Private Glory Holes

From a reader:

Dear FuelMix

I've noticed repeat ads on CL in HK by white guys providing service via a  private glory hole in their apartment. Is this something you would trust?

FuelMix says:

Nope.

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Frustrations And Trends

Received from a reader:

Hi FuelMix

Lately I've had some lousy experiences in the saunas around town and thought I'd send you an update.

1.  Galaxy

Still as grubby as ever with even more Mainland Chinese guys. This is definitely not a place for the goodlooking or the hardbodied.  Age wise seems to be 30s and up.  Don't get me wrong I have nothing against older guys - it's just Galaxy gets them in such huge amounts and they're not even good looking.  To use your phrase they're FUGLY. (Although I agree Fugly can come in all ages too).

The place gets packed every evening between 3pm - 9pm, sometimes so packed you can't even move in the dark areas.  But there's nobody hot to play with!


2.  ABC

So out of desperation I went to ABC across the street.  OK the GAMs are marginally better looking - but only just.  But they come with waaaay too much attitude and that's a real turn off.  There's a lot of Stand And Model there.

It does get a variety of nationalities and while I was there, I saw 5 white guys who seemed to be in their 30s.  They were OK to look at, and as you earlier said in your blog, they looked like standard Central Escalator clientele.  Some of the white guys hooked up with each other, others tried to hook up with the GAMs.

Again, pretty disappointing and that pop/dance radio station they play is just awful.  Hadn't been to ABC for a while and just can't figure this place out.


3.  Follow Me

I was curious to see what this place was all about since you slammed it in your reviews. I went early in the week around 7pm. Whoa.......now I know why you slammed it......  There were just 4 GAMs there.  One had a nice tanned muscular body but he was so full of himself he told me and the others not to sit near him !!

I left after 20 minutes. 


4.  QQ Fitness

I hadn't been there for ages, must have been over a year ago so dropped in on a Thursday evening about 6:45pm  to check it out.  About 10 people all GAMs.  There was one very attractive brown guy maybe Pakistani or something with a really muscular body.  The other GAMs were circling him a lot and touching him as he walked by.  But that was it.  I could see wedding rings on the GAM's fingers so maybe that had something to do with it. The hottie didn't stay long.

Even though there were 10 people there, there was not much of a vibe. It's open 24 hours but not sure whether it actually gets hot guys who show up regularly.  Won't be going back there for ages.


5.  Gateway

I hadn't been to Gateway in over 3 years and after my experience at QQ decided to drop in.  I thought it couldn't get any worse.  I was wrong.............There was just me in a towel.  

A few minutes later this GAM with a US accent shows up. He opened his locker but remained fully dressed and then sat in front of one of the computers checking out the Mainland Chinese escorts on gayhk.com

OMG........The place was deserted.  Spotless and immaculate but virtually empty.  The staff were eating cookies and watching TV even though the place is supposed to be open till 1 a.m.

I left after about 30 minutes.


6.   The Great

This is the 24 hour one in Tsim Sha Tsui on Austin Road.  What a fuckin' disaster even at the end of the week after work. 3 GAM twinks, one in the TV lounge yapping on his phone, the other 2 vibrating in the massage chairs.  The place was so dead they'd even turned of the porn in the private rooms.  I'm thinking "WTF.....?"

The only exciting thing there is the jacuzzi.  You can play with the controls.

So there you have it, pretty lousy experience all around. Maybe I just picked the shitty ones...??


FuelMix says:

.......well...., Yes and No......

Gateway and ABC have nice premises and some people actually think The Great is nicely decorated too.

But by and large, the clientele that would show up at your 6 choices would be Fugly or attitudinal -  or in the case of Gateway, non-existent.  (And that's been an historical observation with Gateway - just ask any fag around town).  As for Follow Me, the less said the better.

Underneath your frustration there's a more serious point.......just what IS showing up at the saunas these days......?

The Trends

1.   More and more fugly married men for starters and not just GAMs. You're definitely not the only one to notice wedding bands on pudgy fingers.

