The Epidemic Of Gay Loneliness 6

Sent in by a reader today:

Hi FM

Liked your re-post of the HuffPost article.  In addition to highlighting the problem of loneliness in the gay community, it completely destroys the presumption (put forward by brainwashed technophiles and brain dead snow flake millennials) that greater openness and connectivity will make everything better.

Have a good week
Rxxxxxx


FuelMix says:

1.  Amen brother.

2.  We feel particularly vindicated by this series that our assertion that "Fagland" was not only a geographical area, but also a state of mind, was accurate.  We won't get into the flak and abuse we received from (white) fags when we first declared it years ago.

3.  We feel sad when we think about the number of (white) gay twinks we advised to move out of the gay ghetto to save their lives. At the time, FuelMix was on the West Coast.

4.  For many of these twinks, living in Fagland was the first time they'd been away from home and they were desperate to live with other gay men and sample "the lifestyle".  But they were horribly wounded emotionally by the outright hostility, lack of basic civility, the belittling and the rejections.  Being far from home (or too embarrassed to return home) they felt lonely and unwanted.  "The community" they craved, was a pressure cooker of fear and loathing.  The only way out was drugs, drug-fueled risky sex and / or suicide.



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5.  In the post, Here And Hereafter 2, we referred to this phenomenon:

2.  An outrageous claim fags make is that they are a “community”. That’s a lie. A “community” implies cohesion. How can there be cohesion when the community consists of so many individually wounded, fractured psyches? FuelMix has often been left speechless at the numbers of deeply lonely, sexually abused, fundamentally unhappy fags, some quite young, for whom living in Fagland (either as a postal code or a state of mind) is a daily accumulation of financial, social and emotional degradation culminating in a fundamental lack of self-worth.

 6.  When we suggested to the twinks that they move out of the gay ghetto, they were initially shocked and accused us of being anti-white and homophobic.  It wasn't until much later that they finally got what we were saying......if you want to be happy and successful on your terms (and stay alive) you have to be homophobic -  according to the standards of conventional Faggotry.  In other words, your life depends on you being a gay man on your terms, not on others.

7.  One of the advantages Asian cities have over the west, is that there are far less geographically defined gay ghettos.  We maintain that's a positive sign and that the emergence of the ghetto should be discouraged.

8.  That still leaves unresolved the issue of the "Fagland mentality", the lack of self-worth and the drug use which can - and does - operate independently of the ghetto's existence.  We don't claim to have the answers - although we blatantly suggest looking at our landmark series, Principles of Faggotry, which apparently pissed off (and delighted) fags. 


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