoons, FuelMix recalls having seen groups of Banana Chinks. They were easy to spot from their nasal twang or Australian accent.

Whites do show up at Big Top and can get action.  FuelMix has seen refugees from Central Escalator even on weekday evenings. (Remember, CE drops dead by about 7pm on weekdays).  They were about 30 something and fairly fit.  There are also some fat white fags.  To their credit, the management of Big Top welcomes all body types and ethnicities.  

Thanks for the update.

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Are You Loving Your Servitude Yet?

Anyone who has not yet seen the brilliant - and we do mean brilliant - writings of Charles Hugh Smith needs to check out his blog, Of Two Minds and his books.  Here is an extract from his blog post of 25 July 2012 entitled, Are You Loving Your Servitude Yet?  It absolutely sums up what is going wrong in society and the societal mindset of unquestioning obedience aided and abetted by technological diversions - akin to drugs.

The sentences in bold print appear in the original post by the author.

Aldous Huxley foresaw a Central State that persuaded its people to “love their servitude” via propaganda, drugs, entertainment and information-overload. In his view, the energy required to force compliance exceeded the "cost" of persuasion, and thus the Powers That Be would opt for the power of suggestion.

He outlined this in a letter to George Orwell:

"My own belief is that the ruling oligarchy will find less arduous and wasteful ways of governing and of satisfying its lust for power, and these ways will resemble those which I described in Brave New World.

Within the next generation I believe that the world’s rulers will discover that infant conditioning and narco-hypnosis are more efficient, as instruments of government, than clubs and prisons, and that the lust for power can be just as completely satisfied by suggesting people into loving their servitude as by flogging and kicking them into obedience."

As prescient as he was, Huxley could not have foreseen the power of electronic media hypnosis/addiction as a conditioning mechanism for passivity and self-absorption. We are only beginning to understand the immense addictive/conditioning powers of 24/7 social and "news" media. What would we say about a drug that caused people to forego sex to check their Facebook page? What would we say about a drug that caused young men to stay glued to a computer for 40+ hours straight, an obsession so acute that some actually die? We would declare that drug to be far too powerful and dangerous to be widely available, yet the Web is now ubiquitous. 

Servitude comes in many gradations and forms. Relying on the Federal Reserve to constantly prop up our pension and mutual funds lest reality cause them to collapse is a form of servitude; we end up worshipping the Fed's every word and act as mendicants worship their financial saviors.

That the Fed is unelected and impervious to democracy or the will of the people is forgotten; all that matters is that we love our servitude to it.

I have discussed the atomizing nature of social media and the way it conditions self-absorption in 800 Million Channels of Me (February 21, 2011), and the way that the consumerist ethos generates insecurity, alienation and social defeat. The only "cure" for social defeat is to love the servitude of consumption, convenience and the resulting debt-serfdom: The Last Refuge of Wall Street: Marketing To Increasingly Insolvent Consumers (December 12, 2011).

I have covered these topics in depth in my books Resistance, Revolution, Liberation: A Model for Positive Change and Survival+: Structuring Prosperity for Yourself and the Nation.

The Central State has the power via welfare (individual and corporate) and bailouts to buy complicity. Since the human mind rebels against hypocrisy and insincerity--we can all spot a phony--we subconsciously persuade ourselves of the rightness and inevitability of servitude and self-absorption.

And that is how we come to love our servitude; we persuade ourselves to believe it's acceptable and normal rather than deranged and destructive.

Club Houzz Sauna 16

4/F Canton Plaza

1125 – 1127 Canton Road

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR:  Mong Kok Station, Exit A 2

Tel: 3484 2770 (Staff speak good English)

http://www.wix.com/clubhouzz/sample2#!

NOT open 24 hours;

Open daily from 3pm to 3am

Nude Nite after 8pm  

Friday night party from 7:30pm - all private rooms locked 

Received from a reader: 

Hiya FuelMix

After I read your reviews, I went to Club Houzz sauna several times and became a big fan of the place. You were right in the things that you said about the premises and I also felt it had great potential - especially the Friday Nite parties.  

Then I took a break from the place for a couple of months and dropped in last Tuesday afternoon [17 July 2012] about 4: 30pm.  Boy! what a shock and disappointment!.......

The premises looked grubby and unclean particularly near the shower area where there is a wall with towel racks.  The wall was filthy.  Near the ceiling was some  cement that had recently been put on.  It looked awful.  Before, the shower area looked trendy and minimalist, now it looked yucky thanks to the filthy wall.

