The Shift

FuelMix was chatting to 2 urban fags in World Class City, whose opinions he occasionally respects. Both made the point that they were changing their dating habits i.e. deliberately not looking for sex on the first few dates, and actively discouraging it.

FuelMix pressed for a reason, pointing out that fags think and act with their dicks. Their response was eye opening: Both felt that these NSA meaningless fucks were changing their personalities for the worse.

“How so?” asked FuelMix leaning forward in his seat. He was already plotting to blog this one.

“I became careless with money”, one fag muttered, “I threw it around to get attention, get a cock in my mouth and move on to the next one.

“Besides”, he continued, “I felt kinda insulted when they’d just fade away afterwards. I’d be a bitch for days. I was caught in a bind. I knew it was a date, sex was expected, but it was still NSA – but he was in my bed and in my life for that little while – it was a weird feeling – I’d felt a part of me had been ripped out and I’d got very little back. The whole dating with sex and NSA felt totally meaningless. It just seemed a combination of contradictions”.

“Oh this is good”, thought FuelMix, “gonna fuckin’ blog this for sure”.

“Yeah”, said the other one, “I was finding it real difficult to tell the difference between dating and having regular, NSA fuckbuddies. One kinda became the other, but I don’t know which came first, so after a while, I didn’t know what to expect, how to respond, we were together, but were we an item or what?”

“What got in the way?” asked FuelMix

“Sex” they both replied, matter-of-factly.

“So what’s the upshot of all this?” enquired FuelMix.

“I guess you need to set some boundaries, you know parameters. Kinda define something new for yourself, to protect your sanity. It’s about respecting yourself and the other person, but also making sure you get the respect you deserve”.

FuelMix gulped down his drink, grabbed his backpack rushed home to blog this for his fascinated readers’ edification and contemplation.

© 2007 Fuel Mix All Rights Reserved

Behaviour Modification

The Reuters website is reporting today, 12 April 2007, that Gonorrhea in God’s Own Country is now officially a “superbug” –resistant to all but one class of antibiotic drug. The CDC will no longer recommend fluroquinolones to treat it, because of the emergence of drug resistant strains.

As yet, there is no evidence that Gonorrhea is resistant to the remaining antibiotic, cephalosporins. However, doctors are concerned about their ability to treat it since no new drugs are being developed.

Fluroquinolones-resistant G is now widespread amongst heteros, after earlier being rampant amongst fags and bi-fags. The CDC is recommending an injectable drug called ceftriaxone to treat G in the genital, anal and throat areas.

G is already resistant to penicillin and tetracycline.

Highest reported rates are amongst sexually active teenagers and young adults (time to re-think twink sex?) and like HIV, the disease is seen disproportionately in niggas.

Proper condom use is being suggested.

*sigh* FuelMix has over the last few years embarked on a condom policy for about 95% of the time when getting sucked. FuelMix is no saint, but tries his best. Nothing beats the sensation of a warm wet mouth on a hard cock with no barriers. And latex isn’t exactly tailor made for oral sex.

But the reception from potential sucker fags has been mixed. It ranges from acceptance, particularly from HIV fags who disclose their status upfront, to outright ridicule:

“Oh my god, if I wanted to suck latex, I’d be chewing a dildo”; or
“get OVER it” ;to
“Well, aren’t WE the little princess?”)

And, truth be told, FuelMix does feel like a princess in his pretty pink condom on his pretty famous cock. But what else is there to do when the stats speak for themselves? And when does risk analysis cross the line into risky?

Once again, FuelMix is reminded of the words of personal development guru Anthony Robbins, who said something like:

“Wisdom is the result of Good Judgment.
Good Judgment is the result of Experience.
Experience is the result of Bad Judgment"

There's no shortage of well-meaning fag organizations advocating "safer sex" (FuelMix's phrase). But there's a shortage of a Critical Mass of fags willing to take individual and collective responsibility for their sexual choices - when it counts. C'mon face it....which fag hasn't been caught up in the heat of the moment when confronted by a fag whose sole purpose on Earth was to be skull-fucked? Maybe one day FuelMix will offer a king’s ransom to figure out just who or what is taking the joy OUT of sex.