2.   Then there's the Mainland Chinese infestation of Very Rich Megacity Anecdotally, many of these "recreationally gay" Mainland Chinese are married and word gets around that Galaxy is the place to go.

3.   Who hasn't noticed the expatriate Indian and Pakistanis from the UK and South Asia ?  They're showing up at ABC, Action, Alexander, Big Top, CE and Galaxy. This trend kicked in over 2 years ago and is set to increase.  Are they Out to their chauvinistic conservative families or their soon-to-be-arranged wives.....? Nah.....

4.   Expect more ex-European Union types falling over themselves to get here.

5.   Noticed the number of Russian tourists wandering the streets of Very Rich Megacity? Everything gay is illegal in Russia.  Here's a prediction........it's only a matter of time before Russian guys start showing up at the gay saunas in VRM.  You read it here first.  This blog is already being read in Russia.

6.   FuelMix is still waiting for the majority of his readers to twig that the gay sauna reviews are as anthropological as they are anatomical.

"Magnetic Hot Spots"

Whilst there's no shortage of venues, there is a shortage of "magnetic hot spots".  Sure, it's well known that ABC gets white guys but it's also well known that they're similarl to or in many cases, the same people, who show up at Central Escalator.  Are they hot...?  Nope.

Even at the "magnetic hot spots" circuit of saunas, one sees the same faces and muscular bodies ad nauseam. And it doesn't matter how long the gap has been since you last dropped into the place. It's Deja vu caught in a loop of attitude and discount entry.  Somebody once remarked that if you go into a sauna Dark Room and everbody knows your name, you're over-exposed.

The fag mantra used to be, "So many men, so little time".

FuelMix suggests, "So many men, so little choice".

Thanks for the updates.

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Unholy Trinities

As more fags continue to be traumatized products of a broken home and as Faggotry continues to stress casual anonymous sex, it will become increasingly difficult for a fag to form a lasting intimate relationship with another man (in the absence of an overhaul of his emotional intelligence).

Therefore, all this screeching about Gay Marriage is a con and a set-up. It's a manipulated controversy on both sides knowing damn well that the actual take-up rate for Gay Marriage will be minimal and the failure rate probably high.

This is because at his very core, the fag is conflicted on 3 fronts:

• Historical Emotional Baggage;
• Quantity of Cock; and
• The search for a man of quality;

  - with no psychological, emotional or social criteria to guide him.

In  other words, the fag simply cannot make the quantum leap from Hedonism Now! to Sustained Accountability and Responsibility without massive self-discipline.

And that self-discipline is also under attack from 3 fronts:

• Social Ghetto Proof ("everyone I see is fuckin' around and partyin");
• Fag Peer Pressure;
• Technology;

Faggotry has done a stellar job of emasculating the gay man, under the guise of empowering him with the inducement of Gay Marriage. That so many gay men are being fooled by an "Equality" argument, is testament to the ingenuity of another set of unholy trinities:

• Gay activists and celebs looking for a cause;
• Gay Media looking for relevance and a story;
• Politicians looking for politically correct votes;

The inducement of Gay Marriage merely acts as a marker between what a fag may do (marry) and what he will do (sex / drugs / after-parties / add your favourite diversion).  Without incremental self-discipline, human nature kicks in and leads to the phenomenon of Reversion To The Mean.  Like overblown financial markets that have to crash to find their true level, when the chore of self-discipline, emotional intelligence and relationship-building gets too much, the fag will revert to what he knows best...........

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Just The 2 Of Them

The fat white fag and his much younger slant eyed fuckette with “Bottom” written all over him, gingerly entered the gym. Ruddy-faced, balding, corpulent and with teeth as orange as the sunset, FuelMix surmised the fat white fag was English. By contrast, the much younger,  slant-eyed squeak toy was wispy and noodle thin. Fuck him too hard, he’d probably break. Then again, being oriental, there was probably bamboo in his genetics, in which case, fuck him too hard, he wouldn’t break - he’d just bend.