When I went into the Steam Room I was disgusted.  It was smelly.  I had never experienced this in Club Houzz before.  I was very puzzled as there were only a few people there and plenty of time to clean and disinfect the Steam Room properly.

I then walked through the Dark Area.  At first it looked clean but when I looked into the private cabins I was disappointed to see that several of them had peeling wall paper and grubby mirrors.  Also, some of the cabin lights didn't work and in one of them, the bulb had been removed and there was just a piece of glow stick cellotaped into the light !  

I was very disappointed at the shabby state of the premises.  Also, the TV volume and music volume was so loud both could be heard all over the Dark Area.  This did not happen before. 

I thought you would like to know what I found when I went there.  Apparently the management is still the same so I don't know why the premises were looking so bad.   

FuelMix says:  

Brilliant........that is the whole point of these gay sauna review series.  They are intended to be dynamic and fluid as readers send in their latest assessments.  

Club Houzz has been in business about a year and a half.  If their premises, for which FuelMix had earlier given rave reviews, are looking grubby, then customers should confront the management - even if one is paying HK$65.00 instead of HK$108.00 for entry before 5pm.  Go to their website and e-mail them.

The fact is there's no excuse for it.  If Club Houzz wants to trash itself, so be it.  But why should the customer have to pay to be a disgusted witness?  

Thanks for the update. 

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Central Escalator 17

2nd Floor, Cheung Hing Commercial Building, 

37 Cochrane Street,

Central, 

Hong Kong

MTR: Central or Hong Kong Station
 

Tel: 2581 9951 (Staff speak very good English)

Easy way to find it: above 7 Eleven and opposite Park N Shop supermarket.

Note: NOT open 24 hours

Opening Hours: 2pm - 11pm.   

Received from a reader today:

Central Escalator Pricing Policy?

Hey

..........I just got into Hong Kong and I know that at the sauna CE, there is a membership card with a letter code on it. Do you know what these codes mean? Do foreigners get in cheaper than locals? Just curious. Thanks!

FuelMix says:

The membership card policy is not consistent i.e. not everyone gets one. Guess they only give it to those who show up frequently.

As a result, the pricing policy is not consistent either.  The quoted entry price is HK$120.00 but some customers (those with membership cards?) get in cheaper.  See the post Central Escalator 16

No idea what the codes on the card mean.

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Too Big To Fail

Man Claims " World's Largest Penis" Got Him Frisked At SFO

-----CBS San Francisco, 17 July 2012

International Gym Locator

Hey fags, looking for a hot gym when you travel?  Hit Gymvisit and hunt.  

With additional holiday and gym info on London, Key West, South Beach Miami, Ibiza, Sitges, Barcelona and Mykonos, we suspect the site is quite "friendly". 

There's also the possibility of discounted entry on some gyms around the world. Check it out. It's  informative.

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Volume H.E.A.T. 3

Lower Ground Floor
83 - 85 Hollywood Road
Central
Hong Kong
MTR: Central  or Hong Kong - any exit leading towards SoHo; or
          Sheung Wan  Exit E2

Tel: 2857 7683
Web: www.volume.com.hk  
Opening Hours: 12 Noon to 12 Midnight every day

Received from a reader today: 

Hi, 

I saw your post on V.H. and couldn't agree more - It is always empty. Don't get me wrong -  I love it, I like a quiet place where I can work or chat over coffee with friends and the place feels much like a living room. However, for it to be sustainable something had to happen. They closed on Sunday and will be closed for three weeks (one of the staff members told me) for renovations, after which they will re-open and serve Thai Fusion Food. I'm not getting any hopes up as the food they were serving was beyond awful. Let's give them the benefit of the doubt though, and as long as they serve coffee and have couches I'm alright with it. 

Never understood why they did not turn it into a cocktail lounge or something like that - a more chilled complement to B.E.A.T. rather than something very different. It could have worked well.  A focus on alcohol keeps the fags coming in. 

FuelMix says:

Yeah......we'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt because actually, the premises aren't bad. The first review FuelMix gave them abour a year ago, was favourable.  But the impression one is left with, after having repeatedly viewed the near total absence of sentient life, is that the "concept" - where grinning fags drop in, linger and bond in the middle of the trendy SoHo Universe - misfired.  

Other than visualizing Eurasian moneyboys from South East Asia, FuelMix has no idea what Thai Fusion Food is supposed to be.  The suspicion is that they're trying to bag a str8 clientele too and that's OK.

