Gay Blackmail In Hong Kong 1

Submitted by a GWM reader here in Very Rich Megacity on 9 January 2016 who set out in detail a gay Blackmail and Extortion attempt on him on 6 and 7 January 2016.  The perpetrator was a local Chinese guy.  The facts unfolded via Grindr, WhatsApp and in the GWM's apartment.

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1. Blue bold italics  by FuelMix;
2. Contents of Paragraphs 1 to 6 are GWM's emails plus editing and summary by FuelMix;

You're gonna love this one......

Hi FuelMix 

I have enjoyed your blog and benefitted greatly from the sauna review :)...I feel a sense of civic duty to share my true encounter just this week with a gay blackmailer in Hong Kong. I will leave it up to you to decide if this in the public interest to publish or not. The name of the person is real, so feel free to hide/change if it breaks any privacy laws.( do professional criminals enjoy data privacy protection too?.. )

1.  Before The HookUp via Grindr and WhatsApp

1.  Grindr - GWM and GAM made contact. GAM described himself as 21 and sent several pics of himself sucking cocks of unidentified people.  He was nothing to look at, but GWM was looking for action.  Conversation moved to WhatsApp

2.  WhatsApp - Conversation about each other's jobs and whether GWM has a boyfriend.  GAM claimed to be working in the mortgage department of a bank and said he's a bottom and looking to be fucked.

3.  GWM met GAM around 10pm at the MTR Station. GAM had delayed the meetup twice that evening claiming he was working late. On the way to GWM'S apartment, GAM enquired again about GWM's job and whether he had a boyfriend. 


2.  At GWM's Apartment - The Set Up

1.  GAM starts bragging about the expensive leather jacket he's wearing.

2.  Before sex, GAM lays out a range of high-end face and body care products that he's going to use when he showers after sex. Done intentionally to get GWM to notice their apparent cost.

3.  GAM asked to use GWM's WiFi.  GWM punched in his password on GAM's device.

4.   GAM asked if he could take pictures of himself sucking GWM's cock.  GWM agreed but covered his face and checked the pictures GAM had taken.

5.  GWM used a condom and fucked GAM who was doing poppers.  GAM asked if GWM would fuck him bareback and cum inside him. GWM refused.

6.  After being fucked GAM went to the toilet claiming that GWM was "too big". 

7.  GAM showed a reluctance to leave and showed face and body pics of middle aged men, plus their business cards - as well as a bank transfer screenshot of someone in Thailand sending USD300.00 to GAM's bank account.  GWM finally got GAM to leave.


3.  The Next Day - The Blackmail Attempt via WhatsApp

1.  GAM claimed his ass was hurting after the fucking and that he went to see a doctor.  But GAM also claimed he was missing GWM and wanted to meet that day.  GAM said he liked to stay with GWM after being fucked.

2.  About an hour later, GAM again said he wanted to meet. GWM said better to meet next week.  

3. GAM responded that GWM must meet him today as he had GWM's address AND that he was going to report GWM to Police for:

• fucking a 20 year old who is underage;
• injuring his asshole from the fucking;
• doing illegal drugs namely poppers;

4.  GWM points out that it was GAM who brought his own poppers.

5.  GWM is concerned that GAM might in fact be underage but decided to play it low key in the face of these threats.

6.  GAM asked GWM to pay his medical bills of HK$600.00.  GWM said produce the receipts. GAM said he can't.  GWM said go back to the doctor and get them. GAM backed down says GWM didn't have to pay, but should show some kindness since he injured his ass and that he is poor.  GWM said again produce the receipts.


4.  Via WhatsApp - From Blackmail To Money Boy.  Identity Revealed.

1.   Later that day  GAM contacts GWM and announces he is a money boy.  Now asks GWM for immediate payment of HK$500.00 (previously demanded HK$600.00).

2.  GWM says he will pay so long as GAM does not contact him again.  GWM requests GAM's bank account details and full name.

3.  GAM replies with bank account number and his name:  Alex Lo Man Nam


5.  GWM Does Google Search

1.  Turns out Alex Lo Man Nam aged about 28 or 29 is a well known convicted serial blackmailer mentioned in Apple Daily, South China Morning Post, Flickr and other blogs. Photos exist online of him wearing a mask running into and out of Court and running away from photographers.

2.  He's been convicted several times for blackmail since 2007 and was fined and jailed.  Pursuant to Court Orders he repaid some of his victims.  Latest conviction apparently June 2015.

3.  Used to lurk on gaydar and gayhk chatrooms.  Now operating on phone apps like Grindr.

4.  Originally scammed local Chinese.  Now scamming expatriates or business visitors in their hotels.  Thickskinned and unrepentant.


6.  Via WhatsApp - GWM Confronts GAM With His Research

1.  GAM denies blackmail since he didn't stipulate any consequences. Claims to be well experienced in the elements of blackmail and a report to the Police will not be of any use.

2.  GAM then says GWM does not need to pay.  But he will still report GWM to Police for illegal drugs.  GWM points out it was GAM who brought the poppers to his apartment. GAM then says GWM can just pay him HK$100.00 but will still continue to contact him as he has lots of free time.

3.  GWM blocks GAM's number.  GWM changes WiFi Password.


Coming Up In Part 2:  Commentary On The Facts
Coming Up In Part 3:  Dealing With A Blackmail Threat

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