The pair surveyed the gym hardware like 2 housewives grocery shopping. Touching here, sniffing there, pointing at that, checking for weight and texture, a quick feel and a lift, followed by a nod of approval.

As often as FuelMix had spied fags in gyms around the world, this was the first time FuelMix was forced to admit that there really was an effeminate gay way of working out. It wasn’t pretty, but it came across as Voguing-With-Weights-meets-Ballet Trocadero-meets-heavy sighs-and-gasps.

It was very visual. The fag white fag was out of shape, the slant-eyed fag had no shape. Each was as pathetic as the other in tone and technique. Which is probably the same that could be said for them in bed. Which is why there were a perfect match for each other........

FuelMix stopped...........

Who was he to judge compatibility........?

What did FuelMix actually know about them? Fuck all.

It was just as possible that their relationship was a match made in heaven as a match made in  a gay sauna. (and more matches are made there than a fag might think). They seemed happy in their space. So what if they had “FAGS" screaming out of their pores? So what if the straight guys looked at them and sneered? So what if their technique and physiques sucked?

FuelMix read somewhere that we are all perfect in our imperfections. Yes, even the generic fag. They have perfect bodies, small minds, damaged intellects, dysfunctional emotional intelligence and a crippled spirituality. All by design (and choice).

Gazing at those 2 apparently mis-matched fags in the gym, FuelMix realized that they were presenting a perfection that was inherent and purposeful.  Like the sneering str8 guys, FuelMix had confused perception with reality.

Originally published 22 June 2010.  
Republished 4 November 2011.
Amended and republished 15 February 2013. 

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Flushed Out

A thief who preyed on the gay community in Soho for more than a decade has been banned from every public toilet in central London....................

Westminster City Council, with the support of the Metropolitan Police, is thought to be the first authority in England to gain such a court order. It means that Charles Omishore, 32, is banned from the entire West End and a central part of Camden for the next five years and specifically cannot enter public toilets in the area.

Westminster Magistrates’ Court granted the order after hearing about a string of offences in which Omishore typically pick-pocketed his male victims while engaging in sexual activity and then making off with wallets, mobile phones and other valuables.

The court heard that Omishore routinely targeted men in Soho bars, public toilets and the rose garden in Hyde Park.

In total Omishore has 22 convictions dating back more than 10 years for a range of offences including theft, fraud, drugs and bail offences. He has been convicted for possession of drugs including crack cocaine and heroin and has been arrested several times for smoking crack in public telephone boxes in central London.

........... Westminster City Council’s crime reduction team and the Soho Safer Neighbourhood Team are now circulating public awareness posters around the West End with photos and information about Omishore, warning people to call the police immediately if they spot him in the exclusion zone. 

 ---------Predator of Soho finally barred by "public toilet ASBO", Westminster City Council website, 11 February 2013

The mofo is just too ugly to grace the pages of this blog, but click on the link to check out his mug.

Hmmm........shouldn't someone tell Grindr et al......???

(We suspect that the publicity generated by the above, will send scores of "curious" men to every public toilet in the Exclusion Zone - to use the facilities, of course).

Bold type and underlining by FuelMix.

Image copyright: williambanzai7

Death of a Gay Ghetto 6

Vancouver's Dirty Gay Secret And Why They're Talking (Again)

(underlining by FuelMix)
  
But times have changed. In the past five years, Canada has seen far fewer gay travellers visiting from the United States. In 2008, Community Marketing Inc, a San Francisco gay travel research firm, reported that 27 percent of its self-selected pool of gay travellers had visited Canada in the past year. Since then, that number has dropped by half, even though overall tourism has slipped by only 10 percent.  

Vancouver has fared even worse. From 2006 to 2008, Community Marketing’s research showed Vancouver to be the most popular gay destination in Canada for American travellers, leading Toronto and Montreal by a small margin. In the last two years, Vancouver has fallen to third place. 