Agree that a focus on alcohol keeps the fag coming in - particularly in the evenings.  That said, their alcohol prices did not appear competitive and FuelMix wondered why the staff aggressively urged customers to buy drinks.  

It may well be that a totality of factors around Volume H.E.AT. pushed fags to the Agnes B Cafe down the steps on Gough Street.  

Oh yeah.....Agnes B Cafe has a flower shop in it and smells nicer. 

Thanks for the feedback.

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Volume: H.E.A.T. 2

Lower Ground Floor
83 - 85 Hollywood Road
Central
Hong Kong
MTR: Central  or Hong Kong - any exit leading towards SoHo; or
          Sheung Wan  Exit E2

Tel: 2857 7683
Web: www.volume.com.hk  
Opening Hours: 12 Noon to 12 Midnight every day

Time for some answers fags.........does anyone actually go here......? It's supposed to be open from 12 noon to 12 midnite.  Every time FuelMix has wandered past this place, it's been empty.  And we mean EMPTY.......as at 3:30pm on a weekday where the place is locked up, the lights are off and the chairs are stacked on the tables, or later in the evenings............when all the lights are on, staff are behind the counter but there are no customers.  FuelMix has noticed this for months.  When he asked the staff when the best time to show up would be, they looked distnctly embarrassed.

What's going on?

(Are they aware that fags are hanging out at the Agnes B Cafe, just down the steps on Gough Street?)

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Central Escalator 16

2nd Floor, Cheung Hing Commercial Building, 

37 Cochrane Street,

Central, 

Hong Kong

MTR: Central or Hong Kong Station
 

Tel: 2581 9951 (Staff speak very good English)

Easy way to find it: above 7 Eleven and opposite Park N Shop supermarket.

Note: NOT open 24 hours

Opening Hours: 2pm - 11pm.   

Packed though it may be on a weekend afternoon, one thing is official:  

Yeah it's international all right........it  attracts the Fugliest clientele of all ages, all races and all body types.  

That's quite an achievement for dinky surroundings that retains its "allure" as the asylum for the Fugly white fag and those desperate enough to chase them.  And we do mean Fugly white fags, some complete with tattoos, piercings and labrets  Expect to see chinks and brownies resorting to poppers for Dutch Courage while competing for white attention. When they're rejected, expect to see them crashing into the walls and stumbling around the narrow corridors disoriented in grief and rage while the poppers hit has yet to wear off.  It's quite theatrical - sort of like a Cirque du Soleil rehearsal gone awry.

FuelMix saw a staff member clearing away an empty can of Carlsberg from the bar where the computers are. He asked the staff member whether CE had a  Liquor License.  Flustered at the question, the staff member hurriedly said that a customer had brought it in.  When FuelMix pointed to the other un-opened cans of Carlsberg sitting on the top shelf of the pantry, the staff member fled.  Readers can draw their own conclusions.

And yes........according to some customers present, CE does have special pricing for the chosen that is below the standard entry fee of HK$120.00. Apparently special pricing is between HK$85.00 to HK$100.00. Is it worth it?  Read the totality of the reviews and decide for yourselves.  

For his part, FuelMix has written this place off.

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Big Top Gym And Sauna 12

3rd Floor, Yuet Yuen Building

17 - 19 Mong Kok Road

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit A2

Tel: 2628 6196

Website: Big Top Gym & Sauna

Note: Open 2pm to 8am the next day; 
On weekends and public holidays open 2pm till 10am the next day. 
Staff speak good English 



Received from a reader today:

Hey FuelMix

A friend of mine 'dragged' me out to Big Top Sauna on Saturday, "they got good coffee over there" he said. Not that I even like coffee, it was around 8pm and having worked a full day I wasn't really up for it either, but along I went. And what a pleasant surprise it was. It was my first time at Big Top and I got a feeling I will be heading back. It was packed !! Didn't count but if I had to guess I'd say there were around 40 guys there. People were friendly, chatty and smiling. Didn't notice a lot of attitude. The small towels make it quite impossible to cover up so quite a few just walked around with their towels around their necks (Yeah).

