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UPDATED 7 DECEMBER 2017 FOR FURTHER READING...

8.  The Older Gay Man And Cruising
9.  Too Old For Grindr..?
10. Has Grindr Ruined Everything..?
11. Cruising A Cultural Art..?  Media Says "Yes" 

8.  The Older Gay Man And Cruising

1.  The author Louise Hay, who gained international acclaim in the 1980s for her work in counseling gay men with AIDS, said this:

In heterosexual society......the older man often gets respect, and people may even look up to him.

Not so for most gay men, for they have created a culture that places tremendous emphasis on youth and beauty.  While everyone is young to start with, only a few fit the standard of beauty.  So much emphasis has been placed on the physical appearance of the body that the feelings inside have been totally disregarded.  If you are not young and beautiful, it's almost as though you don't count.  The person does not count; only the body counts.

This way of thinking is a disgrace to the whole culture.  It's another way of saying "gay is not good enough."

Because of the ways gay people often treat other gays, for many gay men the experience of getting old is something to dread........

Too often gay men feel that when they get older, they will be useless and unwanted.

2.  Ageism is rampant in Faggotry.  It's a fact and it's irrefutable. In the context of urban cruising, unless one is in a mature-friendly environment - like a sauna that attracts an older clientele or in a venue where twinks are looking for Daddy - or the older gay man has a rockin' hot body, the grim reality is that the older man is either shunned, marginalized, chronically rejected or reduced to nuisance voyeurism or irritating persistence.  If he's lucky, he could offer his mouth which would be used by the younger ones as a last resort.

3.  It's sad to watch since the rejections of the older male can be swift, brutal, collective, contemptuous and utterly ruthless.  Effectively, it's the culling of the herd. 

4.  Cruising Older Fag: Hilarious -   Glory Daze, Golden Showers

5.  Cruising Older Fag: Infuriating -  Mature White Guy

6.  Cruising Older Fag: Attempting To Negotiate -   

• Dim Lights & Dim Wits;
• Cruise Control

7.  Cruising For An Older Fag - In Praise Of Older Men

8.  Older Fag's Cruising Resentment - Crying For My Youth