And there are other small warning signs. Among both American and Canadian travellers, Vancouver lags behind Montreal and Toronto as a city with a “gay-friendly reputation” — a vital measure of strength in the gay tourism industry

 ------Destination Has-Been: Why Vancouver is losing its share of gay travellers, Xtra, 17 January 2013

Hmmm........that's interesting........ We are ahead of the curve on a number of fronts. Not long ago, we did a 5 part analysis of The Unravelling of Vancouver's Gay Ghetto (and know for a fact that it received a healthy number of readers over there - none of whom commented directly on the blog - must've been something to do with this blog's policy of disallowing anonymous or venom-laden spew).

So let's see.......notwithstanding hosting the 2010 Winter Olympics, the legalization of gay marriage plus gorgeous coastal and alpine scenery, Vancouver is sliding in its ability to attract dollars and dicks.

Xtra's article lists some factors on which we comment:

1.    Since 2007, an historically strengthening  Canadian Dollar versus the US Dollar - and a weak US economy - has made it incrementally more expensive for Americans to come to Canada. 

Agreed - subject to the caveat that a gay man needs to travel.  It's like cruising with a suitcase. If they're allegedly shunning YVR, then irrespective of the macro environment, something must suck in YVR.


2.    Tourism Vancouver's shift from direct gay advertising in favour of psychographic marketing. 

In other words, this is the replacement of "hey fag, come to YVR!" with, "hey guys (str8 or otherwise) here's what you could do in YVR" - to which we would boldly add, "......if you can make it past the druggies, the homeless and the panhandlers and not get pissed off in the process."

To be fair, Xtra's article also points out that Tourism Vancouver's gay promotion budget has come back to 2007 levels, although that is less than other Canadian cities such as Montreal and only slightly higher than much smaller cities like Halifax, Nova Scotia.

We think that  given the drug-fucked, debt-ridden, diseased specimens of errr......"manhood" staggering around the 2-Block (and shrinking) epicentre of YVR's Gay Ghetto, the decision to concentrate on psychographic marketing makes sense. What rational choice did Tourism Vancouver have? 

Honestly, if the men aren't worth bragging about, move on. We don't blame Tourism Vancouver.  They needed to reframe the advertising context and they did - effectively making the YVR fag invisible. 

That's not a bad thing. It presents the YVR fag with a window of opportunity at "Qmmunity self-analysis"...... *barf*, *barf*, *puke* *hysterical laughter*........yeah, yeah we know..........it's the West Coast........we occasionally pander to political correctness.


3.    Gay travel research showing that gay men don't care about the destination - but demand that the destination care about them.   Xtra's article doesn't elaborate on this in the context of YVR, so we will:

YVR's gay scene is neither sophisticated, cosmopolitan nor varied. Small time 20-something hustlers or badly ageing queens fleeing from small towns and broken famlies in Alberta, Manitoba and Saskatchawan bring their insular mentality and bigotry with them.

The urban landscape of YVR's gay ghetto is sad. How such a tiny area can be so run down for so long is surprising. What message does THAT send to a gay tourist?

Near Zero choice of quality gay venues and events - and even those are allegedly in the stranglehold of "promoters" who "add value" by drug dealing and bad mouthing or sabotaging the competition. Yeah........that's gay friendly all right, just what a gay tourist needs to know and hear - with the unmistakeable stench of poppers and pervasive criminality.


4.    The fickleness of the gay traveller.  What's hot today is so over tomorrow. 

We agree - subject to the caveat that YVR was NEVER hot. It was at best microwaved but never cooked because the dish had no substance to begin with.


5.    The need for tourism authorities to work with the "gay community". 

In contrast to Vancouver, Tourism Montreal not only buys ad space, but actively funds gay friendly events and attractions. 

Quoting from Xtra's article (underlining by FuelMix):

“It’s important that we work closely with our local community, because they are the ones who create the community which people are going to see when they’re here,” says Tanya Churchmuch, who manages gay promotions for Tourism Montreal. “We can’t have a really insular gay community and then tell the world to come and visit. They’re going to be disappointed."

Did we mention Vancouver gays have a really fucked up insular mentality.....? Yeah, we did. 


6.    The need to incubate and finance new ideas.

We agree.  