What next? Body condoms?

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One Sex Fits All ?

A curious report on CBS 5 San Francisco, dated 4 April 2007, available online at http://cbs5.com/health/local_story_095011907.html

Says that fags in San Francisco are requesting the standard 3-dose vaccinations of Gardasil, a prescription intended to prevent the spread of human papilloma virus (HPV) in women, which can cause cervical cancer.

Gardasil was approved by the FDA in June 2006 and has been widely administered to women and young girls.

Now, fags and bi-fags are requesting it to prevent anal cancer and penile cancer, both caused by HPV the report said, quoting Jason Riggs of San Francisco’s Stop Aids Project. Apparently anal cancer amongst fags and bi-fags is 35 times higher than that of the general population.

There is however, an absence of published data that the vaccine works in men.

Fags interested in doing their own research can go to the “Links” section of this blog and click on “CDC – STD Facts – HPV & Men” and also scroll down to StopAIDS.org

© 2007 Fuel Mix All Rights Reserved

Someday My Prince Will Cum

It had to happen sooner or later. The Reuters website is today reporting that the Walt Disney Co will allow same sex couples to marry via its Fairy Tale Wedding Program, which are available at Disneyworld, Walt Disney World and on its cruise line.

Previously fag couples were allowed to organize their own weddings or commitment ceremonies in rented meeting rooms at the 2 resorts, but were specifically banned from buying the Fairy Tale Wedding Program or using locations within the 2 resorts specifically set aside for the Program.

It should be pointed out that part of the problem lies in the location of the 2 resorts – California and Florida. Neither permits nor recognizes fag marriages. Therefore fags were unable to obtain a marriage license, which thereby excluded them from buying the Fairy Tale Wedding Program.

It also appears that Disney’s change of heart was due to its criticism on the site AfterElton.com and the realization that they’re not in the business of making judgments. Let’s not forget Disney’s long standing policy of “Gay Days” and its provision of health benefits to same sex partners of employees.

The Fairy Tale Wedding Packages start at US$8,000.00 and include a wedding planner, the ceremony, food and beverages, flowers and table decorations.

If the happy fags opt for the Lavish Wedding Option, they would get a ride to the ceremony in the Cinderella Coach, costumed trumpeters heralding their arrival PLUS Mickey and Minnie Mouse, dressed in formal attire.

(FuelMix is trying really hard to keep a straight face on this one)………………

It all seems strangely Freudian. Sealing a fag relationship in front of mice is good practice for the day that one or other of the fags smells a rat………………

© 2007 Fuel Mix All Rights Reserved

Man ! What A Rush !

It’s always been a source of bemusement to FuelMix why so many fags need chemical enhancements during sex – from 420, poppers, pills, crack to whatever.

Fags use words like “high” or “rush” or “hit”. They claim it lowers their inhibitions.

But does a fag really need to lower their inhibitions? This is a sub-culture that has sex in public toilets, staircases, back alleys, saunas, playspaces, bars, video arcades, cruisy beaches, campgrounds, warehouses, locker rooms and gym showers, to name a few places.  That's a pretty clear indication of the absence of inhibitions.

Seems to FuelMix that the bedroom is often the last place fags have sex. So if a fag claims that chem lowers his inhibitions, FuelMix suggests that’s bullshit. The fag is confusing the lowering of public inhibitions with the increase in the predilection to take sexual risks. There is a huge difference.

Fags like to bandy about the phrase “recreational drug user”. FuelMix laughs when he hears it. It conjures up images of a mindless fag ingesting, swallowing, smoking, sniffing or snorting something, while thinking he’s getting invigorated. “Re-creation”is actually synonomous with rejuvenation. And a fag on chem is doing anything but rejuvenating. In fact, he's deliberately and methodically wrecking his brain and his immune system in the name of pleasure. Probably explains why some fags on chem, look pretty awful in daylight.

"Recreational drug user” is often used in the context of sexual play. FuelMix wonders whether that implies chem-fuelled fag sex is just a vehicle for addiction. Sounds harsh doesn’t it? In reality, a “recreational drug user” can’t be anything else except a part-time addict.

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