Stayed till around 11 I think and in that time received a lot of stares and was touched up a bit too in the dark corridors. Played with a couple of guys, and if I had been more up for it I would have played with a few more. The from-8-to-9-guys (and before 8 too I guess) were hottest. Different types of guys too, from skinny to muscular, short to tall, but mostly hot!! The two of us were the only white guys there and later in the evening a big black guy walked in. Somewhere between 9 and 10 (I think) quite a few guys left, but it seemed to pick up again about half an hour later. Most of the new arrivals were much older, and one of the uncles didn't care much for the word 'no'.

All in all I had a surprisingly pleasant time and will definitely go back. Management also put me on their discount list. Don't really know what the requirements are but all he asked me was if I was a resident in HK and that was it.  

FuelMix says:  Thanks for the update

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It's Good For You

"....there is a direct link between allowing same-sex couples to marry and better mental health outcomes for same-sex attracted people."

------Aussie Psychologists Back Marriage Equality, ILGA 4 May 2012

That has got to be one of the most suspicious and utterly bizarre statements on Faggotry that FuelMix has seen in a while. As pointed out before in Gay Pop Fade Out 2, gay activists in collusion with gay media - primarily in God's Own Country - are behind a multi-billion dollar global campaign to rehabilitate the image of gay men in a manner that smacks of social engineering and social control with an agenda.  What better way to influence thought than use psychologists?  Good move.

True to form, the study relied on research from God's Own Country and true to form, was couched in terms of "harm".

"The psychological evidence convincingly demonstrates that direct harm is done to same-sex attracted Australians by denying them the opportunity to marry, and there are no adverse societal effects from marriage equality".

------Dr. Fiona Barlow, University of Queensland quote in the above article 

"Harm" is a favourite word of politically correct gay activists in the English-speaking West, looking to set up nice places downtown where drug-fucked fags (and increasingly, the homeless) can drop in to inject themselves without sharing needles. They call it "harm reduction".

What's being presented in the context of Gay Marriage is "harm increase". In other words, if fags aren't allowed to marry, they'll sustain direct harm..........OK let's see......

Allow Adam and Steve to hire a wedding planner and send out invitations to 300 of their closest friends. Agonize about the choice of tuxedos, type of wedding cake, how many tiers, menu and seating plan for the reception, photographers, muscians, which shops to register at to rip off the guests, honeymoon destination, thank you notes............yeah......that'll contribute to better mental health........

The absurdity is in confusing the Form with the Substance. The act of marriage is a ritual and governed by convention. The paradigm of traditional marriage is flawed and shattered.  It is loaded with emotional and religious baggage and the religious bigots will fight forever to keep it as their turf.  Since it's broken to begin with, let them keep it.  FuelMix has said before that Civil Union is the way to go.

But the Substance i.e. better mental health for gays in a relationship - or contemplating one -  will not come by tearfully waving a Marriage License and strutting down the aisle to a Club Track pursuant to psychological advice. So where will it come from?  For starters:

• how about understanding Emotional Intelligence?
• what actually pushes your buttons?
• what drew you to this man in the first place?
• what do you hate about this man? 
• have you told him?
• could you even handle a relationship when Faggotry is all about casual encounters and anonymity?
• why are you insisting on marriage instead of Civil Union?
• what if you want marriage and he doesn't? Will you be "harmed" mentally?
• what are the parameters of the relationship?
• how will you deal with his drug use and yours? 
• how will you deal with his debt and yours?
• how would you define commitment in the context of the relationship?
• how will you deal with conflict resolution in the relationship?
• do you know the difference between compromise and resolution?
• how will you get out if the relationship doesn't work?
• how prepared are you emotionally to handle divorce, betrayal or untimely death?
• how will you handle emotional and physical abuse in the relationship? Would you have the guts to call the Police?
• how will you handle cultural and age differences?
• how will you handle his family and yours?
• have you defined what constitutes the absolute Red Line in the important aspects of the relationship that must never be crossed?

Bottom line: the fascinated reader considering a relationship can either act like a fag,  take the advice of psychologists (yeah......the same crowd who in the past labelled being gay as a mental illness.....) and run into Marriage - 'coz it's allegedly good for him -  or  assume independence as a thinking gay man and ask who really should be in charge of his mental health before, during and after a relationship. And then actually DEFINE the relationship and its parameters.

Of course, the shrieking gay activists and their army of experts won't like it one bit. An independently thinking gay man is like Kryptonite to them.  Now that's direct harm.


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Alexander Sauna 22

1st Floor, Wing Cheong Building

404 Reclamation Street

Mong Kok

Kowloon

Hong Kong

MTR: Mong Kok Station, Exit E 1 

Open 24 hours

Tel: 2148 0400  

Pricing in Alexander?