But Vancouver's insular gay mentality and history of rampant corruption, fraud, conflict of interest, silly turf wars, lack of accountability (or prosecution) and drug-fucked complacency, are symptoms of a gay societal culture that is going to need more than another Big Party or brochure to cure.

The 2 fundamental questions to be answered are these:

• Is Vancouver's gay community worth keeping?
• Is Vancouver's gay community worth promoting?

 In its present condition, we would answer, NO.  

Conclusion

For the record, we have nothing to gain by gratuitously bashing Vancouver's pathetic gay scene. However, we feel that Vancouver presents a text book example of How Not To Run A Gay Ghetto. We are witnessing a gay paradigm in its death spasms.  Like a comet sighting, they don't come along very often, but they are always harbingers of the future.

Anyone who bothers to read this blog's 6 part analysis of Gay Vancouver, will realize that we have provided not only the road map, but the solution.

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No Endless E-mail Tags 2

So......here in Very Rich Megacity, on Craigslist's M2M pages, there are constant references to "no endless e-mails", "no back and forth e-mails", "no hundreds of e-mails", "no e-mail tag"

Sounds clear enough, right?  But what does this actually mean?

(1)   That there is a serial disconnect between those advertising and those responding - even though their apparent motives may be the same:

1. curiosity 
2. horny and jet lagged in their hotel
3. horny at the airport
4. drug-fucked and sleep deprived
5. allegedly drunk and attempting to summon courage
6. allegedly str8 but curious or allegedly bi-curious
7. simultaneously surfing porn, chat rooms and Grindr (sometimes on multiple devices simultaneously)
8. desperate
9. signed up with an account on CL to use the "renew" function  and thus drive their ad to the top
10. placing concurrent ads with identical or slightly differing stats to see who bites and hopefully hit on a winning copy whose formula they can replicate
11. passing themselves off as escorts to salvage some monetary value on all the historically wasted time
12. jealously - and meticulously - deleting those ads from professional escorts with better looking pictures - who may, or may not, also fall into categories (1) to (12)

(2)   That so many ads now contain an explicit prohibition on e-mail behaviour, suggests that like anything else a fag gets into, his actions are chronic, addictive, frustrating and destructive (in this case, of a hookup).  Therefore the more he does it, the more the fag validates Einstein's definition of Insanity, which is the doing of the same thing over and over again and hoping for a different result.

(3)   That so many ads now contain an explicit prohibition on e-mail behaviour, suggests that this one trait - regardless of looks or cock size - is a deal breaker.

(4)   The stunning irony is that a fag using a site geared for instant hookups AND technology that delivers instant responses, CANNOT score  AT ALL - based on the twin failures of not knowing when to commit and not knowing when to shut up and walk.

(5)    In other words, the technology is fully functional, but the fag is entirely dysfunctional. And that is further clouded by any number of categories (1) to (12) above. At the most fundamental level, the fag is cruising on the information highway while impaired.  A crashed hookup is the logical result.  But instead of taking stock, the fag merely acts out Einstein's defintion of Insanity..............and continues driving while impaired........until the next crash.........repeat ad infinitum and ad nauseam.

......and so the fag on the receiving end has to hang out the "no endless e-mail" shingle. 'Coz he's seen it before and he's sick of it.

See also No Endless E-mail Tags 1. 

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Follow Me Sauna 6

Shop B, G/F, No. 9 Old Bailey Street
Central
Hong Kong

Tel: 2810 0144
Web: http://203.86.167.152/ads/FollowMe/

Received from a reader:

Hi FuelMix

I went to Follow Me on a Friday afternoon about 5pm.  Hadn't been there for a very long time and I thought well Fridays after work might attract a crowd. Not sure how to put this but counting me there were 3 people. One was chain smoking upstairs. The other was a Mainland Chinese who was on his mobile phone having a loud argument with somebody.

Stayed about 30 minutes before feeling I was going nuts with boredom. I actually fled to Central Escalator knowing fully well what I'd find there.

I hear that Follow Me is "supposed to get busy" on Friday nights and Saturday nights.  Is this true?

