Gay Sauna Etiquette 13

It Isn't All About The Fucking

As gay men, we should be more flexible than that, and reorient our thinking to an attitude of: Sex includes any physical contact that is erotically stimulating.

It doesn't always have to focus on our dicks, and it doesn't always have to lead to orgasm. We're attracted to men, so let's enjoy the entire male body. You can have a beautiful, even spiritual encounter (FuelMix – snickers) by spending a couple of hours passionately making out, or touching/licking each other's bodies in sensitive areas like the feet or armpits or ears or inner thighs, or massaging each other, or rubbing dicks together while staring in each other's eyes, or doing some role playing, or thousands of other things.

These acts can be just as hot and satisfying asa cold, impersonal fuck. These things will be much less likely to cause a trip to an STD clinic! Don’t limit yourself. Be imaginative about what sex could be rather than mindlessly imitating the sex in porn flicks.

FuelMix says:

Agreed.


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