Received today from the occasional contributor, Hong Kong Sauna Slut:  

Hello FuelMix,

In case you or your readers weren't aware, Alexander has upped its general admission rate to HK$150 per entry. Don't know how long the new rate's been in place but it must be recent as I visited last week and paid HK$130. Didn't have a chance to ask why the increase (too busy having fun and stayed 12 hours - they still let customers stay 12 hours without paying extra). Clientele seem the same as before. Mix of ages and every body type but predominantly local Chinese in their 30s and 40s. Could be interesting to see if or how other HK saunas respond.

Cheers, HKSS 

FuelMix says:

Is Alexander worth a HK$150.00 entry fee?  The jury is still out on that one.

Alexander's age ranges have been climbing for sometime, both GAMs and GWMs.  Nothing wrong with that - except that these older chinks are adopting the attitudinal posturing of twinks, which ends up being pathetically funny. 

Also, a ton of Mainland Chinese are showing up there - apparently they like the "luxury" ambience.  If they would only stop pissing in the Steam Room and learn to flush toilets, perhaps FuelMix would be inclined to agree.  As it stands, the fascinated reader can thank them - and the local chain-smoking chinks -  for creating an ambience in the Wet Area that occasionally goes all the way to EEEEEEEWWWWwww.

Since Alexander is part of a group  that also consists of ABC, Action and Gateway,  one has to ask whether the group have raised their prices?  Are they worth the increased prices?  ABC notorious for Stand And Model Attitude; Action which by the Staff's own admission is only interesting on Saturday afternoons; and Gateway which has a long-standing reputation for boredom.............?

With an economic slowdown on the horizon, is raising sauna admission prices the best idea? 

There's no shortage of alternative venues in that area.  And FuelMix hears that hot guys are showing up at Big Top and Club Houzz. 

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Asshole In The Making

Spotted today on Craigslist M2M Casual Encounters for Very Rich Megacity. Bold print in ad by FuelMix:

Want your mouth and bubble ass - m4m - 29 (Kennedy Town)
Hey Guys looking for some hot foreplay, a good sucking off, and maybe fucking you...
Masculine, muscular 29-year old top with 7" uncut and hard, D/D free, westerner white guy in town for a night and can host
Looking for a Men 25-35 who are fit and straight acting (will turn away at door if not - sorry, just making sure there are no misunderstandings; but if you fit the type, promise you'll have an amazing time...). white, latin, black, asian gets preference (in that order)
Email with pic of face, body, bubble butt and what you're into
Looking for tonight...Thanks

He probably hasn't realized it but implicit in his ad is the right of anyone who's stupid enough to show up at his door, to turn him down too.  He purports to reserve that right to himself notwithstanding that pics might have been swapped.

Gotta love that white, latin, black, asian "preference" "in that order".

Epic fail.

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Death of a Gay Ghetto 5

Vancouver's Dirty Gay Secret And Why They're Talking (Some More)

...........in other words, the Gabfest identified in Part 4 of this series continues...........this time on the Town Planning aspects of what's left of the Gay Ghetto.  An article dated 14 May 2012 published in Xtra West entitled Gay input sought for new West End plan sets out the methodology - hanging out in coffee shops and bars - by which feedback will be sought from the homos during an 18 - 21 month process.

The topographical problem is obvious: the creeping urban gentrification which the homos claim is making it too expensive for them to live in the West End.  No mention in the article above that the Gay Ghetto - ftom Denman Street to Davie Street - is an example of urban blight and that the queers have nobody but themselves (and the homeless) to blame for it; or that the drug-fucked gay diaspora is now split between the West End and the East End.

The intention of the gabfest is to make homos more relevant in the urban landscape.  It's all about the gay "needs".  OK..... this raises some questions: 

• What makes gays in the West End actually think they're relevant - other than having been there for a while?
  