FuelMix says:

Well if it is, no reader has yet come forward with a credible report for publication.  Its alleged busy times are either one of the best kept fag secrets in town, or a total urban myth.

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Memo to Fags 20

To: Fags
From: FuelMix

Bi-curious str8 guys have got it just right............by refusing to be part of the politically correct "gay community", they have removed themselves from being part of the problem.

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Talking To Adam 4

Put it this way........I'm between 18 and 21, so I'm certainly legal age. Technically, you could call me a twink. I finished High School and I've just started college.  My English is pretty good, as you can tell and I'm proud of that.  It opens doors for me............particularly sexually.  So I keep practising it a lot.

Family-wise, my life is shit. My parents divorced.  My Dad hates my guts and I hate his. Even from an early age, he'd give more attention to my brothers and sisters and just ignore me.  When he did look at me, it was just to point and say, "you're so queer.......you must be retarded......go to hell."  We never connected at any level.  I didn't have to come out to my Dad - he already knew and hated me for it. I don't remember getting guidance from him in any way. I got that from an older sibling who took pity on me.  So I studied hard to get through High School and into college.

I'm glad my parents divorced.  My Mom knows about me.  She just went really quiet when I told her sometime ago.  Our relationship is OK.  I come and go as I please.

Growing up as a gay kid at home with a totally hostile Dad, was really bad.  He'd actually say it to my face that I should just stay outside.  Considering I was a kid who didn't have any money, I felt helpless and unwanted.  The only thing I had going for me was my looks.  My friends at school used to say I should be a model, but I started to get other ideas.............

I knew I was pretty good looking, I knew I was gay, I knew I could speak much better English than the other local guys, I didn't have any money and I didn't have a home that felt like a home.  It was an easy decision for me to cash in on my looks.  I started sleeping around with older white guys when I was in  high school.  Yeah.......I was that young and I didn't care that I was well below legal age.  

How easy was it?  I'd just go online, say I was a young guy looking for a much older white guy.  Sooner or later some older white guy would start a private conversation.  I'd say that I was a student looking to learn about life.  Not one of the white guys online tried to talk me out of it.  They'd get really excited about meeting up. Those were the early days of the internet and chat rooms. There weren't any monitors or administrators and that kinda control stuff to keep young kids off. Maybe there should have been.

When we did meet and they saw how young I was, for some reason, that just got them more excited.  Even meeting me face to face, not a single one of those older white guys told me to go home and wait till I was legal age.  Asking them for money was much easier than I thought.  And they'd pay me just to shut me up.  I discovered it was a way to get cash and  attention.  I always got the impression that these older white guys had done this before.  I'd see some of them several times a month and walk away with cash that I could buy clothes and stuff with.  I like dressing up and looking like a model.

As I got better at it, I started to steal from them when they were sleeping.  They were much older than me so they'd fall asleep quickly after sex. I'd have a shower, get dressed, steal cash from them, leave them my number and leave.

You know what the joke was......? Either they didn't fuckin' care or they didn't know, or they were too scared to confront me because of my age.........and they had my phone number which they'd use to arrange another meeting..............what a laugh !! I had several older white guys from whom I was getting money out of twice at each encounter................one for my "services" and one from theft. I think I had a lot of money for a kid of my age.  

One time I went on holiday to Thailand with an older white guy.  He paid for everything.  Since it was a long weekend, I just told my parents that my school friends and I were going for a trip. It was easier than I thought.  I had enough cash anyway so luckily, I took some with me.

We got to Thailand and I got a nasty shock.  The older white guy had arranged with other older white guys to get some Thai boys.  Basically I was just one of many being gathered for an orgy or being passed around for 3 days.  There were drugs there too.

I can't explain it.............for the first time, I got really frightened. I told the older white guy I didn't like this idea. He got very nasty with me and told me that I owed him this since I was his "regular". He was abusive and pretty threatening saying that he could blackmail me or report me to the Thai police and stop me from leaving the country.  I hadn't seen this side of him before.

I freaked out and started crying. He didn't give a damn and started playing with the Thai guys. The drugs were being passed around. I ran out of the room, back to our hotel room, grabbed my passport (the older white guy had the air tickets), my wallet and my clothes and rushed  down to the hotel Reception.  I told them I had a family emergency and had to leave Thailand immediately. The put me in touch with a travel agent downtown and helped me change money from Hong Kong Dollars into Baht to pay for the ticket. 

I went down to the travel agent, picked up the ticket and took a taxi to the airport. I had to wait a couple of hours for the flight. I was terrified that the older white guys had said something to the Thai police to stop me from leaving.

I got back to Hong Kong safely and told my parents I had food poisoning and wanted to come home.

That incident was a wake-up call for me. I still can't explain why I got frightened.  Maybe it was the realization that I didn't have the power or the looks that I thought I had. The older white guy came back to Hong Kong a few days later and left threatening messages on my voicemail.  I never saw him again.

I lied a lot to my parents.  That's the price you pay when you don't have a family life.  Sometimes I look back and feel a little sad about how much I lied and deceived them.

I still see older white guys, but that incident in Thailand makes me see them in a whole different way. Sometimes, I'll charge them for my "services", other times not. I'm much more careful around them, but they're still easy for me to pick up, even on the street.

Even though I'm just a college student, I look around and feel old when I see High School kids now. They really do know a lot more about sex much earlier.  It's true..............Sometimes I wonder how the gay ones will turn out..........hustling, sex, lies and theft was a real thrill...............and then some old guy took me on "holiday" and lied to me.

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Evolution Of Camp Comedy

Produced in the late 1990s in the UK, an excellent documentary hosted by Bob Monkhouse tracing the very gay evolution of Camp as a comedic style.

Entitled, What A Performance! it features an analysis of some of the great British gay camp actors (sadly now dead):

• Kenneth Williams
• Frankie Howerd
• Larry Grayson
• Gerry Desmond
• Sid Field
• Hugh Paddick
• John Inman
• Kenny Everett

When one hears Bob Monkhouse at 3:16 say:

"Camp has been with us ever since God said, "Let there be light.........entertainment. If your jewellery is immoderate, your language outlandish, your manner ostentatious, if you strut, flounce, prance and generally overshoot the mark.........sweetie, you're camp"

....you know it's gonna be an hour of your time well spent checking out this video.

Gay Rape 1

The Myths of Male Rape

"But why has male sexual assault been so often marginalized in many societies?   According to a provocative new literature review recently published in Psychology of Men and Masculinity,  the problem may stem from various “myths” surrounding male rape.    The review authors, Jessica A. Turchik of Stanford Medical School and Katie M. Edwards of Ohio University,  focus on a series of common rape myths that often prevent male victim from reporting their assault and can even make police officers refuse to take their complaint seriously.   The myths include:

• Men cannot be raped
• “Real” men can defend themselves against rape
• Only gay men are victims and/or perpetrators of rape
• Men are not affected by rape (or not as much as women)
• A woman cannot sexually assault a man
• Male rape only happens in prisons
• Sexual assault by someone of the same sex causes homosexuality
• Homosexual and bisexual men deserve to be sexually assaulted because they are immoral and deviant
• If a victim physically responds to a sexual assault, he must have wanted it."

----- When Men Are Raped, by Romeo Vitelli, Psychology Today, Media Spotlight, 7 October 2012

And thus begins a new series on this blog.  Hetero and homo male rape (inside and outside the prison system) is extensively covered in academic literature. Often, the authors bemoan the lack of reliable statistics while alluding to the embarrassment and reluctance of male victims to come forward.


The Big Picture

So, the Big Picture looks like this: the rape of women is (slowly) being reported more sensitively with Crisis Centres and the criminal justice system coming around.  At least that might be the case in some Western countries.  Perhaps Asia, Africa, the Middle East and Latin America have a long way to go on that score.