• Why are the homos in the West End acting like the investment banks on Fraud Street.....i.e. "Too Big To Fail"......?
• Why are the homos in the West End so terrified of  Schumpeter's economic model of Creative Destruction and letting market forces induce equilibrium?
• What are the West End homos themselves doing to revitalize their ghetto?  Historically, it's always been about screaming against this or whining against that and sucking on the nipple of some government organization to have their "needs" met.  
• Where are the gay investors? Where are the gay-friendly property developers?  What track record do homos themselves have in successfully attracting revitalization to their "Qmunity" (yeah.......that's how politically correct the nomenclature is getting over there).
• If, as part of their "diversity", the West End homos claim to welcome straight businesses, how do they reconcile their well known tactic of savaging those businesses they deem "not gay enough"? 
• Why are the West End homos so terrified of gay business competition that Bad Mouthing is part of their marketing?
• Is the chronic corruption and conficts of interest in their business and politcial dealings an acknowledgement that the days of the West End ghetto are numbered and they need to skim while they still can?
• What are the growth prospects of the West End Gay Ghetto in an economically unstable world compounded by an economically (and mentally) unstable gay demographic?

The astute reader will realize that tweaking the urban landscape in Vancouver's West End is just half the story.  What needs a fundamental overhaul is the utterly fucked-up, co-dependent, toxic mentality of the resident queer that has bred an addiction-fueled, flaky, physically degenerate lifestyle with skyrocketing disease rates.  They are in crying need of a Behavioural Blueprint as much as a Community Development Plan.

The West End homos squeal long and hard that they're being threatened by urban development.  Has anybody pointed out that they're actually threatening themselves by their lack of urban intelligence and social development? 

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Basic Math? 2

A reader who has done research on HIV, responded today to the earlier post, Basic Math?

Hi FuelMix 

Read that post about HIV infections in HK and wanted to make a brief comment. I actually had to research about HIV while at uni here in HK, though the project concerned Mainland China only. 

You're absolutely right, when it comes to new infections they get divided up into categories and straight folks get more categories awarded to them while men-who-have-sex-with-men (MSM) is a special category on its own, and damn well should be :) .. FYI other categories, as far as i remember, concerned drug users, sex workers + clients, spouses/partners of HIV+ persons, blood donors and recipients, and (unfortunately) mother to child transmissions, although that group is relatively small. 

Also, thx to my library, I have access to past articles of the SCMP, I attach this particular report for you to read [Rise in HIV cases third-highest in 20 years] I am not a journalist but I nevertheless thought the language used was quite neutral and informative. Agree or disagree, you cannot deny our community is a high-risk group when it comes to HIV and it makes sense to point that out to (and inform) the general public.  

As a final thought, I'd daresay that it is this queen-like, nagging attitude and behaviour of certain members of our diverse community who contribute to the bias against the gay community! No one likes whingers!!  And people like Mr C give people like me a bad name !!  

FuelMix says:  

Thanks for providing a copy of the SCMP article and for validating FuelMix's assumption on contiguous grouping.  Having read the article, while it could have been clearer in its wording, it is certainly not biased. 

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Basic Math?

Received from a reader in Very Rich Megacity (large font in bold by FuelMix): 

Hi

Did you see the article in the SCMP on May 30th reporting that HIV cases in HK have risen to record levels? No big surprises there I'm afraid, and I forgot to note the exact page in the City section.

What I took exception to was the statement that men who have sex with men made up the majority of those cases with 43%.  I wrote the following email to the "reporter" and copied in the editor, and as expected did not receive the courtesy of a reply.   

QUOTE 

Dear Mr. Lo

May I respectfully suggest that you take an elementary course in basic mathematics before you publish your biased and inaccurate numbers regarding HIV infections in Hong Kong.

You state, " men who have sex with men are still the main contributors to new HIV cases, making up 43% of new cases....." 
Unless I am very much mistaken, and please feel free to correct me if I am, but 43 from 100 leaves 57. 

Therefore an accurate reporter would print that 57% being the majority, that sex workers, their clients and drug users, all heterosexual, were the main contributors to new HIV infections, and not homosexuals. 

It is exactly this type of inaccurate, sensationalist and sloppy reporting that propagates the bias against the gay community.

I guess there will be no chance of a retraction?

Yours faithfully

C " 

UNQUOTE 

FuelMix says: 

One possible explanation might be that at 43%, gays made up the largest contiguous group with HIV infections. In other words, the 57% constituted the aggregate of small percentages of other defined hetero risk groups e.g. whores, their clients and drug users. If that's correct, then it could be said the report was accurate.  Admittedly, FuelMix did not see the newspaper report and is guessing here.  

That being said, it would only have taken a minor clarification to edit the report prior to publication. As it stands, the report is ambiguous.

Now that chink fags have wholeheartedly embraced the Western franchise of what constitutes "the lifestyle" - complete with Abercrombie and Fitch T-shirts,  expect to see those numbers climb.

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