But when it comes to male rape, with the exception of high profile reporting of the sexual abuse of under age males, Male Rape is still subject to the myths listed above and might often be met with derision and disbelief.  As per the quoted article:

"Whatever the cause, persistent attitudes about male rape are found in large segments of the general population and can have devastating consequences for men who have been victimized.  Not only are victims far less likely to report the crime but those victims courageous enough to come forward can face a horrendous lack of support from the criminal justice system and even from those agencies that provide assistance for female victims of sexual assault."   

Looking at that list of "myths" one word comes to mind:  Denial.

 
The Gay "Community"

And denial is a feature in which "the gay community" absolutely excels.  How often has Lamestream Gay Media or gay establishments (whether in the West or East) squarely faced the issue of gay male rape?  The truth is gay male rape holds an intense fascination - particularly in a sub- culture that encourages predatory (think really aggressive cruising), anonymous and promiscuous sex.  That's why there's so much gay porn fantasy about it.

What Lamestream Gay Media and Faggotry cannot confront is the multiple collision of Myth, Denial, Hedonism, Anonymous Sex and Drugs. These factors conspire to create the facilitative paradigm within which gay male rape blurs the distinction between fact and fantasy.  

The entire gay sexual ethos is a numbers game based on instant availability, usage and instant disposability.  The notion that there could be a real person in there being physically and emotionally scarred, is a technical distraction.  That's when usage and disposability become exploitation.

If the whispered conversations and anecdotal evidence suggest that gay male rape is more widespread than the average fag will admit, would it be an overstatement to say that gay male rape is regarded as par for the course or in some wierd way, a rite of passage?  Is that why some fags show distinct signs of emotional shutdown as their standard operating procedure?

In gay S&M culture, the use of "safe words" to indicate that play has gone too far is encouraged - and in some gay S&M clubs, play is actively watched by independent monitors whose decision is final.  But in generic Faggotry, there are no such "safe words".  So when does meth-crazed group sex in the Dark Room of a sauna turn to gay gang rape?

And by whose chemically impaired definition........?? 

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Super Gonorrhea 2

Well, isn't this interesting......? In an earlier post entitled Super Gonorrhea, FuelMix referred to reports that a strain of Gonorrhea resistant to cephalosporins (an orally administered antibiotic) had been detected in Hong Kong, China and Australia.

Now, according to a report in US News dated 8 January 2013, entitled First Antibiotic-Resistant Gonorrhea Cases Detected In North America:

"The fears of major health organizations have come true: Gonorrhea that is immune to the last remaining effective oral antibiotic has been detected in at least nine North American patients, meaning the era of "incurable" gonorrhea could be close."

 (underlining by FuelMix)

Apparently, out of 133 patients treated in Toronto for Gonorrhea with a round of cephalosporin and called back for a "test of cure" visit, 9 were found to still be G Positive. The above article does not elaborate on gender or sexual orientation, but G is apparently the world's second most common STD. Both the WHO and the CDC had warned that untreatable G would be soon be a reality, as lab tests were showing increasing resistance to cephalosporin.  It's now a reality.

Whilst the 9 patients were ultimately cured by an injection (emphasis added) of another antibiotic, ceftriaxone, here's the kicker:

"there's been "a parallel increase" in resistance to that antibiotic......... The next threat is when, not if, the same thing happens with ceftriaxone. And then what?"

For for thought......? Check out the readers comments to the above article and in particlular, the call to establish an STD Registry with geographical locations of the infected.  It's not as batty as it sounds.

When one surveys the increasing (and very deliberate) regulation of private activity in the West (courtesy of the banksters now engaging in broad based surveillance to monitor the (catastrophic) results of a debt-fuelled (as opposed to a value-driven) economy, FuelMix declares it's only a matter of time that STDs will become another commodity to be regulated, registered - and then marketed as a financial derivative. That's because- when there's an STD Registry, the underlying collateral "asset" (the infected throat and oozing dick) can be geographically located and identified.

Gross you out......???  Guess you fags don't remember the notorious (and profitable) Viatical Settlements of the 80s and 90s.  Essentially they were bets on how long a fag with AIDS would live.

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